What type of men do women not date because she is insecure or intimidated by him?

I've often heard women say that men won't date certain women because they are intimidated by those women or because he's insecure. Usually it's brought up when talking about financially successful women, women with high body counts, or women who post sexy photos or do stuff like onlyfans.

It got me wondering. What is the women's version of that?

Who is the guy we can look at and say, "He's not getting many dates because women are intimidated by him". OR "He's not getting many dates because women are too insecure to date"?