Q4RP Redpill men, How many of you have had your sexuality shamed/treated as predatory or dangerous before you came to TRP?

IIHotelYorba · 2017-07-22T07:06:29+00:00

Teach men not to rape
Schodinger's rapist
"1 in 4 statistic"
Patriarchy theory
Toxic masculinity
Campus kangaroo courts
"Rape culture"
"Cosplay isn't consent"
Anita Sarkeesian demonizing men for liking videogames with boobs
Anti-porn feminists
"The male gaze"
The APA adopting sexual objectification
BP morons saying I'm a creep/rapist for cold approaching women
BP morons saying game is rape

These are just a few off the top of my head. I am omitting variations on them like "teach boys not to rape/teach men AND boys not to rape."

TRP is just one antifeminist community. We need to grow as many as possible. I can relate to them.

[deleted] · 2017-07-22T05:24:29+00:00

Didn't happen to me in real life because in my BP days I read about women complaining about men's sexuality online and swore never to bother them like that

Love8Death · 2017-07-22T08:21:47+00:00

Quite a bit actually. I've been called"manwhore" several times. Had girls ask my friends if I "get around" because I"look like a guy that gets around", whatever that means.

Rumors at work about me liking"young girls" because I hooked up with a few 20 year olds in my late 20s. Of course fat faggot white knights over exaggerate out of jealousy.

Eventually I just said fuck it and gave up trying to be a halfway decent human. If I'm gonna get a bad rep, I may as well earn it

KrispyMcSockington · 2017-07-22T12:36:12+00:00

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exit_sandman · 2017-07-22T11:38:14+00:00

Quite honestly? The idea that male sexuality was predatory, encroaching, invasive, unwanted and exploitative by default has been drilled into my head pretty thoroughly; and this played a huge role in me sanitizing my dealings with women from the onset so they might not get the idea that I was "only" interested in sex with them.

cxj · 2017-07-22T08:40:00+00:00

Yeah, a lot actually.

"Stop staring at her"

"She's too young for you" (we'd already had sex lol)

"She thinks your a creep" (sex already had)

"Excuse me sir you're making people uncomfortable " (I'm literally sitting in a coffee shop by myself doing nothing)

"Ugh you need to raise your standards"

mgtow_1 · 2017-07-22T06:53:19+00:00

Been shamed for both sides of this. Being too aggressive and not being aggressive enough. IME being shamed for not being aggressive was worse. Women can be pretty brutal when they feel you aren't "masculine enough."

grandaddychimp · 2017-07-22T12:36:40+00:00

I did. I wasn't personally shamed, but hearing feminists and white knights both in real life and on the Internet talking about how it's all men's fault that some men rape women. That sort of looniness and backwards thinking drove me further towards TRP. Plus the general left-wing intolerance and close-mindedness over on the 2X and feminist subs.

[deleted] · 2017-07-22T09:17:00+00:00

Nothing targeted at me personally.

Yeah I heard all the SJW crap of course but I never took any of it seriously in the first place, and none of that was targeted at me as an individual anyway.

Edit: Oh actually, yeah I was once called "creepy" for going out with a 16 year old girl when I was 18 if that counts. One of the other comments jogged my memory. Of course when I was 16 and going out with a 21 year old girl no one called her "creepy" lol.

brewmastermonk · 2017-07-22T09:42:28+00:00

I had some tragic sexual experiences as a kid and unfortunately grew up thinking that sex was bad. I remember having experiences that are part of normal sexual experiences growing up and being completely disgusted with everyone else involved. Things like like some friends watching porno together and masturbating awkwardly in different corners of the room under pillows and blankets. And when girls got crushes on me I always felt like I didn't deserve it or if I told them what happened they wouldn't like me any more and my parents would find out and not love me any more. So for me it I feel like it was always me shaming myself for my own sexuality. And me sabotaging my own social relationships and such. It definitely allowed me to contemplate the fact that there could be more to sexuality than mere emotions.

the_calibre_cat · 2017-07-22T20:18:35+00:00

Literally all the time. A friend of mine recently told me to clean up my Tinder profile, because apparently being forward about wanting sex on Tinder is creepy and weird. FFS, women.

Otherwise, it just comes up in daily conversation with female friends. You're not allowed to be a sexual being as a dude, and if you are, it's because you're a player (Chad) which comes with positive and negative (I.e. not the two dimensional "male sexuality is universally celebrated" feminist bullshit line) social consequences.

I'd actually argue that it was less the blue pill media, and more the constant and general shaming of normal male sexuality that makes so many men bitter about blue pill ideals and turn to the red. It's less Disney and teen movies, and more the constant policing of male expressions of desire, etc. I certainly didn't know that I was supposed to ignore those commandments and be flirty and a little mean to women to get pussy, I believed the blue pillers in positions of authority when I was growing up.

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Kralee · 2017-07-22T16:31:14+00:00

I'm attracted to fat chicks and specifically date overweight women.

I've never hid this fact or ran from it. I've never received any shaming or insults from men

I have received several comments from women including:

-You have a sick fetish

-That's an unhealthy lifestyle for her and you're perpetuating it

-That's because you can only get fat chicks

despisedlove2 · 2017-07-22T20:24:57+00:00

I have never had that experience. It played no part in me turning to RP.

[deleted] · 2017-07-23T14:36:22+00:00

Yeah I have. From other guys trying to shoot me down as well as women. Stuff like

"Yeah, he's into Asian girls." said because Ive lived in Asia and had a few Asian gfs. This has been an interesting one and an eye-opener. A few times Ive had it suggested Im some sort of perv for liking Asian women (and it's not an exclusive thing). Online it can get pretty harsh, with SJW types throwing out cliches such as "oh they cant get white girlfriends so they go for the submissive Asian types." All sorts of this going on.

Before I wised up, being open about being single and meeting different people attracted some disapproval from some married guys. Obviously jealous and bitter, but there it is. Some of them are cool with it and admit their jealousy as well.

Apart from that it isnt particularly common as I like to keep myself to myself now, but my overall feeling is that it's open season on straight white guys. You cant put a foot wrong.

I work with women who are very very open about what they get up to, be it taking guys for a ride money-wise or stringing a few along at once or whatnot. I have to always be the gentleman unless it's with people I trust.

Gay guys as well, some of them constantly make outrageous innuendos and so on. They get that free pass but I can be called to account for nearly anything. Admittedly, I can get on with them and they dont call me out, but I have to tread much more carefully.

If so, what part did it play in accepting TRP?

None in particular. I've been aware of it for ages and have adjusted accordingly. Red Pill helped to understand it a bit better, that women are allowed to boast if it signals their value. Guys have to keep it under wraps or theyll be thought of as childish. Granted, men play a big part in creating these conditions but what we can say in public is very different to what other groups can say.

SeemedGood · 2017-07-24T00:16:11+00:00

If you are male and live in a western society your sexuality is constantly being shamed and treated as predatory. You have to learn to ignore the nonsense.

Title	Q4RP Redpill men, How many of you have had your sexuality shamed/treated as predatory or dangerous before you came to TRP?
Author	Forgetaboutthelonely
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Comments	124
Date	July 22, 2017 5:21 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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