Originally, I was going to respond to this comment from /u/BluePillProfessor.

We use the term Red Pill as a sort of in-joke for waking up from a system of lies as like in the matrix. We also use the term "Red Pill" to refer to a man who is aware of the system and is/has woken up.

These are fine, at first. Later, I've come to know that "Red Pill" is just a term for a very specific sexual strategy. "The Red Pill," the subreddit that started it all, is literally "Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men."

Then there is "Married Red Pill." MRP is that same sexual strategy, but for men in marriages. To the boys in TRP, MRP is anathema to their system of praxeology. TRP eschews marriages. Unsuprisingly, MRP, generally, eschews marriages too. In fact, I'd go so far as to say if an MRP man were to get divorced he wouldn't get married again. I'd go even further to say that if they were to do it all over again, and MRP man would have never gotten married.

So that's Red Pill, for men: execute a sexual strategy that maximizes sexual success for the man. Marriage tends to counteract that maximization of sexual success. Sexual success, for men in a Red Pill sense, is as many sexual partners as possible. The long game for some may be to find that virtuous woman with whom he finds pleasure in both a sexual context and long term companion with whom to father children, legitimately; Even a TRP man has some realistic ideal as to the nature of a man's true biological success.

Marriage -legal marriage- doesn't play into this strategy as it provides no sexual success to him and is even prohibitive in terms of financial and resource allocation success; The legal entity that sanctifies the union seems to have a de-facto system in place to enable the woman and disable the man. Whether this is truly the situation doesn't matter, it is presented to a great many men in this way.

Then there's the odd little subreddit called "Red Pill Women." One may wonder why they refer to themselves as "Red Pill" when they are all women. But remember: Red Pill is just an interchangeable term for sexual strategy. IN RPW's case, it's sexual strategy for women.

The Man's sexual strategy is to strive for the top 20% (or better) of men in order to attract, and keep, as many women as possible for the purposes of sexual success. A man's sexual strategy is a singular one.

A woman's sexual strategy, on the other hand, is dualistic. Being the gatekeepers of sex and the bearers of children, she wants to find the best possible genetics for the strongest possible child while also procuring as much resources as possible in order to ensure that child's survival and thriving. The Red Pill refers to this as Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks.

And I'm just preaching to the choir here: we all know these things... but we seem to forget it from time to time. And I have to specify these things in order to make my argument clear:

Red Pill Women are Red Pill, through and through. Their advice is directly geared towards finding the best possible scenario for child production and child rearing... but while The Red Pill speaks about these things very overtly, RPW is much more covert about it, soft, even. They won't come right out and say, "welcome to RPW... we know you've been jumping from cock to cock and are looking to settle down now, and we know the years of constant sexual freedom have stripped your ability to properly bond with a mate properly, so we are here to help! We will give you the tools to try to be a woman that men will want to settle down with."

RTW clearly dislikes MRP, as a whole. Though they seem to, at least, not hate TRP. but why? MRP and TRP seem to have the same mindset and MRP should look better to them as MRP is about being a better man (and husband) and TRP is about, well, having nothing to do with marriage. So why the love for TRP and not MRP?

It's simple: MRP disrupts the dualistic mating strategy the woman thought she was successful with. MRP takes the beta the woman locked down into marriage and attempts to mold him into an alpha. She didn't want to marry an alpha (he may stray) and she didn't want to marry a man that other, younger, hotter women are attracted to because she may (gasp!) have to stop being a post-wall mess. RPW is for health and fitness and beauty and femininity... but every one of them know that there is a wall, most of them have hit it (or are about to hit it) and an alpha husband is a constant reminder that they are getting older while he is getting more attractive. And a man who knows he has options may decide to start taking advantage of those options.

But why doesn't TRP get this hate?

That's easy: TRP has ultimately filtered themselves from the pool of marryable men by identifying themselves as both men who won't marry, and men who they don't want to marry. And why don't they want to marry them anyways? Because they see TRPers like they see MRPers: men who aren't truly alpha but are trying to be alpha... liars, basically.

The difference, the line they draw between MRP and TRP, is that see MRP men as having tricked their wives: They married (demonstrating beta status) but then decided to become alpha ("suddenly," is the word they use) which makes that snowflake wife feel bad about herself. It doesn't take much to imagine them referring to what we do as emotional rape. We can see why they have a problem with MRP: A woman feels bad and might have to work hard to keep a man gaining value every day.

In short, every issue RPW has with MRP: the "faking" and "lying" about not being a beta makes them have to assess that this is exactly what RPW is doing: pretending to be a high value woman who had a stint on the cock carousel but needs to lock down that beta for marriage before her age and lack of social status renders her an aging spinster.

So here's the crux:

You all got shit tested by RPW and then decided to argue about it with them. You failed a large-scale shit test.

RPW is Red Pill... but they are not our Red Pill. A woman's sexual strategy and our sexual strategy are at odds, and only intersect where P meets V. Until P meets V, RPW should be disregarded in the same way you would disregard any woman or group of women throwing shit tests: A&A and Fogging with a high helping of Amused Mastery.

EDIT: BLECH. GO LIFT.