LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

Grow_peace_in_Bedlam · 2024-10-08T03:00:12+00:00

Is refusing to date women with boobs less than a D cup the male equivalent of refusing to date men under 6 ft tall (other than the fact that breast implants, while not uninvasive, are much less invasive and risky than leg-lengthening surgery)? I seem to recall that the percentage of women with such boobs is comparable to the percentage of men with that height. Likewise, both can be justified with dodgy evopsych explanations (i.e., tall stature in a man suggests to a woman that he is a better protector than other men, and big boobs in a woman suggest to a man that she can nurse strong healthy babies better than other women).

I also feel that extreme preoccupations with finding a partner with those traits are rooted more in impressing one's friends than actually needing a partner with those traits to get off.

Almost every middle school boy goes through a stage of wanting a girlfriend with double D boobs in order to look cool and be the envy of all his friends. However, most boys get over this fixation as they mature and internalize the broader society's advice to men to avoid being overly superficial in dating. In turn, since women these days are regularly told never to lower their standards, and since overly strict beauty standards for men are not regarded as a social ill to be combated the way that overly strict beauty standards for women are, an important number of women never grow out of such superficial requirements when it comes to height.

To be sure, I believe it is natural for a heterosexual woman to want a man taller than her, just as I believe it's natural for a heterosexual man to want a woman with boobs bigger than his. I do not believe it's natural to believe that you need the upper extremes of sexual dimorphism in these areas in order for a heterosexual person to be attracted to someone of the opposite sex.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2024-10-07T02:00:13+00:00

I am once again asking someone to provide me with actual proof of bad men, abusive men, criminal men, cheaters, etc. being better-looking than the average population.

It's often repeated, but never proven that women are only or mostly abused and treated poorly in general by good-looking men. But no one has ever once provided actual data to support this, and to me it's just feelings over facts until otherwise proven.

Amusingly enough, it really is just the inverse of the halo effect women are frequently accused of having. Except it's bitter men assuming if a guy looks good, he's a horrible person - or if a woman was mistreated by a guy, she only tolerated it because he was hot.

If all hot guys are evil then it certainly is justified to hate and think lesser of women for sexually desiring them, isn't it? Especially since they ignore the virtuous but average or unattractive men. It's necessary to believe in such a just-world fallacy in order to blame and hate and rage at women for preferring sexually attractive men to have sex with. It conveniently gives a moral basis to hate women for wanting to have sex with sexually attractive men, instead of men who aren't. Because those men are always horrible cheaters, but women don't care because gina tingles 😠😠

And for those who want to inevitably claim this literally never happens, here's a post where men are jizzing themselves silly confirming how women always extrapolate the behavior of those hot shitty men onto those totally average dindu nuffin non-hot men who I guess we all know never treat women shittily

I don't give a fuck about your anecdotes, I have plenty of my own of knowing too many ain't shit men who are average and below-average looking. So miss me with that, it means nothing. When I watch the news and see the mugshots of the men accused of killing, stalking, and abusing their partners, I never once have seen one of a hot man. They're actually pretty ugly most of the time.

So.

Where

Is

Your

Data?

P.s. you can also spare me the dark triad etc. studies, because those are mostly about personality, not looks - and 99.9% of men who treat their partners like shit never get a formal diagnosis of anything anyway. I'm looking for actual proof that these men are taller, have more attractive faces, less balding, bigger dicks, etc. etc.

Ok-Party8338 · 2024-10-06T21:53:39+00:00

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Dry-Ad3452 · 2024-10-06T14:46:23+00:00

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A photo of my ideal Stacy (AI-generated image). I see women dressed in this exact promiscuous outfit daily, even in 50-degree weather. I'm such a sucker for those short shorts.

Muscletov · 2024-10-06T09:00:56+00:00

Being bald as a man is neutral at the very best and that is if you're tall, have a masculine face, even skullshape and decent beard growth. In all other cases it's a moderate to massive flaw, e.g. if you have a boyish face or lumpy skull. Age also plays a role of course, balding in your late teens or early 20s is simply brutal.

By the way, why do mods always drag their feet pinning the looks weekly thread? Must be on purpose because it's the same shit every other week.

Grow_peace_in_Bedlam · 2024-10-06T04:33:25+00:00

Can we agree that, if you're constantly seeking partners with significantly better measurements than the people in your immediate family of your preferred sex, you're probably shooting out of your league? E.g., your dad and/or brother are 5'9" but you'll only date men over 6'0", or your mom and/or sister have flat butts and small boobs, but you refuse to date women below a D cup or who couldn't have been extras in the "Baby Got Back" video.

Savings-Bee-4993 · 2024-10-06T02:58:48+00:00

Many men appear unattractive because they have no confidence in themselves. To a lesser degree, it’s the same with women.

Ok-Party8338 · 2024-10-05T21:58:18+00:00

Women should be encouraged to stop wearing make-up. It would be a lot better for their self esteem.

Major_Decision_7107 · 2024-10-05T18:32:03+00:00

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I will be listening to this song on repeat

TallFoundation7635 · 2024-10-05T18:07:59+00:00

Jeremy meeks is a murderer and he has girls fawn over him lmfao. Ted Bundy was a serial killer and he gets more women than the average looking man does, let that sink in.

Major_Decision_7107 · 2024-10-05T17:45:41+00:00

I just watched the joker. It’s the ultimate symbolism of the human condition- nobody gives a shit about you even the girl who supposedly loves you for who you are.

IdiAminD · 2024-10-05T17:41:21+00:00

It is projected that childhood obesity in Europe will rise by 60% till 2035. It is a crime against children. Unfortunately my personal observations confirm - fast food chains are growing like cancer everywhere and big group of clients are kids and teenagers.

ThatBitchA · 2024-10-05T17:39:04+00:00

Looks don't matter when your whole vibe is creepy, desperate, and just a bit musty.

You can look handsome as fuck and open that mouth and be the ugliest rat ever.

Looks can increase bases on the whole vibe. Making someone hotter and sexier the more you get to know them.

Redpill-mind · 2024-10-05T17:33:28+00:00

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Ylduts · 2024-10-05T16:45:31+00:00

I’m glad I’m a man. I’m 45 but luckily making millions has made me attractive to young ladies. It’s a burden I must bear.

Cunnin_Linguists · 2024-10-05T16:42:29+00:00

Me waiting for the whiteknights to post their pics

MikeArrow · 2024-10-05T16:35:29+00:00

Ah, just in time for the weekly concentrated dose of despair and hopelessness. Cheers 🥂

Adject_Ive · 2024-10-05T16:17:26+00:00

Some maniac decapitated 2 girls in my country for some satanic stuff and there are already dozens of twitter people defending him cuz he has "innocent eyes" or some sh. The world is fucked man

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