Q4RP: Are you still willing to help women?

Salty-Bastard · 2017-12-27T20:50:22+00:00

Is this some sort of bad faith gotcha post? Here is the top comment from the TRP post.

Is this a parody thread? I don't get why you would make up such a bizarre scenario that has never happened anywhere and isn't even 4% believable.

I would help her without a second thought just because it's nice. Most people would. I haven't been to America but I'm not stupid enough to think it's some sort of post apocalyptic hell of purple haired fatties yelling 'rape' and 'triggered' like a buzzfeed comments section and men are strutting around laughing at the poor woman who is trying to trap men into 'raping' her..

Even the most extremist left wing university campuses don't sound half as bad as you seem to think the world is

And anything douchebag BPprofessor says is bullshit, he's an overweight has been re-living his high school days.

Dubslav_von_Chekem · 2017-12-27T20:57:35+00:00

Then I darkly muttered "Me Too Darling. A man's got to protect himself from toxic femininity"

And then I unzipped my penis. An eagle named Patriarchy landed on a nearby flagpole and shed a single tear. My penis's name? Alberto Barbeinstein.

Twitter world isn't fucking real, man. Nobody gives a shit.

blackedoutfast · 2017-12-27T23:06:30+00:00

it's easy to spot the difference between the relatively normal people who actually go out and regularly interact with other normal people in the real world, and those who live their lives almost entirely on the internet.

in real life, everyone has pretty much moved on from discussing sexual harassment. #metoo was really only a thing for about a week. it's not an issue. dudes aren't catching rape charges for hitting on a girl or getting fired for saying "hi" to a female co-worker or any of that. it's complete nonsense.

thesalmonwhisperer · 2017-12-27T20:59:56+00:00

no more than I would help a guy. so yea if some person asked me to help move a suitcase I'd probably do it.

fiat_lux_ · 2017-12-27T20:52:08+00:00

Depends on what I’m helping “women” with. I don’t help stranger women just because they are women. I help my mother, female cousins, and my gf. They’re weak.

Here’s what I don’t hnderstand. Why would nonsexist men assume women need help killing spiders?

This isn’t some kind of physical limitation. It takes no strength to kill a spider. Women don’t need male muscles. A moderately brave child could do it.

If I completely bought into that feminist lie that men and women are the exact same psychologically, I’d see it as disrespectful to assume she needed help with such a task.

Edit: I just read the Long bpp field report. Lol. most of the rpers are calling it fiction. In America no one helping that woman when she asked and she’s physically and obviously weak/short. Most people irl aren’t so political/idealistic, and won’t do that just to make a point.

crackrocksteady7 · 2017-12-27T21:07:48+00:00

I hold doors for everyone. Why not?

I don't do anything else for women, most notably white knighting for strangers in any way. Welcome to equality

AstuteBlackMan · 2017-12-27T22:25:26+00:00

I don't believe this post is even remotely true. I also don't believe you are posting this post for the true intentions of understanding red pill perspectives.

Yes. I'll help a woman. The fuck.

If I see a woman being raped you expect me to let my red pill rage anger hatred for women to kick in or something? It's really not a big deal

Where it is a big deal helping women is women who are constantly ungrateful and demand constant hell while constantly claiming superiority over me. Once she does that or shows any semblance of that then I refuse to help her.

Also, if it's a woman in public I am not obligated to help her with any issue. If woman are truly independent and don't need men's help then they shouldn't run to men for their problems and expect nothing out of it.

i_have_a_semicolon · 2017-12-27T20:46:09+00:00

My potential for spite is miles long, so I'll go with 'yes'

the story is nonsense though

Naya3333 · 2017-12-27T20:53:56+00:00

Lol, Europe is different, but I never had a man help me with my luggage or heavy bags in North America. It's not like North American men go out of their way to help women.

MercedesBenzoAMG · 2017-12-28T00:05:24+00:00

I consider this stuff common courtesy and do it for men and women alike. The MeToo paranoia on PPD is fucking insane.

SlimLovin · 2017-12-28T20:46:13+00:00

Granted, BPP is probably overstating it quite a bit, but I've seen much the same thing happen more than once during a deplaning.

So, yes, I long ago stopped offering any help to any woman I'm not related to. I don't hold doors, I don't lift or move things, and I don't do anything to help any woman. I won't be alone at work with a woman, and all communications with women at work are kept professional and are documented. They should not be looking to me for any help, since they've made clear they don't need it and any unwanted contact will likely be misconstrued.

DashneDK2 · 2017-12-28T02:16:29+00:00

I do. I live in Asia. The girls get instantaneously weak in the knees and gooey eyed when you help then with small things, like picking things up they dropped or holding a door or something. They're not used to it. There is none of all that nonsense #metoo moral panic either.

despisedlove2 · 2017-12-28T03:47:57+00:00

I think it is generally a good idea to avoid women in most contexts. They are all strong and independent anyways. They don't need me or my help. Be courteous and distant.

Protect your life and your wallet. Focus on your own work and priorities.

darksoldierk · 2017-12-28T04:15:25+00:00

Well, common courtesy is common courtesy. I'm not gunna let the door slam on the woman behind me's face just cause she's a woman, but obviously, I"m not going to be going out of my way to open doors for women. As far as everything else, I honestly stopped helping out women a long time ago. Carrying heavy things? Please. I've used the "hey, we don't live in that world anymore, you enjoy your right to vote don't you?" more than once when a woman would say something like "hey, your a guy, you need to lift this". I don't think that that is actual help though, that's just doing things that she could do, but is too lazy to.

In terms of actual help, like if I saw two women fighting, one with a knife and the other without, would I get in the way and try to protect the one without the knife? No, probably not. I could probably take down the woman with the knife without getting myself hurt, but I'm not risking harassment charges from the woman with the knife. I'm not ruining my life for some random women even if her life is on the line. If I see a woman on the side of the highway in the middle of the night with a flat tire, I sure as hell am not going to pull over to help her fix it. I expect men to know how to fix flat tires, and I'd be a hypocrite if I didn't expect the same from women. Hell, any car trouble I just don't pull over. We live in a world of cellphones, CAA and computers that tell you when your car is about to break down, if you can't be responsible with your vehicle, then it's not my job to fix stupid.

It's not meant to be a backlash against anything, women don't want help. They want to be treated the same as men. They want equality. That's the world I grew up in and that's the kind of treatment women are going to get from me.

EsauTheRed · 2017-12-27T21:26:35+00:00

The emotion in this thread just makes me think this user is a white knight enabler of shitty behavior by women

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SmeggingRight · 2017-12-27T22:32:32+00:00

Just who is this Walter Mitty bluepillprofessor dude?

In answer, I help everyone. Without hesitation.

And killing spiders is cowardly. Just put 'em outside.

BPremium · 2017-12-27T23:03:53+00:00

yup. its just nice to help out people. Just try not to get taken advantage of.

Transmigratory · 2017-12-28T00:23:49+00:00

Someone obviously rubbed you the wrong way. XD

[deleted] · 2017-12-28T08:26:38+00:00

No. Even common courtesy has gone out the door. Fuck them. They can experience life like I do.

theiamsamurai · 2017-12-28T13:18:25+00:00

I'm not willing to help women, unless not doing that has serious social or professional consequences.

[deleted] · 2017-12-29T01:13:29+00:00

Yes. You just need to be careful and have the willpower to stop yourself from doing anything that could be considered sexual harassment i guess. Don't look at her body, don't touch her lightly even if it's on the shoulder or arm and always watch with EXTREME caution what you say to women at work. You're going to have to take some risks eventually if you want a relationship.

[deleted] · 2017-12-29T06:19:50+00:00

I am unwilling but do it anyway when prompted, because actually going through with it is social suicide.

xtsv · 2017-12-30T01:48:14+00:00

Do we stop holding doors, killing spiders, and carrying heavy things

Well I've never done any of those things, but If a woman asked me for help I'd probably help her out because I'm a pathetic sack of meat.

retardradical · 2017-12-27T20:52:30+00:00

Wow man, the good faith is really seeping out of this post.

oneprettycoolcat · 2017-12-27T20:56:28+00:00

No. But then again I won't help anyone with anything unless I stand to gain something out of it.

0x123d · 2017-12-27T23:29:04+00:00

still willing to help

No.

should we drop common courtesy

Yes. But out of spite, not fear.

weaver420 · 2017-12-28T04:25:38+00:00

I do all of those mentioned things by myself and i think many women do too, it's not like it's physically or mentally challenging to do any of those things. Men refusing to kill spiders, hold doors and carry heavy things would not make a difference imo.

Title	Q4RP: Are you still willing to help women?
Author	SlimLovin
Upvotes	9
Comments	195
Date	December 27, 2017 8:44 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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