My comment on an r/sex post about a woman who's male "friend" tried to guilt her into having sex with him because she's had sex with other people and these are the responses. The post was locked before I could respond but why even bother 🤣🤣

Thestral-glow6 · 2020-09-15T16:39:38+00:00

This is exactly why you shouldn’t discuss your sexual past with men. He thinks he’s entitled to her body and she owes him basically.. That mentality is so dangerous.

GrapeJuiceEnthusiast · 2020-09-15T16:37:32+00:00

Oh yay let's gaslight yet another woman into thinking that she's the problem /s "SeEk PrOfEsSiOnAL cOuNsELLiNg!11" God males really are incapable of taking any responsibility are they?

burntbpd · 2020-09-15T16:42:07+00:00

Men have mastered the art of invalidating women and their experiences.

alichuchu · 2020-09-15T16:34:26+00:00

The person who wrote the very last comment is in for a surprise 🥴

chateauduchat · 2020-09-15T16:37:51+00:00

That comment towards how you should get therapy for your “views” infuriated me. I’m sorry, the statistics show that by and large, men are the perpetrators of abuse, crime, battery, assault, raping, and murdering, not to mention, almost every woman on this earth has been abused/taken advantage of and/or knows someone who has been by the hands of a man. IT’S BY AND LARGE NOT WOMEN DOING THESE THINGS TO MEN. To say that you need therapy for your views is just another form of victim blaming. It pisses me off to no end. We think this way as women because it PROTECTS US from male predators.

If I didn’t have FDS principles as soon as I did when I did, I would not be alive today.

Goomelstial · 2020-09-15T16:52:14+00:00

Don't be surprised if you start receiving hateful or even violent messages from throwaway accounts. But of course, you're the one who needs therapy, not them.

Unsurprisingly, the person who told you to "seek counselling" is a man. A man trying to invalidate your experiences because he can't take being a baddie, what a shocker.

theawkwardalli · 2020-09-15T18:18:55+00:00

Do men not understand that we can never fully trust them? The man that sexually assaulted me was my FRIEND who I thought I could trust. My (now ex) BOYFRIEND tried RAPING ME! Twice! 99% of my guy friends have tried having sex with me. We are cautious/untrusting for a reason!!!

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-09-15T17:20:28+00:00

"no one has any respect for consent! Everybody does it. Don't lie!"

Yikessss

That last guy is the type of man who used to lock women up in padded rooms for the rest of their lives because they wouldn't submit.

Trillian_42_ · 2020-09-15T18:13:23+00:00

“Seek counseling” okay tell that to all the women that have been murdered by men

GlamorKiss · 2020-09-15T20:05:47+00:00

This is so weird because, "oh so you're judging me by my looks?"

Yeah dude, like you judged her on hers which made you want to sleep with her 🤦‍♂️

ItsFreezen · 2020-09-15T17:23:07+00:00

He's abusive.

RavenWudgieRose · 2020-09-15T19:37:57+00:00

(Apologies for my profanities...)

They always use that gEt oFf ThE iNterNEt!! Type of shit, it really grinds my gears. I can smell through their bullshit of "meaning well for my mental health" when they know what we meant, it's pretty fucking patronizing. And it's just another tactic to dismiss and silence women's discussions and experiences about their views on men, and invalidate their gathered information just because tHe sOciAl MedIa could not be trusted... are you that fucking dense to think we only rely on those SMs?? Oh wait, they know, they just don't give a shit.

2020-09-15T19:40:05+00:00

ALSO, CAN WE JUST TALK ABOUT HOW OP WITH THE QUESTION HAS A VALID REASON TO REJECT HIM.

I love how women get call "bitches" for just stating facts that they are not attracted to the guy. I will rather be a "bitch" then sleep with someone who I never want to sleep with because he is ugly as hell. We can "trust" men but they always invaliding our points on why we don't want them.

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-09-15T19:41:47+00:00

Ofc someone had to come in with the ol' NAMALT. Never fails.

2020-09-15T19:37:08+00:00

That's sick

lskfjd743 · 2020-09-15T21:44:07+00:00

This reminds me of a really creepy comedy punchline attributed to Eddie Murphy - "once its on the menu its ALWAYS on the menu". Basically a woman has a sexual resume and she must perform whatever is on that sexual resume.

riotous486saturn · 2020-09-16T07:06:30+00:00

A rapist and rape apologist replies to you. I am not surprised, merely disgusted. Thank you for sending her that. I just hope she got to read it.

Novemberinthechair · 2020-09-15T21:29:08+00:00

Why do men think women dont get to have sex with men they find attractive?

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