I got a lot of hate for giving this advice on reddit, but no one's told me why.

From the way I see it, its the PUA equivalent of the saying "The grass is always greener on the other side". We lust over one girl, or ideal, or over-fantasize about one woman, and it becomes our trap. We get stuck on one girl who we think will fulfill those fantasies, and fantasize even more on top of that.

Instead of appreciating the girls we have or where we are in life we're constantly trying to pull the next hottest chick. Even when you get the super hot chick, unless you're planning to marry her, it's only a matter of time before you start wanting something else. As men, we are wired to spread our seed, so the sex will eventually get less exciting, even if it's good.

Be realistic and focus on your life. Avoid one-itis and keep it moving.

*****Edit: I wasn't saying this to justify cheating. Not that at all. I'm saying that use this example to remind yourself that someone you find attractive isn't some omnipotent sex goddess of love and light just because you've become strongly infatuated them or because she matches a certain fantasy you have. Don't get caught up in thinking that getting a dime is going to magically make your life better and thrust you into perpetual bliss and serendipity for the rest of eternity.

I have made the error of equating my self-value with how hot the bitches I'm currently pulling are, and seeing them as trophies to my success. Now I have to remember not to become to fixated on a single woman, or fantasy of a woman, but rather focus on making life better and attracting the right people in my world.

tl;dr your life isn't gonna suddenly get better cause you pulled a hot chick