Been almost a year now since the ex and I agreed to divorce, forced to live together because the economy sucks and she finally moved out a few weeks ago. Its been over 13 years since I dated, 39 now with a 5 and 3 year old. Looking for suggestions on dating apps?

For context I work from home, all my friends are married with kids and the only times i really leave the house are the gym and to ride my motorcycle. Ive recently started getting more social at the gym but really dont want to mix the gym with dating. I like my gym, I like working out in peace and drama free, Im not really interested in meeting or hitting on women at the gym. The bike is fun, but its mostly other guys.

Im not looking to really date in a serious way, would be nice to have someone to do things with when the kids are gone or talk to. Seems like all the single women are early 20s something looking for an instagram wedding and love story or women like my ex wife who refuse to deal with past emotional trauma or acknowledge their own demons. I dont really drink anymore, I stay sober for my kids as I grew up with alcoholic parents and I first hand understand the damage that can cause, so bars and shit like that arent for me (I definitely have a drinking problem myself, its easy to get carried away after even 1, so its always 0).

I dont think it would be particularly hard for me to date, Im a good earner, own my home, physically fit etc, just dont wanna waste my limited time.