Yes, It really is possible to get out of that dreadful thing so many call "friend-zone".

First of all, I am not a native English speaker so I will make it possible to correct any grammar mistakes, if I skip some I am truly sorry.

So, the beginning is not that important. She was in my class in high-school and I ran into her unexpectedly around 5 years ago. The situation was that she was in a relationship and I was too chickenshit to do anything about it.

We had the most amazing times, I never felt so good with somebody until she came along. There was one problem tho, she always complained about her boyfriends to me, and not the safe stuff, we started discussing very intimate things she did with them and what bothered her.

Here is where I start to take notes of what she likes, hates, and how is her personality like. I soon found out she was an Ice Queen, like a very very hard person to deal with.

Fast forwarding a couple of years of me being her best guy douche...

One night she had a friend over that was staying abroad, and since I was always like a horndawg, she thought I might be a good match for her friend.

The girl in question, was not even remotely hot and stunning as the ice queen was. But in my sick mind, I said "hey, if it keeps me close to IQ why the hell not". So I started dating her friend (which was living abroad), and so followed 2 years of grueling trips to one of the most poor countries in EU. I often would meet the ice queen and gave her updates on my stupid relationship, she also was telling me about her guy-friends and why they are such doucebags, so again I took notes about everything she was saying.

But seasons change and tyrants die, her fury spent in times gone by... but my love for the ice queen grew until about 1 year ago I said "enough is enough" I gotta get this girl.

So my transformation began by eating healthier, growing a nice beard, and basically working as much as I could on my confidence. Started watching /r/malefashionadvice on a regular basis and took care of my clothing much better.

Started going to a hair stylist which made me into a human again, also worked on my speaking and thought process by reading, and I mean a lot of reading. I read about 50 books in 8 months. Keep in mind that what drove me was that I know I had to have her, no matter the costs.

Soon, girls started approaching me and I knew I was almost complete to share my feelings with her.

So, I broke up with her friend, that was a manipulative and emotional blackmailing bitch and gave the IQ a call on one night to see if she want to come down to a club and hang out. This was the night of my transformation, this was it. I put on my best shirt, my best shoes, went to the stylist, and prepared my state of mind to be a fucking man not a shaved pussy.

Eventually she came to the club, I was waiting for her with another couple. She was visibly stunned from my transformation. We started drinking, dancing and she was all over me for the first time ever.

So far so good....took her home, no kiss didn't want to kiss her yet. I wanted her to feel what she was missing for 5 years. Another day, I wanted to be spontaneous with her and sent her a text "oh god, that dress looked amazing" when she responded with "what dress?" the reply was "the one you were wearing in my head today". She immediately called me back and asked me if I wanna go for drinks.

I accepted, and again, the same routine: looks, mind and personality. Every time I wanted to say something to her but was to loud, I very discreetly pull her head towards mine, or touched her on her arm, so she could hear me (or so she thought).

One day, after a few "best friend dates" I decided this is enough and I want it all, and want it now. So this is what I did:

Called her, and told her to pack some stuff because we are going on a adventure on the weekend somewhere into the mountains. I always think that if you give the girl the opportunity to choose, you give her the chance to say "no". I didn't want to give her that opportunity, so here we are in a nice mountain town, sitting at a coffe shop just laughing at the weird people there.

Then we hit a club, had some drinks, danced a bit and we decided to call it a night. She wanted to take a cab, but I stood my ground and decided that it's better to just walk it off. The reason for this is that I wanted to get her close to me, hold her hand or something like that.

She started to strongly flirt with me for the time we walked to our room, talking about sex, love and relationships. When we got to our room, she didn't let me pass the hallway, she was all over me...clothes were off at the speed of light and we had the most awesome sex. When everything was over and we just cuddled in bed, I shared my feelings with her, how I had a crush on her for almost 5 years.

We enjoyed the weekend laughing, kissing, drinking, cuddling and having sex.

The one thought that remains to be said is what she told me when I dropped her off at her place:

"I can't wait to kiss you again, you showed me how to care for someone again"

Keep in mind that this comes from an ice queen, a heartless bitch that don't give 2 shits about any man.

So my conclusion is this...If you want something, work for it, nothing is free, be prepared to make sacrifices. No one will want to sit on your dick just because you are feeling something. Be a man (or a woman) and start acting.

I thank you kind stranger for lasting for the whole read. Hope some of you learned something and don't waste so many years to be with the one you love.

Again, sorry for the grammar mistakes, really don't care about them now, but you can critique :)