If one girl isnt working out, just move on to the next girl.

telemanzoo · 2019-12-11T13:58:21+00:00

Yeah, a pattern i've noticed from reading 'lay reports' on PUA forums recently, and from watching infields with a pull, is that they are all clearly on girls who were very receptive. It's not really about 'game' or 'skill'. It seems to be more a case of having the balls to approach a girl (fair play) and then finding out if she thinks you're hot or not, basically!

If she does, you need to just slowly escalate. If she doens't (and it's usually obvious within like 5 seconds) just move on to the next girl. I've never seen or heard of someone changing a girls mind using 'game' and actually pulling her. I don't think it's possible/how it works (them approaches on girls who aren't receptive end up in the 'rejection compilations' that these pros put in their premium products lol)

WolfieCreed · 2019-12-11T16:35:10+00:00

Womens are just like buses. Dont run after 1, another 1 will come afterwards

altorio_sir · 2019-12-11T13:56:35+00:00

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insinsins · 2019-12-11T14:16:44+00:00

Unless you’re looking for commitment, don't waste too much time on one girl that isn't receptive

That's when you should especially move on.

nightlifestructured · 2019-12-11T15:00:47+00:00

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PimPedOutGeese · 2019-12-11T15:28:58+00:00

Even if you’re looking for commitment...

Never be afraid to move on. If she smells that you’re her only option then it’s just an uphill battle that you tend to lose.

All about abundance mentality.

2019-12-11T16:49:14+00:00

Unless you’re looking for commitment, dont waste too much time on one girl that isnt receptive.

Why would anyone waste time on a girl who wasn't receptive if they wanted a commitment?

That doesn't make any more sense than chasing a chick for a ONS who isn't receptive.

Bottom line, if a female isn't receptive, move on.

helloweirdworld · 2019-12-11T14:16:06+00:00

what if you’re ugly and all you have that one girl in contact

Massap24 · 2019-12-11T14:33:58+00:00

I agree I wasted two years in college on my oneitis, and while we were fucking, and hanging out a lot. I was working way too hard and getting no commitment in return. I finally ghosted my oneitis and started fucking other girls and it clicked that I wasted so much energy and I could’ve had 3 or 4 girls riding my dick the entire time. Don’t waste time on any bullshit or little validation games. For every chick that will make you jump through hoops there’s one that will fuck you with little effort.

wirelezz · 2019-12-11T18:06:27+00:00

I always remember this James Bond Spectre moment *SPOILERS* Madeleine tells bond in the middle of the street that she's not going any further in the mission, so Bond looks at her and says ok. Then Madeleine says sorry and turns around and leaves. Bond is actually into this woman, but just looks at her leaving for 2 seconds, and then turns around and moves on.

m0r0o · 2019-12-11T18:07:00+00:00

Well, if you "fall in love" it is quite hard to move on to another girl

MilesSquats · 2019-12-11T14:31:16+00:00

Thank you for this reminder. Just went through a break up and keeping this in my mind has helped me recover from it faster. None of this wallowing in self-pity rubbish. Gotta keep working on myself!

KeithKATW · 2019-12-11T23:07:49+00:00

Rt... And then if another girl wants you, the other will then too 🤣🤣🤣 Girls are weird...

mrright- · 2019-12-12T04:00:33+00:00

The sad thing is people do this. And the ones who want to work things out are stuck with someone who is not willing to change or grow omg side the partner the gain. Instead have either fear or scares from past relationships. Dating in your 40s sucks bad. You get tones of counterfeits

2019-12-11T16:50:28+00:00

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shabalala151 · 2019-12-11T17:07:58+00:00

And if you maintain this mentality, women will just come to you more and more. Abundance Mindset

harryhoudini66 · 2019-12-11T17:33:41+00:00

Would you limit yourself to one friend only as a possibility to hang out? You should always have a handful of friends to hang out. You should always have a handful of girls to date as well.

2019-12-11T20:25:21+00:00

Don’t waste time on girls that aren’t receptive even if you’re looking for commitment. You play the game the same in the beginning.

2019-12-11T19:08:37+00:00

Completely agree. I think today dating coaches' scenario is one of the worst ever : a lot of them does not really talks about moving on, "nexting" and having abundance mindset. Expecially the ones like ToddV and Rsd, they all focus on "becoming a pro" , like as becoming a pro is changing girls' mind. My modest opinion, I'm a beginner, is that becoming a pro is more about recognizing attracted girls and girls in their ovulation window, and all the technical stuff is useful, but earning margins given by it are so little.

JustCuriousbutNice · 2019-12-11T21:16:12+00:00

I learned fairly early on that people will measure you up pretty quick and will make pretty shallow expectations and judgements right off the bat.

It may not sound fair, but I find that it's done purely out of preference, experience, and somewhat instinctual.

If someone isn't seeing your advances, likely they aren't interested or "friend-zoned" you early on. At which point, if that's not your thing with this person, move on.

volcanolairbadguy · 2019-12-11T16:23:46+00:00

Op said it. The aim should be VOLUME. Its either on or next.

jpisgreat · 2019-12-11T20:49:29+00:00

Hopefully she is not paying for a gym membership

ManyCountry · 2019-12-11T22:42:12+00:00

Well said

AbundanceLifeStyle · 2019-12-11T22:43:32+00:00

Well said brother. Also here is a video on “How To Approach women & The Number One Way To Conquer Approach Anxiety. https://youtu.be/s0amsAnmWJo hope this helps guys. There’s lots of fish out in the sea. Good luck dating guys!

jh1871 · 2019-12-12T00:41:56+00:00

Straight to the point, something a lot of posts and comments lack.

Brevity is the soul of wit.

Good post.

chickwithadick91 · 2019-12-12T05:34:39+00:00

Sorry it's my pet peeve when people call grown women or men girls or boys.

beastboi27 · 2019-12-12T07:48:01+00:00

Best advice is to talk to more then a couple of girls or end up being like me, still thinking about a girl I stopped talking to months ago. I'm struggling to get over the feeling of being uninterested in being open and to try again with other girls.

2019-12-12T10:17:16+00:00

But if she's the one and I want to commit. Any chance to swing it?

caesarfecit · 2019-12-12T17:24:04+00:00

Men have to play the numbers game because we're the ones doing the approaching. Girls can come up with all kinds of cutesy strategies because they're the ones getting approached. Guys have to ration their shits to give.

I'm always struck by the difference between how a receptive woman treats me, versus a neutral or uninterested one. You can tell when a girl is putting in an effort, or is a little nervous, or giddy/excited to be around you. The secret to getting laid is to recognize this vibe and learn how to patiently and decisively up the ante. Often this is exactly what she wants you to do, but of course, she can't say it, she can only give positive reactions to your moves. That's one of the unwritten rules of the game.

When you get really good, you making playing the odds work in your favor by creating triangles and being seen as an object of desire. Having one other girl visibly interested and vibing with you has an effect on every other girl in sight. It intrigues them and makes them wonder what's so special about you. Taken far enough, they start thinking unconsciously that you are special even if you're not so much. Which was always a bit of a weird thing for me to wrap my head around as I'm not a jealous guy by nature and I find girls trying visibly to make me jealous is just a turn-off.

nickoskal024 · 2019-12-13T20:10:52+00:00

This reminds me of a more general pattern of advice, as Ive recently been watching Jordan Peterson's discussions with Joe Rogan: 'Teach your kid that it isnt about winning a single game, but a series of games (champsionship). And that it isnt about winning a championship, but a series of them (life)' In other words, you need to be mindful of a strategy that is able to be iterated across time, like not putting all your eggs in one basket so to speak!

Link if your interested: https://youtu.be/9Xc7DN-noAc?t=2625

aliezsid · 2019-12-11T20:05:48+00:00

Introverts. This isn't for us.

oe84 · 2019-12-11T19:38:30+00:00

If you are not handsome rich or a person with above avarage social skills nothing will work. You will die alone. It is a numbers game but there is more men than women in the world except 60+ age bracket.

DanteIsBack · 2019-12-11T14:16:05+00:00

What if I'm not at the gym and there are no girls working out?

Title	If one girl isnt working out, just move on to the next girl.
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Date	December 11, 2019 1:21 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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