Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!

Aquileone · 2021-07-27T00:04:13+00:00

This has certainly worked for me in job interviews. The question pounding in my brain has always been: Do I really want to work for this person? (I've always insisted on meeting with the actual boss I'd be working for.)

So I see no reason why it wouldn't work in dating as well. This seems so obvious that I'm smacking my forehead right now for not seeing it earlier. Thanks for this.

Later edit: Thanks for the upvotes. I've been thinking about why I didn't see this a long time ago. I guess I just instinctively find the female form so awesomely attractive that I never thought past it. But no way would I work for a crappy boss just because I got to do it from a high-rise corner office with a panoramic view.

In other words, when it comes to the opposite sex, I've got to stop being blinded by the outer form. I'll go find some cake I can live with too.

DaydreamingMister · 2021-07-26T21:51:40+00:00

women will FEEL your willingness to walk away…

This is what wound up causing a cutie to realize I was ending the conversation to continue on my way down the sidewalk… so she asked for my phone number (which surprised both me and her) before I could get away. Ended up being the best dating partner of my life so far.

2021-07-26T23:49:24+00:00

Yep, the Tony Robbins courses make you do this stuff as well. He talks a lot about how our culture is fixated on how “finding my other half” (implying you’re incomplete) and this creates a scarcity mindset that plays against you.

He talks about how relationships are meant to amplify the human experience, not add to is. Going through the MUST HAVES and MUST NOT HAVE daily so that you’re well aware of what to filter out the moment you see it and fore your attraction leads you astray.

_theMAUCHO_ · 2021-07-27T00:18:05+00:00

As a guru I admire once put it:

"The power of detachment."

2021-07-26T22:08:49+00:00

Great advice. Faking confidence just doesn’t work… not really. Eventually the mask slips.

Amazing-Intention-11 · 2021-07-27T01:56:31+00:00

Great post for the seduction community to see.

I can sum it up to say-

You ask girls questions that make them prove there worth to you. From here, they’ll actively try to sell themselves as a desirable being. If some of those traits are intriguing to you, than try to bring the encounter full circle.

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2021-07-26T21:52:38+00:00

Admins will do every possible thing to not to promote such a posts ever.. get thumbs up from me👍

Ps: no need to go that deep. Just have options available to gain abundance mindset

LakersAreTerrible25 · 2021-07-27T15:26:23+00:00

This won't work because women have easy access to sex. Even the top guys have to work to get it. So, if you're a regular guy and do this then she'll certainly never chase you. The only time she will is if an attachment is built over the course of months. Be a man and make the move

SmokingBeneathStars · 2021-07-27T06:48:36+00:00

you're turning her into the prize to be won - you've forgotten that while she has value - so do you.

Whenever I say something along those lines in other subs I get downvoted to hell

Peachmuffin91 · 2021-07-27T01:21:21+00:00

This is the most gold thing I’ve seen on here, I’ve already started being like that but everything you said confirms what I’ve been feeling.

Famous_Durian · 2021-07-27T08:08:00+00:00

Great post. I’d just like to add that another good thing about leaving girls that are not interested is that you save lots of your time, energy and emotions. I remember way back when i’d be so, so overinvested in girls that didnt feel the same. It sucks because it becomes like a drug. Like i’ve invested tons of emotions that when i saw her with another guy i’d literally start shaking, feeling like shit, i’d start crying because she was (my drug) was taken away from me in a heartbeat even though she was never even mine.

Nowadays i am very careful about how much i let girls get from me without giving anything in return such as interest towards me, intimacy, sex and such. I will never, ever give without getting back again.

australopitecul · 2021-07-27T14:11:46+00:00

They will FEEL that you are screening them - and that's HEALTHY - they should be screening you too if they know what's good for them.

Facts. People like you OP are adding great value to this sub.

DieAfterEveryComment · 2021-07-26T22:40:37+00:00

Don’t do it. Please don’t do it. Cause one of us goes in and we all go through it. Cause Drizzy’s got the money, so Drizzy’s gone pay it. Them my brothers i ain’t even gotta say it, it’s just something they know.

CanadianTurt1e · 2021-07-27T01:28:04+00:00

This will not work in the modern age lol. You want to play hard to get? She's got 100+ guys in her DMs ready to gun her down. If you're not high value, she's not going to miss you or chase you. Let's be real here.

This will not work for average guys. I'm not saying you have to continue to chase her down and simp for her, but lets not delude ourselves into thinking that a pretty woman (most of which are career oriented women nowadays) will waste her energy chasing an average/above average guy. This only works for high value.

OGdrogo · 2021-07-27T02:47:40+00:00

What if a girl is exactly what you want but doesn’t like you back ?

theAliasOfAlias · 2021-07-26T23:52:35+00:00

Mofucka you right

SaltyFatNuts · 2021-07-27T06:23:48+00:00

Man I couldn’t do this I’m ugly as hell

tiger_bee · 2021-07-27T11:37:53+00:00

As a woman, this right here is 100% true. It’s not like women will automatically want you when you pretend not to like them, it’s just that we notice this particular trait in a guy, or mindset, whatever you want to call it.

I am so sensitive to other people’s attraction and when I am around a male who is not openly gay, I notice it before anyone else because I can sense this blankness coming from him, if that makes sense.

I can definitely sense that confidence and security in a man who is not there for a chance to hook up or flirt, but a man who doesn’t “need” it and can walk away. That is attractive.

flyredditguy · 2021-07-27T02:41:35+00:00

It’s a form of reverse psychology and yes my dudes this is accurate advice! It’s like a customized game of chess.

Hi_Panda · 2021-07-27T01:32:18+00:00

as a woman, I approve this message. makes it easy to weed men out.

WholesomeChonkerino · 2021-07-27T03:25:01+00:00

How to build banter skill?

Slight_Tell4642 · 2021-07-27T06:40:07+00:00

In a nutshell, don’t reveal yourself to be a desperate man and don’t get attached to a particular woman as it would make you unattractive. Is that what you mean?

iiexistenzeii · 2021-07-27T08:21:57+00:00

Remindme! 1hr

Charge36 · 2021-07-27T03:12:11+00:00

For whatever reason when I try this girls will think I'm being an asshole if they don't match what I'm looking for, and they'll think I'm too eager if they do match. If they're not interested it seems qualifying won't change that

okayokayokay9reddit · 2021-07-27T01:29:25+00:00

Yest

Stormrak1993 · 2021-07-27T11:07:52+00:00

This is a great piece of advice.

This I figured out myself a long time ago too. It also helps you with your own confidence and if you were to walk away, you will know you have done the right decision because you wouldn’t have fit together anyway.

Ps: some of my traits that are a must have in a women for me is: - Be able to be silly with each other and joke around. (Have a laugh) - Have an interest in their exercise. - Hygiene. Massively important for me.

watchmeroam · 2021-07-27T04:46:10+00:00

I have the answer for you on how to get a woman to like you...and here it is: Show her respect.

It's as simple as that--be respectful.

GroundbreakingBus138 · 2021-07-26T22:43:20+00:00

Or get a girlfriend...get married....lol....

thelambofdeth · 2021-07-26T21:58:26+00:00

Clickbait

combatmonk · 2021-07-27T13:49:03+00:00

This is Gold

greyman0425 · 2021-07-27T21:09:48+00:00

I agree with the OP. Every guy should asking screening questions.

To all you guys saying it won't work, what's the the point of being with a woman you are not compatible with or who will only use you as beta bux because she can. Let some other fool fall on that sword.

Slowing things down and screening also has other multiple positives:

Not the least of which, you will have a better chance of screening out the crazies.
She will be more at ease if you are not all over eager.
It eliminates the to get the girl only the guy must win her over mind set. She has to win you over as well.
It resets some of the power imbalance in dating. That job interview is now two way. It doesn't matter if she is the only woman in a room full of thirsty guys, by having standards you will always have abundance.
You won't be like all the other suckers out there.

So honestly I don't see a down side

Jewel-7etup · 2021-07-28T06:46:39+00:00

Wow... i just got back into the dating game and as a women...Thank you for this discussion. I really needed this life advice.

DesperateForDD · 2021-08-12T16:51:57+00:00

How do you get over the hotness though?? Sure she might not meet traits like being intellectual or whatever but she could still be really hot.

I guess you really have to get 5 hot girls numbers a day to be able to filter the way you say. The problem therein is that most of us work full time and there is no time to get that many #s a day

Title	Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!
Author	djdante
Upvotes	1037
Comments	107
Date	July 26, 2021 9:44 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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