She told me I can do whatever I want to her

swissarm · 2022-04-03T16:13:21+00:00

Dominate her. She asking you for that.

kathruins · 2022-04-03T16:36:02+00:00

get creative. give commands. pleasure her, then fuck her. it's called being dominant.

MudFlaky · 2022-04-03T16:04:31+00:00

She literally told you what she wants, and you're asking US what she wants? She already told you.

Nullroute127 · 2022-04-03T17:07:27+00:00

What it means is she wants a bit of power play.

It also means she trusts you and she wants to yield all control to you. She's basically wanting to let go completely and give you the ability to steer to boat so she can focus entirely on the experience.

As for specific tips. Try giving her explicit instructions, "Get on your knees and unzip my pants." "look up at me" "Beg me for permission to worship my cock"

You can also ask flirtily if she's hinting at being tied up, or she's hinting at a roleplay scenario.

Whatever you do, do not shame or react poorly to anything she says. Ask questions if there's something you're concerned about.

paperpablo · 2022-04-03T16:47:49+00:00

Mate get her to do the dishes

Aggressive_Crew1995 · 2022-04-03T16:36:33+00:00

Take initiative and be assertive. She wants you to lead and is willing to follow, hold it down!

2022-04-03T16:19:54+00:00

Just control the situation bro. Ex. I want you in the bedroom in panties on your knees. Go in there a few mins later, tell her what to do. I fail to understand how this is hard to understand. Sounds like you hit the jackpot, dont fuck it up.

AbortedSandwich · 2022-04-03T17:22:04+00:00

Take advantage of the situation and make her do your taxes

Ok_Commission1263 · 2022-04-03T18:02:50+00:00

Nigga people say anything over text and phone in person it's different but if in person she got the same energy then do wtf you want

Gaengaz · 2022-04-03T17:11:40+00:00

Let your arousal and sexual desires for her decide it. When you see her. Take charge, put her in the position you want to. Make her go down om you, go to poundtown. Bring oil. Eat her out, say dirty things, pin her down...

Take proper care of her afterwards, cuddle and hugs etc.

Mundane-Currency5088 · 2022-04-03T16:41:00+00:00

Before you do ANYTHING, OP... Talk to your GF and clearly agree upon two things:

A safe word. It has to be something crazy, something you wouldn't say normally during sex.

A safe signal. (Double finger guns kills the mood quickly... But it has to be something your GF can do quickly and in any form of panic.)

Now go have fun.

merchant_of_mirrors · 2022-04-03T17:30:19+00:00

These are my favorite words from a woman. I like getting kinky and dominant so it's great when the girl is down. She wants to please you, figure out what you like and go to town

Webgiant · 2022-04-03T17:36:09+00:00

Since you aren't in person and it's purely Theater of the Mind, you can do whatever you want.

Bear in mind that consent goes both ways, and doms have hard and soft limits on what they are willing to do to subs. Don't just say you'll do something that makes you uncomfortable just thinking about you doing it to her, just because she wants you to "go farther."

Also, she trusts you and you've been talking about her phobias and similar things, right? You have some idea about her hard and soft limits, respect them. If something is too much and she says so, back off to a point where she was enjoying herself. Then remember that limit later.

Ideally you should arrange a safe word that stops everything (and honor it), and have a full and frank discussion about hard and soft limits as soon as possible, if she's still interested in this kind of play later. Especially if in person. Imaginary bruises heal way faster than real ones.

2022-04-03T18:08:45+00:00

General IQ of this sub is falling down

Fun2badult · 2022-04-03T17:11:57+00:00

She’s submissive. Tell her like, get on your knees, put this in your mouth and suck it like you want it…bend over and grab her hair and do her from behind, etc. she just want you to take control, not ask questions and do whatever you want with her. That’s what she’s asking

Wehavepr0belm0 · 2022-04-03T17:10:57+00:00

You should cook her a really nice meal, and then clean her place. It will take her completely off guard, and then tell her that you want her to be the best version of herself and that you want to enable that by making sure she is in a clean healthy environment—that’s what you want to do to her. Then, and only then, you will completely have her.

RPEdmonton · 2022-04-03T17:44:14+00:00

Grab her but the root of her hair and slam her into the bed room door (doors are better then walls as they absorb a lot of the impact so you can realistically do it with lots of force). Tie her arms up with your shirt or pants. Bit her lips. Vigorously lick the inside of her ear as far as your tongue will go. Have her spit on your face when she’s riding you. Kiss her cheek gently three times then throw her over. Put your belt around her neck like a leash. Lick her face. Randomly cum without warning on her ass, tits, face

Dirty talk.

Keep it swinging between emotional love based talk and dominant possessive talk. One second tell her how much she means to you and how much you care about her the next tell her that pussy is all yours and she’s your girl and she better do what you say. Make it as random and chaotic as possible

Mundane-Currency5088 · 2022-04-03T17:25:45+00:00

Face down ass up

gibsongirl2020 · 2022-04-03T17:53:54+00:00

Start light and get more dominant and then if she wants to stop she's tell you.

If that's enough for you for one session but you still want to do more next time decided to ask her about it and come up with a safe word

Forward_Moment_5938 · 2022-04-03T18:12:52+00:00

Nothing crazy, just let your primal dominant animal out

She doesn’t want a specific act, she wants you to be in a feeling, a mindset

2022-04-03T17:15:26+00:00

Pick her up, throw her onto the bed (safely). Tell her to get on her knees and suck your dick. Stuff like that. A lot of girls like to be submissive to at least some degree, and if you can't, she'll find someone else who can.

DanielFromCucked · 2022-04-03T17:44:11+00:00

You're overthinking it. Instead of thinking about it feel it. Think about how fun it would be to throw this girl around and do whatever you want with her. And she loving every second. Just think with your dick here.

strikerx07 · 2022-04-03T17:17:05+00:00

I would try spanking, light choking and hair pulling during sex (maybe one of those at first)

VazAdvice · 2022-04-03T17:49:33+00:00

Bro, it means she's having submissive tendencies. Most feminine girls have those. They secretly fantasize of being dominated (to different degrees) in the bedroom. Some women (and men) even want that 24/7 in the relationship. So... Do some research on BDSM and "how to dominate my girlfriend" etc. Read some books on the topic. And whatever you do, do it with confidence. It's better to do something stupid yet do it with confidence than not doing anything and looking insecure. That's her biggest turn off, if you don't have the balls to do anything out of insecurity. Risk looking stupid, better than the former.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-04-03T17:12:41+00:00

Watch 50 Shades of Grey and take notes

genoherpasyphilaids · 2022-04-03T17:46:54+00:00

I believe the point to take home from this is...

As long as u can butter her up again, it doesn't matter to her what u try on her(within reason).

Again, main point for u should be, get her nice and horny. The rest will follow

DoughnutRunescapeCup · 2022-04-03T17:29:17+00:00

Ask her if she’s done the same with other guys

Then imagine them doing it to her

Live-Ad-6309 · 2022-04-03T18:17:03+00:00

She wants aggressive, assertive sex. Take what you want and do it while you imagine yourself as an alpha male Silverback gorilla.

Ok_Flounder2795 · 2022-04-03T18:23:26+00:00

Degrade her. she will love you FOREVER

2022-04-03T18:45:01+00:00

Damn if you have to ask someone else for advice, your days are numbered. Just a heads up...

youcanneverbanme · 2022-04-03T17:05:07+00:00

Pin her down when you’re on top and then eat her asshole. Then stick your finger in her ass and put it in her mouth, then kiss her and tell her you love how much of a dirty little slut she is

Doopdoopbeedoop · 2022-04-03T17:11:50+00:00

There are hundreds of videos on YouTube to help you with that. Search how to dominate my gf in bed, you'll have plenty of suggestions. And it takes time, to read and or listen and learn, to practice, mess up and succeed, to sync both your tastes together, so be patient and mostly : Communicate. About every new thing, get feedback, open up and be vulnerable. Being a dom is a tough but rewarding job.

feedthekitty · 2022-04-03T17:54:59+00:00

Do whatever you want. If you feel like dominating her, go for it. If you don’t, she should also respect your boundaries. That’s a hall pass to do you. She wants to see how you get down.

cxa3296 · 2022-04-03T18:21:06+00:00

Maybe get a collar and some soft cuffs. Would you like to see her in any sexy Halloween outfits? Maybe get some of those also.

sassycrier · 2022-04-03T18:23:35+00:00

I generally agree with the comments here but I also would like to add that, if you’re not comfortable doing what people here are recommending, it’s okay to communicate that. I like to be submissive but would be sad to know my partner felt uncomfortable just because it was my preference. Domination is something you have to enthusiastically consent to doing as well. It’s not for everyone and that’s okay!

Communication is always key. Have fun!

Pires007 · 2022-04-03T18:33:25+00:00

When you see her in person, at a time where she's not super horny, tell her she was really hot when she was being submissive. Then ask her what she was into and have some of your own suggestions and preferences too.

AffectionateCry7957 · 2022-04-03T18:34:47+00:00

Manhandle her? Hair pulling? Probably.

Renshato · 2022-04-03T18:35:49+00:00

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FlatDistance5 · 2022-04-03T18:39:12+00:00

Put a blind fold on her put her in handcuffs, put her on her stomach with her ass in the air, and eat her out from behind. Don’t let her cum.

At least that’s what I would think that she meant

Sliti666 · 2022-04-03T18:41:48+00:00

Well i just started FWB with girl, that is into that shit.

Choking, choke her, choke her a lot. Many girls are into it - if she is comfortable with it, use things around you, pillow, plastic bag (just be careful).
Slap her - ass, face - start easy, if u see she is into it, u can smack harder.
Order her things - i often tell girls (while I finger them) to look into my eyes (most of them wont) soo i smack them and ask again.

El_arizona · 2022-04-03T18:52:02+00:00

Corn hole her

sMarvOnReddit · 2022-04-03T18:52:17+00:00

go ask r/bdsm

AlexKarter · 2022-04-03T19:15:43+00:00

Wtf happened to this sub

korkdaddy69 · 2022-04-03T19:16:07+00:00

Don't ask her for a different position during sex, adjust her or flip her over to get desired position.

Try different things, choking might not be the best place to start if neither of you have ever done it. However, put your hand with a firm grip around her neck if she reacts positively add a little more pressure. Also, run your hand behind her head into her hair and grip her hair firmly at base of hair and pull her head back, if you can do that mid stroke on way in its a good place to start.

Also, play with her, explore her body. Nibble, lick, pinch everywhere. The more you explore the better

You have to feel her out.

SuaveFuck · 2022-04-03T19:40:22+00:00

treat her like filth. tell her that shes filth. slap her, go as rough as she pleases.
BUT: make sure she DOES enjoy it. whenever theres a STOP IT, then you MUST UNDER ALL circumstances STOP IMMEDIATELY.

and....dont forget to cuddle with her afterwards ;) after all you do love her.

TuhTodayJr · 2022-04-03T19:56:53+00:00

Just grab her and do as you please.

wordssmatter · 2022-04-03T20:23:40+00:00

Bro your asking us how to dominate your girl. We don’t know her like you do. Be aggressive, assertive and make her do whatever you say/want. Punish her if she doesn’t listen, light taps. You should have an ideal of things that she wouldn’t like, anal or something.

Skylarias · 2022-04-03T21:16:03+00:00

Please don't listen to all these porn sick losers telling you to choke or physically harm your girlfriend.

Have a discussion with her first, before sex. Agree on a safe word or when to stop.

Talk about what she wants done to her, what she's curious to try, what she knows she likes.

Don't just go in there trying to act out a bdsm scene when neither of you are on the same page.

Title	She told me I can do whatever I want to her
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Date	April 3, 2022 4:00 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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