At least once in your life, like me, you saw a girl who had a personality not at all compatible with yours but still you went for her. I’m guilty, especially before I got experience dealing with women.

I remember being at a big club, talking to a girl who was the opposite of me but still hot. I kept talking to her because I had already approached her and I ain’t a pussy to just drop it. As soon as I approached I saw she had little interest in me and as we talked and I passed her tests I gained her interest, but when I asked my questions, like, “what do you have planned for your future?” She replied with things like “I don’t know hahahaha.” That was an instant turn off and I should’ve left it there, just how she would’ve left had I failed her shittests- there’s a reason why these are called qualifiers.

Night moves forward, It’s been a few hours since I talked to her, she sees me and says “here you are /u/DefinitelyHorny4U!! Thought I’d never see you again!” She’s not ugly so fuck it right? We eat at a place close to the club, then go back to my place, where we fuck and I tell her to leave 5 minutes after we’re done.

As soon as she left I realized how unfulfilling that was. We weren’t compatible at all, I was driven 100% by horniness and that’s not what I should’ve done, I was out of control of my own body. Strong post nut clarity. It made me remember of the girls I’d been attracted to back in High-school and middle school that I wouldn’t stand had I thought about interacting with them instead of seeing them as an escape from my loneliness/horniness. Now as an adult who ‘knows’ women, I can see how important it is to be compatible with the girls you’re talking to, at the end of the day it isn’t about sex as much as it is about having fun.

Genghis Khan’s genes are found in 0.5% of all men alive. That’s 400,000,000 people. He fucked so many girls and yea that’s cool about him, but he definitely had strong post-nut clarity later, he just chose not to do anything about it. Don’t be Genghis Khan.

Part of being a high-value man is not wasting your time, and not letting your actions be controlled by feelings, which is what happens to many of us. Being willing to reject hot bitches makes you a more high value man than fucking all of the hot bitches, while also making you feel better.

Since then I’ve left the post-nut clarity to my weekly session of midget porn, not sex. You should always take a step back and evaluate if you like a girl for horniness/loneliness/lack of options, or if you legitimately like her, not just you’ll feel more fulfilled, the sex is much better as well.