Some girls just flat-out suck

stuie382 · 2021-04-24T06:51:54+00:00

It's almost like they are human sometimes...

/S

amljc0 · 2021-04-24T08:06:03+00:00

So as guys. Wtf is this post?

cunningcaring · 2021-04-24T08:26:42+00:00

True. And some women feel the same way about you.

chomblebrown · 2021-04-24T09:55:09+00:00

my phone also inserts random "oh," when I'm voice dictating

causeNo · 2021-04-24T09:02:04+00:00

To all the people complaining about this post: This is a message people who struggle with connecting to women "that way" really need to hear.

Yes, this also is true for guys. Yes, to a lot of people this is kinda obvious. But for a lot of men who struggle with connecting with women it is not. And furthermore, the belief system behind that is one of the main things why they are struggling.

I used to really believe women were somehow better than men (or me). And I had a problem with my feeling of self-worth crashing instantly to the ground by a rejection of a woman. And that was because subconsciously, I believed they were better and had the power to evaluate my worth.

It was not a logical or conscious thought, but subconsciously I had this image of women being these mystical creatures with super-senses being capable of assessing my worth as a man with their laser eyes (I'm exaggerating a little here, but you get the gist). I used to (and still sometimes) take their snobbish aloof behaviour as a reflection of my character.

For you, it may be obvious, but for others, especially beginners, this is an important message!

Not: "Women/Girls suck". Not "I hate women/girls"

But: "Women/Girls are human just like you and humans sometimes just suck. Ergo, Some girls simply suck". And everything that follows from that: There's nothing you could have done. Don't be fooled by her outer beauty. Don't take it personally. Don't believe you're worth less because some asshole in female form was rude to you.

EDIT:

Holy fuckin' meatballs! Thank you for the silver!

mogturney · 2021-04-24T13:34:19+00:00

It’s almost as if women are more than just something nice to look at

mrgraie · 2021-04-24T08:40:18+00:00

The same can also be said to guys though. Some people just flat out suck, not just some girls.

Nearby_Competition_2 · 2021-04-24T07:06:35+00:00

And others swallow.

Psynaut · 2021-04-24T06:32:37+00:00

My sister was schizophrenic and had Borderline Personality Disorder. This was a blessing and a curse. On the one hand, I never put pussy on a pedestal. On the other hand it takes me a really long time to trust a woman isn't crazy, or else she needs to be extraordinarily open and vulnerable in her personality.

KitaiTravels · 2021-04-24T11:32:14+00:00

Take responsibility brother. What I read in your post is frustration that you didn't get the (friendly, attracted, agreeable) reaction from her that you would have desired.

Be aware that the reactions you get are largely affected by the energy you put out. And your post contains a lot of negative energy. So maybe have a look at that.

However, there are certainly instances where someone else simply doesn't treat you well, no matter what energy you put out. In those instances I suggest you react with empathy and understanding. She might be insecure, unhappy or frustrated and simply hasn't found a better way to share it with the world.

Have empathy with her and wish her well no matter what she does in return. This again does a lot for the energy you put out and in itself will improve the reactions you get.

The number one principle in all human interactions is always kindness.

JenyaJalysia · 2021-04-24T15:23:00+00:00

It sometimes depends on how you approach a woman/girl. I’m not saying this is your issue but a lot of guys like to approach women with material things and get upset when they see that’s the only reason that woman is with them. I get the guys that start a conversation with “I can take care of you”, they would tell me about every single thing they have, some would even ask me what’s my cash app. I posted my cash app on my Facebook page for my birthday and a couple guys from Tinder found my post and sent money( not on my birthday). I politely sent it back because i knew they wanted something in return. There’s a lot of women who would actually take it and pretend to like the guy just so he could keep doing it. Another mistakes I think some guys make is not taking hints. If you’ve inboxed her 5+ times without her responding, she doesn’t like you. That’s really annoying and seem a bit obsessive.

Alarming_Reality_784 · 2021-04-24T11:52:07+00:00

You need a better red flag system my friend.

-WolfieMcq · 2021-04-24T10:40:10+00:00

The flip side is also true.

humptyone · 2021-04-24T11:40:17+00:00

Those are the girls to stick with. The ones that suck that is lol

Harper_1482 · 2021-04-24T16:07:02+00:00

Lol.. what’d you think.. having a vagina was a magic portal to a great personality hahaha

MacinTez · 2021-04-24T17:27:45+00:00

OP is right

I’ve been with a lot of good people that happen to be women.

I’ve been with a lot of shitty people that happen to be women.

Just because you’re women, doesn’t mean you’re above being a rude, shitty person, therefore I can definitely come to that conclusion about you, especially if I made the effort to find out via a small/brief conversation.

Plus, a lot of you guys are coming to the same conclusion about OP simply because of this post.

6elixircommon · 2021-04-24T11:51:44+00:00

A: Some girls just flat-out suck

B: so? so are men

alternate universe..

A: Some boys just flat-out suck

B: yeah couldn't agree more (forgot to mention 'so are women')

RoseAvara · 2021-04-24T13:25:59+00:00

Im bisexual

can confirm, some people can just suck in general, man, woman, non-binary, whatever.

better to just let go of the toxic ones

GhettoProhpet · 2021-04-24T08:54:15+00:00

It's the type of girl you go for this is the problem with me men we go for girls who looks are off the charts knowing dam well how those girls think

GuerreiroAZerg · 2021-04-24T14:16:26+00:00

Usually men suck more, and I say it as a man

bandsupjay · 2021-04-24T10:10:20+00:00

Thats the pretty girls thinking they dont needa personality

Republic_of_Ash · 2021-04-24T10:21:14+00:00

No point being butthurt about it, just carry on until you find someone you do vibe with. But if you keep finding the women you're attracted to "suck", then maybe it's time to look at yourself.

donaldtrumpsmistress · 2021-04-24T14:31:07+00:00

The worst example I can think of is girls who ask for a drink then dip as soon as it comes lol. If you actually think about it that's some seriously antisocial behavior

existentialdrama · 2021-04-24T10:26:08+00:00

r/justneckbeardthings ?

150420throwaway · 2021-04-24T11:37:39+00:00

There’s sucky people in every race, country and in both sexes.

siddcole · 2021-04-24T14:21:15+00:00

Bro y'all on this Reddit shxt soft af

EAT_MY_ASS_MOIDS · 2021-04-24T07:59:08+00:00

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aaronj5467 · 2021-04-24T11:47:46+00:00

And sometimes swallow

AbbreviationsMany816 · 2021-04-24T16:14:14+00:00

A woman could be bland and boring but think her looks offsets the for mentioned.

CoffeeandMJ · 2021-04-24T07:02:13+00:00

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030Rare · 2021-04-24T15:02:10+00:00

u got Ratioed

Snoo5902 · 2021-04-24T15:32:52+00:00

If you think your xyz time with said girl was a bad time, chances are she thought so too

bribor · 2021-04-24T15:33:59+00:00

Yep. Exactly

401kisfun · 2021-04-24T16:07:15+00:00

I have zero attraction to girls I cannot have a deep conversation with. Usually about happy stuff.

gimanos1 · 2021-04-24T16:17:03+00:00

Took me 5 years with a woman to realize this. Now I’m in therapy

UnforgivenRegret · 2021-04-24T16:30:01+00:00

Dont worry when you get married they stop sucking.

amambamorgan · 2021-04-24T16:42:36+00:00

Can confirm, I suck.

blatherskiters · 2021-04-24T16:48:44+00:00

Imagine looking at a new Ferrari that is on sale for ten grand . You drive to the location you bring a check for 10k and your ready to purchase some Italian HP with hand stitched leather seats and a flawless ruby paint that reflects your grinning face back at you. Now you turn that Ferrari on and it doesn’t even crank. So, you pop the hood and see that everything was taken out of the engine compartment. On further inspection it’s missing the transmission and it doesn’t have a tittle. That’s you. A dumbass that thought he was going to trade minimum time and effort for the best thing in the world. You need to wake up and stop projecting your needs and wants onto a blank canvas that you don’t know.

mintcoffee2 · 2021-04-24T17:24:42+00:00

She's either wacked out or cracked out

2021-04-24T18:07:43+00:00

Thaf can apply to anyone due to lack of character...

Title	Some girls just flat-out suck
Author	ahowls
Upvotes	293
Comments	108
Date	April 24, 2021 6:04 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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