I 21F, was asked out by a a 28M who is a millionnaire. He made that very clear from our first meeting which was in a pretty exclusive place & he was driving a very expensive car. I didn’t act interested at all at first because i was seeing someone (he doesn’t know this) at the time but I did give him my number after he asked twice. (I only mention his net worth because there is a big component in the dynamic, he has a huge ego & feels as though he is the prize, but he is also very busy & focused.)

Since then, he said he’s like to take me to dinner (never happened), & to a new place in my city (never happened). He also keeps saying he wants to bring me on his trips, for example we’d talk about switzerland & i would say something like “yeah it’s nice there i heard” & he would say “ill take you so you can see for yourself”.

Eventually, I got tired of texting so I asked him to grab coffee with me after work which he agreed to. He picked me up at the train station, opened his car door for me & took me around the city. We grabbed a bite which he paid for & enjoyed our walk.

After that event, he expressed how intrigued he was with my personality & I have to say we got along really well, i enjoyed our talk a lot.

He then invited me to his place & we spent all afternoon talking & cooking together. We did this for three days straight. We never got intimate, only a hug to say hi & goodbye. (I’d like to mention here, he is religious & very respectful in that manner)

He left for a business trip afterwards & I didn’t see him for 4 weeks. We talked almost every day. I did tell him i missed him. He said he did too. He kept complimenting me & showing interest in all ways. He would send me photos on his trip, interact with my story, tell me about his day etc. (he never asks about mine)

& then he came back in our city & hasn’t texted me at all. Nothing. Last conversation was me wishing him a good flight. The last 3 days of his trip I was the only one initiating a conversation. When he replies he’s still warm, calling me love & sweetheart etc. He also takes more time to reply than before. But he hasn’t asked to see me at all. I don’t know if this is a mind game, or he’s lost interest.