The last year has been an impossible road with lots of lows and not so many highs. The divorce proceedings started a year ago with things being finalized in October last year. I managed to get joint custody and am currrentky renting after being bought out of the house that was our family home.
I went out with some friends to a bar last weekend and I met someone. She asked me if I had kids and I instinctively said no and she high fived me.
We get on so well and we will go on holiday together for 5 days in April! At what point should I tell her I have kids?
For me I wanted to give it a chance with her to see if there is a future before dropping what I feel is a “bomb shell”
Any advice would be appreciated 😊
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