I'm writing this post off after coming off a recent fling I had with another influencer which made me come to the realization that I don't really enjoy the influencer dating experience and thought I'd share my reasons why (+ some other anecdotes on the topic).

I've dated a few influencers and OF girls (including them in this since they're similar in many ways) in my seduction journey so I've had a decent amount of experience with them and every time I have, there's been something about them that kinda ruined it for me.

In my latest experience, she was specifically a vegan influencer (not even with that many followers, only 10k, but enough to get free meals at restaurants, free groceries, and other related perks - although I don't think she actually made money off it, just got free stuff).

The free stuff was definitely a cool perk of dating her, but was it worth having to deal with the rest of the influencer BS? I don't think so. What BS, you wonder?

Well first off, they're always thinking about content. They have to, they constantly need to upload to stay relevant. This means you often have to play the role of cameraman and record multiple takes of them doing random shit like in the case of the vegan influencer: walking into a restaurant, taking bites of food, etc.

You can't just enjoy a moment without it being about potential content. And even if you're not recording content for her, she's spending her time editing existing content. Or checking her DMs, responding to brands, etc etc. It all ends up being a bit too much.

Then there's the personality aspect too, specifically when talking about OF girls and thot influencers (although I've noticed similar personality traits in other types of influencers too).

Essentially, these girls require constant validation and will react extremely poorly to any type of criticism. And I'm not even talking about actual criticism, but mundane things like simply suggesting a better way of doing things.

Maybe it's not an influencer-specific trait, but I just remember this 50k OF girl I dated back in January who got super upset with me whenever I'd make any type of mundane criticism or suggestion, claiming that I was always complaining.

I honestly believe it was a trigger for her that stemmed from childhood trauma, specifically her never being good enough for her parents, which may also explain the reason she got into OF and body enhancements in the first place, to be honest.

Another shitty personality trait they tend to have is that they always think of themselves as better than others and don't seem capable of humility.

For instance, the vegan girl would often announce to servers at restaurants that she was a vegan influencer and then complain to me afterwards if the restaurant didn't offer the food to us for free in exchange for posting about it.

It always made me cringe. It's like ok shoot your shot, but don't expect everyone to play ball or get upset about it when they don't.

Then there's the influencers who are legit making money from influencing, like the 200k woman in tech influencer I dated earlier this year who, despite making a lot more money than me due to her success, still expected me to basically pay for everything for her because she believed in "traditional masculine and feminine roles".

In other words, she wanted to have her cake and eat it too. And maybe this is more of a personal thing since people will have different opinions on this, but it really struck me the wrong way that she was essentially expecting me to be her caretaker without really providing all that much in return.

So yeah, the grass isn't always greener on the other side. These influencers/OF girls may be hot, but they're often not worth all the BS that comes with them. Good for a night a two, but any more than that and you're just bringing unnecessary stress into your life.

At least, that's been my experience. Anyone else out there with similar stories?