The most successful guy you ever saw

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Wean1eHu11 · 2025-09-19T19:28:28+00:00

He simply didn’t give a single fuck about how people saw him. He would say the most outrageous things, a lot of it sexist or racist, and they’d laugh and coo over how naughty he was being. I think there was an inherent advantage for his style of charm coming from a lower socioeconomic background that people felt he “didn’t know better”. I never tried to be like him because I I know that I would be expected to behave better and it wouldn’t work

UnidentifiedTomato · 2025-09-19T19:28:44+00:00

Plated himself in perceived wealth. Gold chain, nice watch, tattoo sleeves. Treated getting laid like sales (his job). Super extroverted and verbally combative and derogatory in a weirdly funny way. Never really had an off switch on his enthusiasm towards someone he wanted to get and never seemed to be tired of doing so. He coated the chip on his shoulder to make it seem like there was a conversation. Dressed well and hid his imperfections. Very idgaf attitude masking a fragile ego with a vendetta to get back. Helped him never to let women manipulate him and in turn manipulated women by using it against himself. The way he spoke, was very much in a way that women understood he's a fkboy but it was disguised as Convo.

SkotchKrispie · 2025-09-19T20:28:23+00:00

My best friend and roommate in college. Far better than any pick up influenced. Far far better. He wasn’t terribly good looking. 5’10” 135 lbs and a pooch of fat at the bottom of his stomach that he would pull off his body. I don’t have fat that loose anywhere. He didn’t wear fancy clothes.

He was very socially confident and nice yet not subordinate in any way. He was very quick to laugh and to laugh at himself. He had a fake laugh that was very convincing. He was always in a positive attitude despite his life not going terribly well.

It was impressive. I saw him take one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen home from biology class on the first day. They were having intercourse 30 minutes after they first started talking. I talked to her first and failed; he then returned to class and introduced himself.

His Dad and he go out to the bar and hit on women together. His dad is a master. His dad is married ahd his wife doesn’t care. His dad was a bouncer starting at 19 and began hitting on women all the time then.

taysoncat14 · 2025-09-19T20:00:52+00:00

Everyone seems to forget the key here; “ constant exposure”.You cold be hot as fuck but if you spend your days playing video games and coding in your room, women won’t know you exist so you’re gonna get no pussy …

Life-Income2986 · 2025-09-19T19:40:21+00:00

lol. Very funny answers already.

The single most valuable trait you can have is to actually like women. Like, you seek out women and their perspectives as part of your every day. You have women who are your friends. Do you want to know the first step to being really good with women? Be around them a lot. Understand them. Actually like them.

Or you know it's the sleeve tattoos and the racism or whatever lmao

aFida95 · 2025-09-19T20:27:10+00:00

I know seddit likes to talk about stoic alphas but usually I’ve seen that the emotional guys do pull. The drama reels them in and they’re more relatable to women.

CruzAzul514 · 2025-09-19T20:59:23+00:00

my best freind

he's 6' and muscular with tanned skin. However, so am i but i dont pull shit (i am not muscular like him, though).

What really set him apart is that he was majorly extroverted with very strong charisma. He is a top tier salesman for his company and i guess those skills translated to his personal life.

cs_throwawayyy · 2025-09-19T19:57:16+00:00

May sound black pill

Most successful guys have 0 game. Just awkward, no social skills, maybe even no job etc. but just looks tall and handsome.

No_Professor1089 · 2025-09-19T20:09:31+00:00

I'm loving the replies here because I personally haven't seen anybody close to me who's great with girls so this is an eye opener to me

jackthehat6 · 2025-09-19T19:26:35+00:00

My ex wingman. Don't think i've ever seen someone so effortlessly get laid with hot girls like him before (outside of characters in films lol)

Just a very very good looking guy I guess. When we'd go out, he'd get approached (he never approached!) maybe 6-8 times per night. Sometimes by super hot young girls. Young ones would always pretend to recognise him. Slightly older ones would always just flat out touch him and tell him he was hot. if we went too a place with a dancefloor he was surrounded by girls in minutes even though he didn't actually know how to dance or whatever lol

From there he'd just dance with them for a bit, make out, and then decide whether to bang them or not (he's turned down more lays than most guys could dream of having lol. Usually either because he had a girlfriend who he didn't like to cheat on unless the temptation was just too great. Or because he seemed to prefer to eat a massive takeaway pizza to himself after a night out as opposed to get laid lol. I guess that's the result of getting laid with whoever you want from the age of about 15!!).

In terms of 'game' he certainly didn't do anything people here think of as 'game' (cold reads, teasing, ''pushpull'' etc). But honestly, i've tested all that stuff myself and none of it actually works. He just asked some questions. Answered hers. And let her flirt and game HIM until it naturally escalated to kissing and then sex

Outside-Quarter-2866 · 2025-09-19T21:42:53+00:00

An Indian guy, about 5’5, not really taking much care of his appearance, and missing a few bottom teeth. He had that kind of skinny-fat body, I’d say somewhere around 135–145 pounds, but he always dressed well.

What really stood out was his charisma he worked as a resort entertainer. He was constantly surrounded by women who looked like they had stepped out of a magazine. I’ve met a few men who do well with women at that level, but I had never seen someone with his looks pull it off. It honestly didn’t make sense to me.

Of course, being a tourist entertainer and doing shows that were half comedy, half strip act definitely helped but even then, it was still pretty remarkable.

I know a lot of people here won’t believe me, but I can send photos in private.

autodidacticasaurus · 2025-09-19T21:49:14+00:00

it was easy to provoke him into a rage outburst and girls did that to play mind games with him.

Holy shit, that part actually surprises me. You'd think they'd detect it earlier. Was that guy also very comfortable around women? I think the people who do worst around women are the ones who are nervous. The people who do best are the ones who are just completely at home and can be themselves, you know?

TeeKayTank · 2025-09-19T22:23:08+00:00

Texan2116 · 2025-09-20T04:19:11+00:00

not the best per se, but I have never seen anyone hot out of his league like this.

Back in 83 or so, I had a friend of mine, lived in the shitty public apartments in our town...no place anyone wanted to admit living at..anyways his neighbor, unemployed, sold weed, and sppedd, was the first person I ever met covered in homemade tattos, and really shitty ones. all but his face was covered..and again shitty tats.

Anyhows one day I was in my work shirt from the grocery store I worked at, and he asked if I knew a gal worked there.

I said yeah I knew her but only spoke to her in passing. Now this chick was one of the hottest chicks I have ever personally seen..smokin, and I knew she was enrolled in college as well.

So, she had everything going for her.

And so, this dope head covered in tatts, said that she was his GF....I was like no fuckin way..

And lo and behold, a couple weeks later, she was hanging out with us smoking pot in the shitty apartments...turned out to be true.

have no idea what became of them

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-09-20T11:04:21+00:00

I used to have a wing and he would almost pull every night we went out. Usually at the beginning we'd split up and then combine our sets later on around 1am.

The reason why he is successful is because his approach acount was around 8,000.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-09-20T02:27:42+00:00

I've posted about it several times, but one of the most bizarre ones I've seen was a guy who was part of our vacation group a few years ago. He was only about 5'5 with blonde hair and average build. It wasn't a celeb or any type of influencer, etc.

He had a presence that was tough to describe without seeing in person. Basically, just the guy being around elevated the energy in the room and everyone stopped to listen when he'd speak. People would follow him around. If he laughed, others would laugh. You kind of get the idea.

Women were literally competing for his attention. He hooked up with someone every day of the trip from what I could tell and it was a two week vacation. I remember sitting in the hot tub and these two women were sulking and asking each other why that guy doesn't like them. People would talk about him while he wasn't around. And when he did stroll through, he'd be the center of attention.

Iask_questionss · 2025-09-20T03:21:54+00:00

Couple buddies of mine.

A—He was lean but fit, stood at 5’7”, Hispanic with pale skin. Always dressed well, groomed, and clean. His face was maybe a 6.5 at best, but he carried himself with calm confidence. Soft-spoken, always saying hi to the girls on campus, involved in every school event, and friends with everyone. His personality was friendly, charming, and laid-back, never negative. He loved to laugh, and his laugh was goofy, but in a way that made people like him even more. He was hooking up left and right. Four of my girl best friends were sleeping with him regularly, on top of the other girls he’d casually hook up with. When he texted my friends, he was bold—straight up letting them know he wanted ass. Still, he knew how to hold a conversation, asking girls how they were doing, how class was going, and keeping steady eye contact.

B–He was a skinny guy with thin wrists, a white dude with pale skin and colored eyes, standing 5’6” and a 7 Face. He dressed well, was soft-spoken, and had a natural charm. Everywhere we went, he said hi to the girls—at work, outside of work, anywhere. He loved to laugh, and it wasn’t goofy—it felt easy and genuine. His personality was friendly, stoic, relaxed, and curious, just fun to be around and never negative. He was also hooking up left and right. He could hold a real conversation, ask girls how they were, and keep steady eye contact.

C– He is lean, not fit, dressed unique—lots of sex appeal, hispanic with light brown skin but not pale. He stood at 5’5 and a face of a 7. Said hi to everyone, was at all the parties, never negative, never judgmental, known to be “The most chilliest dude”. Only seen him hook up with 5 girls since i’ve meet him, but dude never left a party without at least getting digits or a make out session.

D—He is Lean and fit, dressed well, dark complected hispanic standing at 6’1. Dude was the polar opposite of the other guys. Rude, loud, arrogant, was honest..too honest. Face is a 7.9. Starts off sweet with the ladies, then degraded them on the regular after they get close. (Post hooking up) He was picky about the girls he’d date. They had to be “baddies” and they always were. He was also extremely funny, and full of charisma. He would say hi to everyone and anyone. Sometimes negative but that just might be because he was around homies. He always had multiple girls on rotation. His snapchat alone had 20+ active conversations, and his instagram had at least 10+

These are the only dudes I have meet in the last 15 years that I have single handedly saw for myself smash girls on the regular, and be really good at it.

warbloggled · 2025-09-19T23:05:31+00:00

Myself. I read the game and that shit made me unstoppable. Suddenly I could pick up every non-verbal cue, girls would say it’s like I could read their minds, and I could.

My male friends would ask me what happened?

How do I do it?

And I would try to teach them but it would go mostly over their heads.

I would receive screenshots from my friend of texts he would receive from girls asking about or complimenting me, from even when I did “nothing”, just being in my presence was enough for them.

I would tell them it’s because every little detail matters, eye contact, posture, outfit, vocabulary. It’s a lot at first but if you study and practice, these things become internalized and manifest naturally.

Cephus1961 · 2025-09-20T04:06:03+00:00

The best I ever saw was a low-level party drug dealer who had loads of irrational confidence and a bent towards mysticism. He never got women with high emotional EQ. But he didn't dabble with skanks either. Totally fearless in making approaches, he knew how to make himself the center of any event. He's eroded some because of decades of drug use but still leagues ahead in in terms of the average guy in finding companionship.

TuneSoft7119 · 2025-09-20T02:15:55+00:00

Showed up one day to a young adult group and we hit it off, and he joined the friend group. There was this girl in the group who is an absolute model but saw every guy as a friend including him. After about a year she started to like him and they are now engaged.

Not what yall are expecting, but the guy is living the dream.

Demmitri · 2025-09-20T11:39:39+00:00

Honestly? the most successful guy I've ever seen is a good friend of mine who looks like Brad Pitt and has lots money. He is awkward af and it's a miracle he got married. At the end of the line, looks and money itself will ALWAYS give you massive advantage. But then again, whatever is possible with the right set of mind and strategy.

I-am_the_hunter · 2025-09-20T22:22:22+00:00

He is relentless, he never stops approaching even if he has 4-5 girls he's already fucking, he never stops and he is also extremely open about who he is and what he does, he never sugar coats anything and always tells the girls he is not stopping what he is doing, we do approach together in sessions,not the same girls, i also get girls alongside although not close to his frequency. he's been doing it since he was 15 and he's 22 now, im 21, learned a lot of things just by watching him in action

Low-Investigator2953 · 2025-09-19T19:35:35+00:00

The one I know and is a friend of mine is bisexual . Forget about women , his game is so good that he fucks hot girls as well as hot guys , would you believe that . The crazy part about this is the guys he fucks are straight , he convince them to sleep with me , doesn't matter top or bottom . He is getting what he wants . He is mad about doing things and very disciplined in every aspect . Always aces his exams , school , colleges and even at work . He is just 24 and earning well , comes in top 10% of my country

Title	The most successful guy you ever saw
Author	All_That_Fugazi
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Date	September 19, 2025 7:13 PM UTC (10 months ago)
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