This is especially true with the redpill, claiming it's about telling guys the truth about dating but it's teaching basic understanding of dating most people already learnt by 18 and misses even more obvious facts about people.

For example, the most common "red pill moment" I heard is that "No one told me when women lists what they want in a guy, they added in he has to be attractive to her!" Why did anyone need to tell you that? Would YOU date someone you dont find attractive? Did you actually wanted her to list when she found attractive? Did you ASK what women found attractive or did you ask "What do you like in a guy" kind of vague question?

Now AWALT is the saddest excuse for not figuring out women. Most "blue pill" can tell women apart besides their physical appearance: personality, background, socio-economics, subculture, hobbies, political views, mental disorders, etc This is also is the biggest proof of how so many guys are self-centered and lazy thinkers. It shouldn't be hard to figure out how Woman A is different from Woman B.

As an adult you shouldn't need certain things spelled out to you like "Admit that women can be just as bad as men!" like who told you were perfect? My country of America doesn't. Children's media is filled with female villains, so they definitely knew women can be evil. Maleficent, Evil Stepmother, and Ursula are some of the most popular villains. And real life had everyone hate Casey Anthony like she was OJ because she never reported her child missing. Why would need someone to tell you women are capable of evil. Just look around.

On the topic of kids, they get in the way. And no one is prepared for how long this last because no one really says it. Because it's so taboo to admit that as wonderful and fulfilling as children are, they're also egotistical little need goblins that will ruin your sex life whether you want them to or not unless you are extremely vigilant to prevent this.

This inspired to write this post because kids being a pain in the ass is something should have figured out growing up. Even Rugrats showed how hard it is to raise kids and it's a show for kids about baby protagonists. Even Rugrats was a show about how vigilant you have to be when it comes to kids. Even in modern day, a popular meme is "I turn away for one second and my toddler is getting into danger" Beyond rugrats, there are other ways to figure out raising kids has its obstacles. The fact you had to raise a person for about 2 decades didn't connect the dots? Babysitting? Younger siblings? Paying attention in kids to all the annoying kids? Thinking back to your childhood and how annoying you must have been to your parents?

So this speaks to a level of willful ignorance and a refusal to be curious about the world around you. I have noticed a pattern with young guys who they like staying in their bubble and then they will confidently talked about how they didn't know things that most people who touched grass knew. Hell, the examples I gave dont even require touching grass. You just have to actually pay attention to mainstream media, not just your For You Page.