So this is going to be long, so I'll try to format it so that you can skip to the section that most interests you if you don't want to read.

a) Introduction

So at 20 years old, I hadn't kissed or slept with a girl. Not to say girls hadn't tried to kiss me, but I always wanted to wait for something super awesome, which kept me from making any moves. This girl and the situation were so absolutely perfect, I had no excuses, and took it all the way.

In high school, I was incredibly unnattractive: body, personality, the works. I started learning and reading about seduction as a hobby, and although I never really had any interest in being a PUA, I thought it was a fun social experiment to try and see how much of an attractive person I could become. So I really began to buy into the self-improvement and inner game aspect of seduction. Of course, along the way I learned a lot of outer-game tricks and tips that I rarely used (simply because I never took things past a few dates, and never kissed). Tonight was absolutely different as I used nearly everything I learned to help guide the interaction to the outcome I wanted. But to avoid getting ahead, fast forward from high school, and I'm now 2 years into college. I'm an attractive guy with a fairly attractive body, an attractive personality, solid friends, good career, generally know what I'm doing but still nothing spectacular. I'm a 7-8/10. I'm able to meet new women with good success (but don't really feel comfortable cold approaching with success), and generally able to get people attracted to me, get dates, with consistency. I always kino-escalate very well but for some reason choose not to kiss women, and don't have sex (although I always frame our interactions as very sexual, attempting to discover what my limits are, and what women I can land).

Take-Away Points: You can move from an unattractive guy to an attractive guy by just putting time and effort into self-improvement. You don't need to immerse yourself in the PUA lifestyle, unless that is your goal, to see success.

b) Meeting the Girl

So I'm walking to the beach for a social group event with my friends. I'm not always the dominant personality in the group, but I've noticed when I step up to take control of the situation (in the specific instances I choose to), others step out of the way.

Anyway, one of my friends drives by in a minivan and yells "Hey Thrw2! What's up?!" I respond, and they leave. One of my other friends informs me that this guy showed up with several girls from out of town just for the weekend. Cool.

Everyone heads to the water, I stay on the beach to tan. My friend and his girls show up, and I immediately start engaging them as a group, meeting them, and having short conversations. They all lay down their towels. Then, one girl comes and puts her towel right between me and another girl (who was in the water). There wasn't really any space, but she made space. She laid down and said "Hi!" Honestly right then, I knew something was gonna happen with this girl.

She is absolutely gorgeous. Perfect body. Thin, short, athletic, great boobs, well shaped butt. This girl is the definition of my type, and is an objective 8 or 9 to anyone, but a solid 9 to me.

The rest of the few hours at the beach we chat some, and I send her several "I want you" looks, which she exchanges with me. I kino by holding her hand very abruptly at one point, build rapport by talking, communicate value by leading interactions in the group and flirting with the other girls. When HB9 is gone, one of the other girls mentions she is recently out of a 2 year relationship. I knowingly glance at the towel next to me, and she smiles and says "Rebooound!" I leave later, HB9 asks me if she will see me at a party that night, I say yes.

Take-Away Points: Be able to recognize when a girl is into you. I could tell very early my goal was only to be able to remove any obstacles and transition smoothly, not overcome an attraction/value gap. This was key. We hadn't talked about anything other than our schools, majors, jobs, and music, but the nonverbal communication was clear that she was ready to go. Learn through practice how to recognize how interested a women is through her nonverbals.

c) The Party & Escalation

So I'm ridiculously sunburnt, and really don't want to go. My face is bright red, and it's fucking with my confidence. Finally I say to myself "Look, you can overcome this with game. Lots of average-looking people get women and you're just sunburnt. So I clean my room, go buy some mints and condoms, and head to the party. I've never bought condoms before in my life, but for some reason I knew I was gonna have this girl tonight.

At the party, we learn that my friend isn't bringing his girls 'til much later in the night. So I invite some other attractive women, forget about HB9, and start having a good time. When HB9 arrives, I'm the center of a drinking game with an HB7 and HB8.5 beside me (neither are very attracted to me, but they are both very friendly and HB9 certainly can't tell the difference. We subtly avoid each other for the next 10 minutes, but when I catch the eye I give her the subtle smug "I want to fuck you" look. Master this. From my limited experience I know this look turns girls on. I notice she starts to move towards a large chair, and I join her and we sit down simultaneously, with my arm around her. I say "Hey." She says "Hi." We don't really talk but I escalate kino rapidly, moving my hands up her thighs as we watch the party. After a little bit things calm down and everyone heads to the couches. She looks at me and says "All your friends are really mellow drunks." I say "Well then maybe I should take you in there [look towards bedroom] and fuck you." I didn't phrase it like a question. She glares at me, I hold her stare, then she looks away and says "ummm..." looks like she's thinking for about 5 seconds, then says "No." She immediately gets up and walks away. I don't react, and yell for another guy to join me on the chair. He does, and we jokingly start cuddling for a while.

The rest of the night is hilarious. I don't really speak to her much, and I have a great time. Every once in a while I catch her eye, give her the look, and she comes to sit by me. I'll say something like "You know I'm going to take you home tonight." or "I can't wait to fuck you." and she gets up and leaves. This repeats 4-5 times with no other conversation over an hour. This girl is shit-testing the fuck out of me. I handle it all perfectly. This stage is really where I shine. Later I'm on the couch and she's on the floor. She motions for me to join her, and I motion for her to join me. She looks away, so I start flirting with the girl beside me. She leaves, and I go to sit on the floor with a friend. As soon as she sees me on the floor, she runs back and sits directly in front of me. She hints away for a while, trying to get me to kiss her. I don't and I tell her I value privacy, she says she respects that. I say "Besides, once I kiss you, I'm going to fuck you. But it might be fun to rip your clothes off in front of everyone." From this point on, the shit tests of that stage are over. It was like I had abruptly unlocked the next level. We cuddle and I kino rapidly, moving towards her breasts, between her legs, or ass, grabbing things when others aren't looking. Finally she says "Go to the kitchen." While usually, I don't respond to any orders or anything, I did without hesitation. She comes right behind me, grabs me, and we make-out for 10 minutes or so. Fucking awesome. We head back to the living room, she sits across from me. A few minutes later, she gets on her hands and knees, very slowly walks across the to me, getting everyone's attention, and kisses me. We make out in the middle of the room. Ridiculously hot, and doubly awesome considering a couple of people I used to be involved with (who are not nearly as hot) were watching. This is going to give me a lot of future respect from this friend group, I think. She was seriously way out of my league.

Then she goes into this strange "decision making mode" where she keeps leaving me to talk to her friends. She's obviously talking about me and I remain self-amused, and occasionally give her and her friends a smug look, and they all laugh when I do this. Then she goes and talks to minivan guy friend, who she is staying with. They talk for a while, and she leaves for the bathroom. I ask him what the deal is. He sort of incredulously says "She just asked me if it was OK if she went home with you?" I said "well?" he said "Yeah I mean I told her definitely, but said you were a virgin. It kinda freaked her out." She returns from the bathroom, sits beside me, and immediately says "Are you a virgin?" I reply "Wanna find out?" she says "Just tell me." without hesitating I say "Yep" like it's not a big deal. She says "So we probably aren't gonna have sex?" and I reply "We won't do anything you aren't comfortable with." Gold. This throws it back on her and she doesn't know how to respond. She comes up with "Well I mean you won't have sex with me." and I respond "Woah, I only wanted to hold hands." This seems to satisfy her.

Next she starts asking about how she is going to get home etc. Anytime she shit tests, I respond correctly, but when she asks a logistical question, I respond very seriously and maturely. She occasionally tries to get me to convince her to come home with me. I don't fall for these. She says "We probably shouldn't do this." I respond "Yeah, we shouldn't." Then she asks "But can you take me back to minivan guy's house?" I say "Definitely, I can take you back anytime before 9:30." It was critical to be able to distinguish a shit-test of "I wanna see if you'll try to convince me to fuck you" and an actual "I need you to solve this logistical problem for me." She asks me to get her girlfriend's phone numbers, and I do this seriously as well. I met them earlier but can't remember their names, so I hand them my phone and say "Can you put your last name in too?"

Take-Away Points: Be able to be self-amused in any situation. Have other options. She played push/pull with me for a while and I was able to transition from her to someone else easily.

Make sure you help her handle the logistics. Ahead of time I mentioned to my friends I may try to take her home, so when she started asking around about me, my friends winged for me. I also was responsible and serious when I talked with her friends and assured them I'd take care of her.

Be comfortable handling different types of shit-tests. Even though I only browse seddit occasionally, I felt like I recognized them all and knew how to handle them when they showed up.

Know your audience. I knew this girl was into me, and I made no efforts to impress or attract her. My only game was making it convenient and comfortable for her to say "yes" to me. I played the aggressor in terms of taking her home so she could feel comfortable with that decision.

d) My house

We go to my house and I escalate with something similar to the ever-popular Di-Carlo Escalation ladder which I happened to remember. Everything goes smoothly (although I'm not that great at anything...). Then I ask, "Should I get a condom." she says "No. I'm not having sex with you." in a very, very serious tone. I say "Ok." and keep kissing her. A minute later she says "I don't do virgins." I just say "Ok." Rather than abruptly freezing her out, which I had planned to do, I decided that would be a butthurt reaction. I slowly ramped things down, and then took it to cuddling. She tries to kiss me and I say "You probably just want to cuddle right?" I keep teasing her as I quickly ramp things up, as she is visibly turned on, then shut it down with some comment like "This is probably too fast for you."

Finally she says "Turn me on." I do, and then she asks, "Do you have a condom?" I say "Yes" but don't get it. I'm not really sure if I want to do this anymore. A few minutes later she says "I'm so confused, do you not want me?" and I realize there's no way I can pass up this gorgeous babe without regretting it. The rest is history. It wasn't really great sex for either of us, but she was really nice and very very considerate. We communicated really well, and it was surprisingly a super intimate experience. Unfortunately, it was clear she wasn't as attracted to me at this stage as she was before when there was more mystery and intrigue. To be expected as this was my first time. I'm just glad I built up enough momentum in earlier stages. Afterwards I realized I forgot to ask how old she is. I ask, and she responds "16." and we laugh. She's the same age as me, 20.

e) Aftermath

It sounds like she wants to see me again. She wanted me to hang again with her before she left, but I wasn't able to. Although we live 2 hours apart, I drive past her city often. I told her I'd stop by to fuck her and she seemed receptive. Hilariously, I also discovered she also has an identical twin sister.

Any advice on how to handle the relationship from here? I'd like to keep it going long term and be able to see her whenever it's convenient to visit (and honestly, it's gonna be very convenient to visit 10-15 times over the next year, which would be awesome.) I didn't get much of a one-night stand vibe from her.

I also had a little bit of an existential crisis the next day. I'm pretty sure I'm never gonna be able to land anyone more attractive than her. This girl was it. It was a perfect situation. I feel like I just climbed Mt. Everest and there isn't anything left to do. I'm sure others have experienced this, and I wouldn't mind some self-improvement tips dealing with that emotion.