What do you find attractive in a girl?

snowcaps-perhaps · 2016-03-28T03:00:24+00:00

Their voice. Maybe I'm strange but a sweet, pleasant sounding voice is always a huge turn on for me. Oh also, ass.

zpowell · 2016-03-28T01:42:12+00:00

When she's intelligent and funny. Also, ass.

Chiralmaera · 2016-03-28T02:56:25+00:00

Intelligence. And not the fake trendy kind. It's a total trump card. Physically I'm a sucker for green eyes and huge tits.

InteriorEmotion · 2016-03-28T01:28:52+00:00

I find the most erotic part of a woman is the boobies.

CarlossEdd · 2016-03-28T03:35:27+00:00

I'm a sucker for long and nice hair, and i'm talking about REALLY nice.

acote897 · 2016-03-28T01:20:38+00:00

I am always interested in a woman who knows what she wants, both personally and career wise. I love seeing ambition and goals in the other person.

dudebroth · 2016-03-28T01:24:23+00:00

A girl who has her shit together.

sirsumosam · 2016-03-28T01:49:23+00:00

Legs. Skinny (not bony), tanned, immaculate legs.

JaTae · 2016-03-28T01:19:16+00:00

My dick

Koko2loko · 2016-03-28T01:18:59+00:00

She has to be passionate about something

Dice_for_Death_ · 2016-03-28T04:03:04+00:00

Mental health.

somewhatintrigued · 2016-03-28T04:31:44+00:00

I recently found out I'm super attracted to analytical girls, or at least ones that can hold a conversation that way. I didn't really pay much attention to one girl I knew at work until she started telling me about her choice to work here based on calculations of current and future paychecks, likelihood to advance, location, etc.

Oh and she's a DIY-er, so the opposite of a do-nothing.

Chadxman · 2016-03-28T02:30:55+00:00

Appearance is important in the beginning. She has to look approachable. Having resting bitch face will not make me want to approach as much as the girl smiling back at me when I smile. Next is voice, a girl with a voice like JarJar Binks or smeagol is a no no. Very bad lisps are also a no no.

hfcobra · 2016-03-28T04:52:24+00:00

Honestly I just want a woman who says what she thinks. Not in a "I'm not a bitch I just say what I'm thinking!" way, far more polite.

For example the other day a woman bartender at the bar I was sitting at walked past a guy at the bar and just straight up said "You have some shit in your beard." so matter-of-factly it was hilarious and a couple guys laughed with me including Mr. shit-in-my-beard.

I thought this was both hilarious and attractive, and it wasn't just attractive because it was funny.

devudesu · 2016-03-28T05:08:37+00:00

One that's attracted to me?

renegade_butler · 2016-03-28T03:14:18+00:00

When she fucks a big black guy right in front of me

xcalibbop · 2016-03-28T01:43:00+00:00

Kindness, passion and humour

2016-03-28T02:43:24+00:00

Their face and that they aren't bony. I can get past a lot of things, but you have to have an acceptable face.

TheBloodIsRed · 2016-03-28T06:10:48+00:00

A pretty face can make up for tits and ass (to an extent). Also bangs

VRSanctum · 2016-03-28T06:53:12+00:00

Eye smiles.

dlb92 · 2016-03-28T02:29:36+00:00

Glasses. A bitchy attitude but also extremely submissive. Nose rings.

theaccountname1234 · 2016-03-28T03:15:09+00:00

Need to be fit. Right there that normally means they're attractive and it also means they're dedicated. Also a good laugh can win me over just because I want to hear it again and again. Obviously they need to be nice though and outgoing. Friendly and always looking for the best in people. Funny would be a bonus.

renegade_butler · 2016-03-28T03:48:10+00:00

5'9", glasses, skinny, wide hips, c cups, tanned, and brunette. Bonus points for freckles and if she can keep up with my dank wit.

quickly_ · 2016-03-28T06:04:51+00:00

Light hearted girl that can be serious when she has to be.

Caring personality

Interested in keeping up her good looks and is educated

anroger98 · 2016-03-28T03:40:29+00:00

When they're honestly interested in something they're talking about or listening to or singing along with. Their eyes and lips. Ass, ass, ass, ass, and more ass. Oh yeah, and ass ♡

Every time my baby is singing along to a song she loves, I either turn the volume down a bit so I can hear her better or I stop singing and can only stare ♡♡

sykilik101 · 2016-03-28T04:36:01+00:00

Wit. 100%, without a doubt, nothing else is as important. I've yet to find a way of saying this without coming off as somewhat sexist or critical or whatnot, but I seem to have a hard time meeting any girls who show any competent sense of wit. A girl who can keep up with me in that mental back and forth qualifies as extremely sexy in my book.

BurritoHalfFull · 2016-03-28T04:31:19+00:00

Hippie/open-minded beliefs and a killer smile

Sterling_Em_Archer · 2016-03-28T04:36:22+00:00

Ability to take and dish out sarcastic remarks. Not afraid to go after what she wants. Doesn't buy into the "A man must court me." i.e. assertive. Classy when needed, slutty when wanted, athletic, fun loving, unfiltered, pro-active. There's probably more, but that's what I could think up spur of the moment.

UnclePaul50 · 2016-03-28T04:37:43+00:00

Brains. Smart and self-assured is very attractive.

Dernuld_Trumpet · 2016-03-28T05:00:08+00:00

shy, nice hair and Ass

I feel like sense of humour and good personality are universal standards

2016-03-28T05:43:05+00:00

Starting with the best:
1. Blushing/Being Embarrassed (So cute!)
2. Boobs
3. Ass
4. Nose

Zo3OKief · 2016-03-28T06:05:55+00:00

A girl with mystery. I am more typically into girls with intellect and passion. A cute laugh and smile. A soothing voice. Has a sweet side, a playful rough side {and i mean super kinky}, and a girl with a sense of humor. Nice titties as well.

SoulSonick · 2016-03-28T08:02:47+00:00

To be ultra specific: dry, sarcastic sense of humor

TheChipiboy · 2016-03-28T08:07:29+00:00

Sense of humor

spldsz · 2016-03-28T13:27:52+00:00

tall, smart, extravert, butt

itsmeMOB · 2016-03-28T18:20:02+00:00

Besides looks? Hmm.

Eyes (I'm a sucker for eyes)
Smile
Boobs

Looks do factor, but personality lasts forever. I like a girl with ambition too, someone who knows what they want in life and someone who has their shit together. Also, finding a girl that's passionate in their hobbies/what they enjoy is such a huge turn on, as I'm the same way.

I LOVE accents too, but that depends on the kind.

reymysterioguy10 · 2016-03-28T21:50:03+00:00

I find that for me the biggest factor that affects me is eyes. I cant explain but theres something specific that makes my mind rule which eyes make me attracted and which eyes wont

YippyKayYay · 2016-03-28T05:58:09+00:00

It's really hard to define attractive outside a set of vague qualities(healthy, friendly, and physically well built) because the very specific qualities that make my Little Mermaid my desire may make her someone else's Ursula

Not to mention attraction itself is hard to put a finger on but if you want me to give an answer...

I'd have to say it was just how adventurous she seemed. She was on drugs when I met her, had an ass that straddled the fine line between fat and muscular, had a nipple ring and a nose ring, and a cliche tattoo worthy of her 20 year old "live fast die drugged" attitude

For me, a guy who works a rigid schedule to achieve the goals I have for myself, she brought something exotic to the table. Regardless the only ring I'd give her is one made of latex ;)

RedNeveren · 2016-03-28T03:16:08+00:00

Good style and education.

2016-03-28T03:25:58+00:00

Really clean, like flosses twice a day and scrubs her tongue clean. Also, a girl who knows how to dress nice professionally speaking. One more - being into physical fitness and nutrition does not hurt at all!

Nixdaboss · 2016-03-28T04:22:56+00:00

A really good sense of humor. A nice laugh always makes me smile

paintwhore · 2016-03-28T04:57:21+00:00

A little meat on her bones, great smile, self-assured, adventurous, genuine, long hair, smart, funny

2016-03-28T05:10:02+00:00

voice,smile,skin(not race but more like pigmentation),face, body proportions

Aeon199 · 2016-03-28T05:10:33+00:00

Apart from humility and an eccentric sense of humor, physically I always like a nice booty.. so yes, in shape a little bit helps. A nice butt on her is not required, though. It's more important that she takes care of herself, generally.

erythrocyte666 · 2016-03-28T05:10:55+00:00

Well from the last woman (my dream woman) I had intensely fallen in love with:

Her gaze, but this doesn't mean requiring a certain eye shape or color; it's simply the way she looks at me - the gestalt overall gaze rather than the specific parts.

Her smile; this doesn't have to mean perfect Hollywood star teeth and it includes both her closed-mouth smile and open-mouthed grin.

Her hair; short hair I find a complete turn-off, but long hair when maintained or styled properly is sooo attractive

Her voice; if it's soft and soothing, I can listen to it all day; but the bitchy/sassy voice I can't handle at all

Beyond the physical, her intellect; this doesn't mean having super high IQ, but simply means open-mindedness, curiosity, awareness of situations, etc.

Also, how hard-working and passionate she is about her work

And in general, how polite she is in her conduct.

Well, these were the qualities that attracted me to my "dream woman", but we weren't meant to be :(

Mexican_Fella · 2016-03-28T05:24:58+00:00

Her smile, Her interests, and her body.

fattyfotatty · 2016-03-28T05:36:12+00:00

Not lazy

2016-03-28T05:53:45+00:00

/r/prettygirls

celticfan008 · 2016-03-28T06:46:07+00:00

Confidence, some one comfortable in their own skin and more confident in who they are and what they want. Not afraid of confrontation.

Physical attraction is kind of a given, never really gone for one specific type, if I see what I like and am in the right frame of mind I'll go for it.

kostas3 · 2016-03-28T07:51:22+00:00

A_lone_heart · 2016-03-28T08:02:03+00:00

Lively eyes,funny, Strong,kind...

Mythical7Ninja · 2016-03-28T08:14:10+00:00

A simple smile and some nice eyes.

2016-03-28T08:40:13+00:00

Cuteness, passion of life, sense of humor, intelligence and of course a beautiful face and body.

iedaiw · 2016-03-28T09:02:15+00:00

A lot of it is her willingness to bone. Being a real prude is a turn off no matter how pretty you may be.

2016-03-28T13:19:12+00:00

I'm a pretty witty person so any girl who can not only match my wit but do even better than it will always get my attention.

I'm an ass man so there's always that.

This kinda ties into #1 but I'll swoon for a shit-talker. Especially one better than me, because it just kinda leaves this dumb look on my face that they think is adorable.

the_rippers · 2016-03-28T13:54:15+00:00

Chemistry. Regardless if they are a 6 or a 10. Good chemistry gets me every time.

Hollistanner · 2016-03-28T14:01:38+00:00

Intelligent women make the world go round.

snktido · 2016-03-28T14:12:51+00:00

seriously I have to be the one to say it? EEEEVVVVEEEERRRYYYTTTHHHIIIINNNGGGG!!!!!

ahandsomeweirdo · 2016-03-28T14:45:47+00:00

Big eyes, full lips, pretty ass, pretty legs. Sense of humor and cleverness on the personality part.

that-freakin-guy · 2016-03-28T15:11:37+00:00

Good looks, intelligence and education, drive and motivation, preferably a bikini competitor, is into cars and can drive stick.

I have everything but the driving stick thing, but she can learn. If I'm ever single again after this though, her having set my standards will keep me single.

Rogersmofo · 2016-03-28T16:15:07+00:00

Quirks and insecurities

zomgitsduke · 2016-03-28T16:50:11+00:00

For me, it's the uniqueness.

I've been on multiple dates with women who are unique. I've dated a goth girl with 45% of her body tattoo'd with a mohawk, a business owner, a girl who was happy just doing a very low-key job but was good with money, a rich girl, the geeky girl, a girl in performing arts, a very religious girl, big girls, small girls, tall, short, a girl from another country (currently dating and thinking kind of serious about her). I think I just really find the appeal in a girl who isn't boring and has something very unique about her.

When I was single, I always went after the girl who was different. My friends pointed this out one day, and I started to realize my "type".

Not sure if this helps, but it came to mind.

2016-03-28T17:18:26+00:00

I know that I am way out of the norm here, but you know, just being honest.

I'm very picky about body type in general, but this is everything. In order of preference:

Flat tummy is a must, no exceptions
Healthy hair and skin is a must, no exceptions
Lean limbs, thigh gap, delicate bone structure, long neck, small wrists (I list these together because they usually go together). This is an either/or with the one below
Insane feminine curves, great ratios like arm circumference to breast size, hip to waist, leg circumference to leg length
Nice full lips will push me over the top, but I am not talking about those lip injections....they look nasty.
I don't like classic beauties like Grace Kelly or Marilyn Monroe. She needs to look extremely unique yet sexy. A sleek equine face like Taylor Swift or delicate bird-like features like Amal Clooney or a bombshell hyper-sexual look like Oluchi Onweagba. Basically one of a kind.

So yeah, basically I am monogamous not by choice but out of necessity.

dvinz01 · 2016-03-28T18:20:43+00:00

Self actualization, knowing your direction in life and chasing your goals. Plus keep your eyebrows, and nails on fleek. Plus a nice smile, and an ass doesn't hurt either

CJ090 · 2016-03-28T19:23:34+00:00

A general interest in things, A curious attitude, large breasts.

Toker95 · 2016-03-28T19:30:15+00:00

Face. Hair. Tits

TheGreatMrDoodles · 2016-03-28T19:39:57+00:00

I need me a goofy girl.

Detox1337 · 2016-03-28T19:41:24+00:00

Attitude followed by ass. Personality lasts longer than physical attributes.

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-03-28T21:09:12+00:00

Normally the biggest attractors are happiness, health (being fit etc), and intelligence (normally comes with being healthy). For me so long as she is fit / healthy I'm fascinated in the fun of it.

I haven't really been able to pinpoint exactly what I find attractive but I'm pretty sure I've pinpointed that her not liking me guarantees killing my attraction for her. Wit and reciprocation.

callmeMrThumper · 2016-03-28T23:54:27+00:00

When she doesn't talk all the time or when she can learn to appreciate a moment of silence

iamcoolstephen1234 · 2016-03-29T00:09:34+00:00

Sense of humor. Also, ass.

Hayden9955 · 2016-03-29T17:12:27+00:00

Smart and funny. Anti-materialistic. Strong morals and family values. Nice. Likes to read. Tall. Christian but not in a judgemental way. Believes in a higher purpose.

I'm sitting in a Starbucks and these girls are gossiping and talking shit about a girl who just walked in who looks like she's going through chemo therapy. A woman who would never do that is extremely attractive.

eric_andre311 · 2016-03-31T14:42:12+00:00

I'm honestly alot like women in terms of what I find attractive. Looks are always important, but for the most part I think all girls are pretty hot.

But what really gets me is all that stuff that goes on in their brain. A smart, interesting, funny girl is a rare combination and that shit gets my balls so fucking wet.

Also weird girls. I'm a really out there guy but so many girls are uptight and hate showing guys theyre goofy side. Thats also a huge turn on for me.

Some lighy teasing is always good too. Girls who are super sweet make me feel like a scumbag for some reason.

Im not like most guys in what I find attractive though so take this with a grain of salt.

2016-04-04T20:26:11+00:00

Voice, Face, Body. Personality comes after

feigeiway · 2016-03-28T06:46:27+00:00

Nice legs and toes, skinny waist.

jefffffffff · 2016-03-28T07:45:55+00:00

Thin waist. But butt. Fit. Smart. Witty.

vincele3 · 2016-03-28T04:14:12+00:00

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vididead · 2016-03-28T04:21:19+00:00

Me with long hair and thinner legs/smaller face.

MorePancakes · 2016-03-28T07:04:47+00:00

My penis

Title	What do you find attractive in a girl?
Author	drieduphighliter
Upvotes	68
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Date	March 28, 2016 12:49 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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