If you’re a guy, and you’re fit, well-groomed, well-dressed, have a job and are mentally stable… you’re average. And the faster you understand that, the easier things will be.

Firstly, we aren’t talking average compared to the total population of men. But when a woman is looking for an eligible partner, they aren’t looking at the whole population of men.

Here’s another way to look at it. If you put a straight guy in a room with 100 people (50 men/50 women), and you asked him how many eligible partners there are for him in the room, he most likely will say 50 (referencing the 50 women, and ignoring the 50 men). Now logically and factually speaking there is 100 eligible partners for the man in the room. But he naturally filtered out the men without a second thought.

That’s what women do, if you’re like a guy I’m describing in the title, it’s unfair to yourself to compare yourself to the fat slob loser living in his parents basement, bc that guy isn’t on the women’s menu.

Furthermore, if you think women have high standards for calling a guy in the title average… let’s breakdown what they are looking for. Someone who’s clean, and stable. That’s it… I think that’s a perfectly reasonable thing to expect.

I think this is really important for guys to realize bc what they are currently doing is overrating their appeal and overrating themselves.. and then they are getting upset when they don’t get the attention, or treatment they believe they deserve.

And before you pushback about girls overrating themselves, it’s different… and it’s different for a reason a lot of guys complain about. Those 5s that you’re mad are acting like 10s, are getting attention from 10s (maybe not commitment like you guys say).