Is it just me or Male Sexuality is hated while female sexuality is praised ?

tablueraspberry · 2025-07-17T22:38:57+00:00

Agreed, it's odd because it gets framed the other way round all the time yet it's constantly men being made to feel like their sexuality is inherently predatory.

I see them use porn as an example as mens sexuality being catered to, not realising porn and things like only fans is actually mens sexuality being exploited and preyed upon for money.

SubstantialMajor2798 · 2025-07-17T23:25:50+00:00

Women monetising their sexuality is slay move for a few, it’s her choice for few, but her customer base is always “incel” , “degenerate”.

Not endorsing but never understood the hypocrisy

Former-Dragonfly2226 · 2025-07-17T22:25:02+00:00

It’s not just you

TrainingGap2103 · 2025-07-17T23:02:47+00:00

Its funny cause they'll use the excuse the male sexual gratification comes at the cost of objectifying women, yet female sexual gratification is usually 99% of the time the exact same thing - and sometimes its even worse.

Men will watch normal porn videos, women will read the raunchiest smut ever with a girl literally being a sex slave, and yet the later is fine

No_Leather3994 · 2025-07-18T00:52:41+00:00

Reminds me of feminists telling me sex work is empowering for women and it's her body but in the same breath saying the men consuming the content are pervs and dangerous.

So are they empowered or victims?

aslfingerspell · 2025-07-18T04:25:10+00:00

I tried to make a "Support Wanted" post in a dating subreddit, talking about how as a straight man I would love to have consensual, mutually enjoyable sex, and how it feels so wrong and taboo to just say "I want sex.", even if there's nothing wrong with it and everyone wins.

I was told by one commenter that I'm not owed women and should stop seeing them as toys.

It's like they literally didn't even read the post, and it got removed.

webernicke · 2025-07-18T03:09:30+00:00

It's a good example of feminist hypocrisy and how gender liberation has been a one way street. Traditionally, both genders were sexually suppressed, but while feminists have championed female sexuality as empowering, male sexuality is still seen as dangerous dirty perverted and predatory. by these same feminists.

DeadInternet7 · 2025-07-18T00:02:32+00:00

You are 100% correct. It’s not just you, it is the current climate in society

HardenedClay · 2025-07-18T00:57:17+00:00

I feel like this is also shown through how gay vs lesbian relationships are viewed. Lesbian relationships are often depicted as being beautiful. Gay relationships are shown as being rough, argumentative, and extremely sexual a lot of the time. I've also noticed a lot of women write gay relationships. Which is weird to me

IceCorrect · 2025-07-18T06:43:44+00:00

Only when you are not hot enough. Remember project 'chad' when supermodel have in his bio that he is a pedo and women have no problem with him

Femi_gnatzee_hunter · 2025-07-18T00:37:42+00:00

Yeah, it's true, male sexuality is seen as disgusting and filthy while women are seen as holy beings of pure light.

aryaman16 · 2025-07-17T22:38:44+00:00

Lol, thats what I believe is the biggest reason behind poor dating life of men.

Tam_A_Shi · 2025-07-18T05:02:35+00:00

Craziest thing is that it’s fine when they act up cause of their hormones but it’s somehow wrong that testosterone cause us to desire them more. We simply have different biological needs in relationships and that’s fine

midwestCD5 · 2025-07-18T16:55:02+00:00

“Don’t sexualize us OMG!”

-chick who Has an onlyfans link in her bio

bifewova234 · 2025-07-17T22:40:12+00:00

Its usually judged using the saw it and didnt like it standard.

coming2grips · 2025-07-17T23:06:36+00:00

Well observed

arbab_islam12 · 2025-07-18T08:21:47+00:00

what else can be expected from hypocrites?

DifficultyDry5305 · 2025-07-18T23:05:38+00:00

It's funny how it's the opposite on the other side. Women tend to point out how female sexuality is hated but male sexuality is praised. Check out the kpop fandom. You'll meet lots of them blaming men for hating promiscuous female kpop idols when in fact most of the hate are coming from women themselves lol.

They also blame men when a sexy anime/manga girl is presented when in reality you are most likely going to encounter female eroge manga artists than men. Also the fact that some of these women even deny the existence of big busty women.

Reasonable_Elk3267 · 2025-07-18T01:10:17+00:00

Same with experimentation.

Snoo_78037 · 2025-07-18T18:23:01+00:00

Because men's sexuality has always been seen as inherently predatory. "Men only want one thing," etc. Men are seen possibly corrupting a woman if he sleeps with one but not the other way round. Men are constantly being accused of objectifying women and using them only for their bodies, and women who are willingly promiscuous are rarely ever accused of taking advantage of men. Even when Lily Philips slept with 100 men in a day or something who were probably lonely or touch starved. She was still painted as the victim.

xxTheMagicBulleT · 2025-07-18T23:57:25+00:00

Agreed. The same as how expression of emotions and feelings is accepted of women but punished by men.

The same is true with sexual needs and desires.

In the past it was shamed on both sides. Many barriers have been removed but only one way. What makes many men more likely to pull back from society. Relationship. And marriage all together. Why you have a lot of men choosing to be single. Not cause they cant have a relationship. But cause respect and fair treatment is not the same. Society like to shame many as losers. As neets. Incells and the like.

But many forget big part of it is that a lot os demanded off them but not a whole lot is reciprocal given back to them. So often even if they can have relationships easily more and more just choose to not have them cause the lack of reciprocal respect. Investment. And responsibilities.

Former_Range_1730 · 2025-07-18T02:17:26+00:00

Only a specific demographic of women hate male sexuality. And those women are competing with men, for attention from other women.

marchingrunjump · 2025-07-18T06:43:19+00:00

I once had an acquaintance talking about his disdain for c-suite men with a high sexual appetite because they focused on the “lowest of the low human urges”. Dirty bastards.

He did start to think when I pointed out that somewhere below men’s drive for sex is an underlying drive for having offspring. Why would that be the lowest of the low of human urges?

What is broodyness in women must be concentrated into sex focus for men. Men can’t do much else.

AndyRoo2023 · 2025-07-18T06:44:50+00:00

No, it's just you who thinks that. (Sarcasm).

dougpschyte · 2025-07-18T06:48:58+00:00

Imagine you made millions of mini-mes every single hour of the day, and you found it enjoyable to release them. In fact, you HAD to release them, for your own physiological and mental well being.

Or, imagine you released one mysterious egg every month, a not very pleasant process over which you had no control. And, if you succumbed to your desires, after 9 months, you'd be expelling, in pain, what you took in in pleasure.

And thus 50% of the population are seen as some sort of saints, while the others are labelled as the hedonistic pleasure seekers. Religions even call normal behaviour a 'sin'.

Society has always tried to control males to its advantage. When work was physical, demanding and strenuous, male labour was essential for families to survive. Women put bait on a hook, reeled men in, we had kids, worked for a lifetime, got lectured about 'sin' on a Sunday (which was probably the only day where we had enough energy to be sinful).

Now, 'work' is predominately white collar and easy. Women are preferenced in educational grants and employment quotas.

That's all that has happened. Difficult and demanding male labour is no longer required for survival. So, the untold trillion gazillion of male mini-mes, freely available through Tinder and other vendors, have been devalued still further.

GreatBayTemple · 2025-07-18T01:31:56+00:00

Women flirting with each other is praised, men flirting with each other is stigmatized but really its by mostly from other men. Nothing stopping you from being celebratory of your sexuality and the sexuality of other men. What does male sexuality even look like? Does anyone even know? A lot of those male behaviors were more or less snuffed out in social settings. Can men be sexually expressive without directing it at others?

DFVSoldHisOptions · 2025-07-18T08:58:11+00:00

Modern female sexuality ...

Basically find hot tall guys to fuck/play around when they are young and then settle for stability when older.

Sufficient_Button363 · 2025-07-18T10:02:42+00:00

Great thread. On TV there's absolutely nothing to cater for mens sexuality, that all went out in the 70s and 80s, movies much the same. As somebody said theres now a depressingly puritanical society.

MeasurementNice295 · 2025-07-18T14:07:33+00:00

Because male sexuality is inherently subtractive and thus "demonic" in the eyes of feminists.

It's a biological evolutive reality that they will never admit, but it's a core part in every legal imbalance in cases involving men x women, for example, to the feminist's clueless applause.

noncommie_ · 2025-07-19T11:56:35+00:00

Everything male is hated and the females feel great about hating us and spreading the hate about us.

Adventurous_Design73 · 2025-07-22T01:05:37+00:00

Males are also mutilated at birth because they could actually feel and have sexual sensitivity later on in life you are not allowed to enjoy sex

Additional_Insect_44 · 2025-07-23T11:19:41+00:00

It is in areas. In school and church as a boy in saw all the time how male gaze or seeing girls as attractive was bad, but the girls would then do the same. Same with boys chasing girls or going up to give them hugs. I even had a staff member in high school tell a girl to not trust men in regards to babysitting. Lol and women dont abuse kids?

They wonder why men go to the East particularly rural East.

Such_Phrase1737 · 2025-07-18T17:11:36+00:00

its definitely the other way around. the only time when this actually is true is when men and companies get money from women by exploiting them—giving people the image that they’re confident and free, when its the total opposite

Karkota_24Rollno · 2025-07-23T00:22:37+00:00

It’s the other way around. Women are told they are sluts for high body count and men are praised for it and told they are kings.

It amazes me the lengths y’all will go to pretend to be victims. Y’all need to crack open a history book.

FrostingPlenty4801 · 2025-07-24T01:04:06+00:00

It’s because when men express sexuality, they objectify women and feel entitled to their bodies. Most if not all women have dealt with an asshole man because he couldn’t control his horniness. At best a man might cheat on you, demand nudes as if you owed him that, or stare at you like a piece of meat. On average, they cat call you or smack you on the ass, and at worst, SA or 🍇. Very few women let their sexuality violate someone else’s body or autonomy plus for centuries women would get slut shamed for being remotely sexual or for sleeping with a guy when he pressured her. Men are rarely held accountable when they treat women like objects but if women have consensual and respectful sex, she’s worse than men who commit SA. It’s nice seeing men finally get held accountable for using their horniness as an excuse to be an asshole.

DialecticWound · 2025-07-18T01:47:39+00:00

female sexuality was vilified historically . In the modern era it flipped 180 cause we humans can't ever find balance in fixing something.

Is it just me or Male Sexuality is hated while female sexuality is praised ?

Comments

There is that infamous Bible, not written by feminists, I promise.

Then there's islam quran hadith & the likes.

These are not feminist texts is it dear?

Title	Is it just me or Male Sexuality is hated while female sexuality is praised ?
Author	Karkota_24Rollno
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Date	July 17, 2025 10:14 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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