Am I a pos…

captainchippsixx · 2023-09-07T21:24:11+00:00

Divorce her today man. She doesn’t respect you. Therefore she doesn’t love you. You must a resource daddy to her.

Old-Macaroon8148 · 2023-09-07T23:15:00+00:00

Abandon ship before you get her pregnant.

NotUsedUsernameYet · 2023-09-07T21:23:38+00:00

Knowing this why did you marry her?

Character_Hippo90 · 2023-09-07T22:51:33+00:00

Not a POS. She is and the most sleazy kind. Don't look back.

DatabaseSpace · 2023-09-07T22:37:51+00:00

Get out of it now because you the longer you stay married the more you are going to lose. Family law will make you finance her having sex with coworkers for years and there are no consequences for adultery. There’s a reason she doesn’t want you around when she’s doing that stuff.

pk2at · 2023-09-07T21:52:58+00:00

Are you reading what is being written here? The marriage certificate is a noose around a mans neck. There are ZERO advantages for men to sign on the certificate. Irrespective of your love or cohabitation status, you need to legally separate from her!

MNCPA · 2023-09-07T22:02:34+00:00

My ex would go in 6-8 month cycles where she would find a new target where she was the victim or the hero.

There's peace now, mostly. We have kids, so that causes an issue.

Divorce might be good for you.

KamRogg · 2023-09-08T01:42:43+00:00

Divorce her yesterday

the-don-carlo · 2023-09-08T11:35:18+00:00

Annulment now

henrysmyagent · 2023-09-07T22:12:56+00:00

If this woman is your "soulmate" then I have to ask:

How did you pissoff God that he saddled you with this horrible woman?

Unless you are ripping off old ladies, or kidnapping children, then I think you deserve a better "soulmate."

Divorce thus train wreck of a wife, and get some therapy to discover why your self-esteem is so low that you settled for this low-character woman.

Do not date until your self-respect returns.

Nuggy-D · 2023-09-08T00:29:09+00:00

I mean, there’s a big difference in partying and what you’re talking about. If she went out very 8-ish months and partied, no big deal imo. But if she’s with a bunch of dudes acting single and not coming home until seven, there is probably something more nefarious going on and it’s time for her to change, or you to leave.

She’s taking your kindness as weakness and maybe it is, I don’t know, but if things are as they seem, she doesn’t respect you.

RedDeadSea · 2023-09-08T01:56:24+00:00

If someone can go 24 hours without talking to you (Unless it's an unavoidable circumstance) that clearly means they're not invested in you, in a way that you are invested in them!

Move out of that marriage. FAST.

upvotersfortruth · 2023-09-08T06:26:02+00:00

is it too late to get an annullment?

GreenUse1398 · 2023-09-08T09:55:20+00:00

Classic example of the female "rules for thee but not for me". Would she accept you behaving this way? Of course she wouldn't.

You're not a POS. You did exactly the right thing. If you didn't, she'd just keep pushing your boundaries more and more.

animalx3 · 2023-09-08T12:45:34+00:00

You can’t fix her. You can’t change her. If you’re here asking you are already hurting. Don’t get her pregnant and get a counselor then chat w then about my first two points and make your choice

mikedeatworld · 2023-09-09T00:23:25+00:00

If you want one like her, there's plenty more out there.

If you're questioning it, posting and looking for validation you know the correct move.

I'm all good with my wife staying out late, but she's never once stayed out past when she said she'd be home and is in constant contact and vice versa...

Trust is easily all lost. Once it is gone, it's gone.

Dontgetmarriedever · 2023-09-09T13:54:33+00:00

Your not a pos bro.. we try to let things slide because we “love them” and don’t want to look weak or jealous because that’s not what confident men do.. this is a case of blatant disrespect. And her not trying to apologize or at least assure you everything is ok is fucked up.. even if she didn’t hook up with some dude that night. 7am/ and no call or anything? Highly suspect. Leave her to the streets bro. There are plenty of other women out there that will be good to you…… for a few months. Have some respect for yourself. She belongs to the streets now. Don’t say shit to her. Get the paperwork going Monday morning. Plan your exit.

summersky14 · 2023-09-08T10:32:01+00:00

Why would you even ask?? She’s a disrespectful cunt that is probably cheating. Leave now. She doesn’t deserve another moments thought.

sicrm · 2023-09-07T23:12:58+00:00

every eight months she would spend the whole night out partying…drinking with male coworkers and putting an available impression out on social media…I asked her when she does those things just to stay in contact with me and let me know what she was doing…last month I woke up at 4 am to her not at home and not answering my calls

you’re being too nice.

that much niceness gets views as weakness and she’ll keep pushing things until you’re even more boiling frog’d than you are now.

koolaidkid12345 · 2023-09-08T06:12:56+00:00

Make sure you finger/smell that pussy and see if it smells normal or not. Bet there has been some other dick up there. This is NOT normal behavior of someone in a omitted marriage. If you want to try an experiment.. why dont YOU go out all night, dont call her, nothing, just go to a hotel or whatever.. come home at 7am, trashed (or fake it), and see what she does.

But yah, there is no reason for marriage any more. Stay bf/gf if you want, but dont lock in. I would annul that shit asap.

Puzzleheaded-Cook857 · 2023-09-08T01:12:05+00:00

Kick that ass to the curb..

knight2e5 · 2023-09-08T10:12:28+00:00

You gotta go on and get, brother. Been there; it is not worth the pain of holding on too tight.

Don't try to change her, or convince yourself it's fine. Just let enough be enough and start to heal. Sorry about this happening to you. Stay strong and do the right thing for yourself long term.

INeverSaidThat89 · 2023-09-08T17:02:43+00:00

Grap the ejection handle and get out now.

Liberated-Inebriated · 2023-09-08T21:23:29+00:00

Does she have Borderline Personality Disorder?

F_b_s_40944 · 2023-09-09T10:58:51+00:00

Divorce her today. She’s not a partner you want. You’ll do better.

And NO, you’re absolutely not a POS.

Omnicodex · 2023-09-10T23:56:40+00:00

You better RUN. You will be sorry if you don't, if this goes any further and turns out terrible. It'll be your fault because we all warned you. Don't let the "love" tinted glasses keep you blind and stupid. Run. Run Now!

Title	Am I a pos…
Author	Subjectzero710
Upvotes	36
Comments	43
Date	September 7, 2023 9:20 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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