Why are gold diggers demonized when their strategy is similar to Chad's?

sublimemongrel · 2018-03-07T17:13:58+00:00

Because the men here want to be him (Chad) and they don’t want to get stuck with her (gold digger).

DarkLord0chinChin · 2018-03-07T17:15:45+00:00

You can't "lose" sex like you can lose money

~~Unless you can and vags get worn out with each partner~~

Dubslav_von_Chekem · 2018-03-07T18:32:17+00:00

I don't hate gold diggers. I am not very fond of the idea of dating my looksmatch.

MyPasswordisPutin · 2018-03-07T17:29:39+00:00

Don’t you think there are happy gold digger/rich man relationships? I think there are. I think lots of ppl are perfectly happy to make that trade.

blackedoutfast · 2018-03-07T21:58:43+00:00

Chad gets demonized by women in the exact same way that men demonize golddiggers. it's just that women in the real world don't say "Chad" they call them fuckboy players.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2018-03-07T17:07:58+00:00

because men are Team Man, not Team Woman

exit_sandman · 2018-03-07T21:24:23+00:00

Because falling for a gold digger sucks a lot more than falling for Chad? (You're comparing getting P&D'd once vs. losing truckloads of money? Seriously?)

officerkondo · 2018-03-07T22:52:40+00:00

Women love Chad but men don't love gold diggers.

GridReXX · 2018-03-07T19:24:59+00:00

According to my recent OP regarding marriage exasperation, men prefer women who utilize the gold-digger strategy even though they won't admit it.

Christian_Kong · 2018-03-08T02:27:07+00:00

So both Chad and gold diggers do their best to invest little into people and gain a lot.

Chad invests little and gets little. Most women are having sex with someone, Chad gets it with little effort, while they may make other men jump through hoops for it. Chads aren't going to jump through hoops for girl because they have a line around the block trying to fuck them. It's something women give away freely and easily to Chads(until they "grow up.") In the end the woman is "hurt" because the bad boy that 10 other girls they know couldn't lock him down with first night sex, and neither could she.

Real gold diggers invest a lot and get a lot. Real gold diggers find a schlub, trick them into thinking they are into them and extract money from them. They do this by investing a lot of time in a guy for a financial payout. They aren't (at least most can't) going to be juggling/dating/marrying several wealthy schlubs at a time. Men are "hurt" by gold diggers by being socially manipulated for years and being financially bled dry.

The difference here is long term manipulation vs short term hope.

Now there are Chad status dudes that use women for everything(money, housing, etc) but I wouldn't say most men aim for that, nor would I guess TRP would get behind that type of guy. That is more akin to a gold digger. I think male and female gold digger are comparable than female gold digger vs Chad.

In the end you are comparing a man who dedicates years of his life and hundreds of hours of financial gain vs a woman who will spend several nights of Netflix and chill. There is a pretty big gap there.

BisquitBill · 2018-03-07T17:03:11+00:00

simple: women get attention all of the time. Men never receive that kind of attention. So, women who are gold diggers are using the attention given them to get money. Men hardly ever do that because the world largely ignores them.

wekacuck · 2018-03-07T17:05:41+00:00

The main difference is that Chad's strategy doesn't involve deception.

Chad doesn't pretend he wants more than sex and doesn't pretend to offer a relationship.

A gold digger pretends to want a relationship.

TheBookOfSeil · 2018-03-07T18:03:48+00:00

Money is a concrete resource. Sex is not. Sex cannot be saved and used at a later time, while money can be saved and utilized later. Therefore, what both parties stand to benefit isn't equivalent, and being that women exchange sex for money, I'm certain that they understand this very well.

Tedesche · 2018-03-07T17:59:53+00:00

Chad is only a positive archetype to RPers.

squidracer · 2018-03-07T18:15:04+00:00

Since when did players ever have a good reputation?

dicklord_airplane · 2018-03-07T18:48:10+00:00

i have no idea what you're talking about because players who don't commit are routinely hated in mainstream culture. i have to downplay how much of a man-slut i've been to avoid slurs and judgement.

RepresentativeData · 2018-03-07T19:27:10+00:00

Money is limited. Sex is infinite.

MuchLanguage · 2018-03-08T11:01:36+00:00

For the same reason the home sportsball team is lauded while the sportsball team from another state is condemned. People want to win.

When the other guy has a winning strategy its not FAIR, its playing DIRTY goddamnit.

When we do, its something to celebrate.

tiposk · 2018-03-07T17:32:44+00:00

Because who puts the money makes the rules. And for a long time this was the man. Female sexuality still carries some of its past stigma. People still see women who take advantage of their partners using their sexuality in a worse light compared to men who do the same.

Some will try and say that, unlike Chads, gold diggers are more deceptive, but that's pure rationalization. Everyone knows that hot young women don't date old rich men because of gina tingles.

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whichbladeN · 2018-03-07T17:11:20+00:00

Because nobody wants to be manipulated.

reformedorbiter · 2018-03-07T17:20:33+00:00

Chad wants sex and gets sex, the gold digger wants money/commitment but pretends she doesn't.

abaxeron · 2018-03-07T18:18:38+00:00

Because earning money drains decades of your lifespan - or a man's lifespan, generally, be it your dad or your uncle who decided to include you in his will; being able to provide sex requires nothing but to be born with two X chromosomes.

reluctantly_red · 2018-03-08T01:17:05+00:00

And Chads aren't demonized?

1UPZ_ · 2018-03-12T09:59:23+00:00

Not even the same...

There are also Gold Digging Men... how would a woman feel if the man she's dating or married to is only there for her resources.

A gold digger woman should be compared to a gold digger man... not to a "Chad"

AstuteBlackMan · 2018-03-07T18:43:52+00:00

Chad doesn't use deception to gain what he wants. Also getting sex from a girl then leaving her is nowhere near as bad as having a woman take your money. Anyone who equates the two aren't thinking fairly.

Also There are less good gold diggers (marry a man solely for wealth and will stay with him for it) as opposed to good chads (just blunt about wanting sex and being genuinely interested in having a good time).

I hardly even see any deceptive/bad chads. They're mostly just blunt as hell and are the life of a party.

darksoldierk · 2018-03-08T04:20:53+00:00

Because gold diggers weren't created men. They are created by women to take advantage of men. Chad is created by modern day feminism and bias divorce laws.

Orange_Paisley · 2018-03-07T17:01:50+00:00

Chad isn't deceptive.

Title	Why are gold diggers demonized when their strategy is similar to Chad's?
Author	MuchLanguage
Upvotes	7
Comments	138
Date	March 7, 2018 5:01 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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