My girlfriend wants to move in with me, and after lurking in this forum for a while, I've become more cautious about the prospects of long-term relationships in general.must express that she is an amazing woman, and it was love at first sight for me. Winning her heart wasn't easy, but her love meant the world to me. I could go on about her, but that's not the focus right now.Recently, I faced a significant financial setback, losing nearly a million dollars of my own and borrowed money. I'm now starting from scratch and relocating to a new state in pursuit of a more prosperous future. At 36, I feel the need to have something for myself. My girlfriend is a nail artist at an upscale salon, and I'm unsure of her income, I don't think it is anything substantial.However, my love for her is undeniable. She's only 25, and I'm concerned about whether she'll commit to the long term. Moving her to a different state might entail covering her life expenses and beyond. Durring our dating period, it was always me who pays for dinner, tickets, gifts, and she never gifted me a signle thing!and only once offered to pay for dinner.The truth is, I don't want to give up on her, especially considering her kindness and how well she has treated me throughout our relationship. The thought of parting ways and the possibility of her being with someone else devastates me. On another note, despite her claims of love, I have some doubts. Small things like infrequent texting and the way she express love is just different, I don't see the excitement in her eyes I saw with others. Our communication seems limited to planning weekend dates but when we are together, I feel like I am the center of her world!Taking her with me could potentially impede my personal growth as a man, possibly leading to our eventual breakup. Ending things with her would crush me, and I'm uncertain if I could cope without her.Perhaps in a few years, when I have established myself and worry less, the timing might be better. However, I'm doubtful she'll still be around, and I'm not sure if I'd want her after she's been with other people.I know many of you have a lot of wisdom and golden advise to offer as nearly everyone here been in this situation and a breakup. I am sure you all though she was the one.

After hearing about the job opportunity she asked me to wait for her for two months so she finish all the work she has pending to leave with me and not move before her! which might result of me losing the position I was offered alltogether.

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Also very important, If anyone know a trick to put her love into test, I would love that. I tried have a friend she doesn't know flirt with her and she was loyal, her phone and social media are also clean! Maybe I am just naive and don't see the red flags!