Emotional affair started a month and a half ago.

Found out right away.

Lying, crying, and what seemed like reconciliation followed by a 180 and her wanting out (and her professing love for her EA).

My wife of 13 years is/has always been very level-headed. We hardly ever fought. Divorce is filed. Conversations now are reserved but cordial. We are currently discussing kids schedules. We agreed to split everything (whats mine is mine whats yours is yours), no child support no alimony 50/50kids and reaffirmed that a few times.

Thing is, she found an apartment and signed super fast. Is basically throwing away a lot of things she used to love to get there (She used to babysit dogs, she cant do that in an appt. She's giving up a dog bc she can't take it with her. She loved fostering puppies and is handing off the ones we have asap so she can move).

I know the affair fog is strong but I'm terrified that as soon as she moves out she's going to turn into a viper and come after me for whatever she can. Like I said I dont see it in her nature but...I didn't see the possibility of this either. With all the nightmare stories out there, any good ones like this that did end ok? Is there anything else I should get doing just in case?