I see many cases of a man apparently straying/having multiple affairs despite what looks like a happy marriage. Many of my fellow women are shocked at how a man who seemingly has it all does this.

In my younger years, I too thought very simplistically. You have an affectionate wife, kids, and a steady family. Still, you cheat so frequently?

However, as I grew older, I realised something. Maybe that’s an arrangement they agreed upon? Perhaps the wife turns a blind eye, as she does not love him.

Perhaps she is in it for the money and as long as she has the position of the legal wife,  and he doesn't cut off her and her kids from his inheritance, she doesn’t care that she keeps sowing his wild oats.

Maybe she’s even relieved he may not have to rely solely on her for sexual and emotional gratification. 

I know, the idea of marrying a gold digger may scandalize many ppl, and the whole thing sounds very alien to me, but for a certain type of man, this will be a Godsend. 

As long as he is not physically abusive to her, he can do pretty much whatever he wishes. 

I came across this post, of a 20-something woman admitting she married a guy twice her age, for his $$$. 

She had also given him the hall pass. As long as he has no STDs, he is free to sleep with anyone. 

She is also willing to cook and maintain the house for him. She wants to be a SAHM firmly. He will be the boss of the house. She will have a monthly allowance, but that's about it. 

She has agreed to have no say on how their home will be run, or maintained. 

In all respects, she has signed up to be his glorified househelp and human incubator willingly.

I am sure this will horrify many women here, and with good reason, but all this is agreed upon.