Q4ALL: Which of your male friends has the highest n-count? What are they like?

cxj · 2017-03-28T13:22:25+00:00

the dudes I know who I know for a fact have gotten laid a ton are average dudes who like to drink and dabble in drugs and have low standards.

breakfasttopiates · 2017-03-28T13:57:09+00:00

If I had to guess this one it'd be the bloke who lived in the next room to me during the first year of uni. I saw him pull at least one new girl a week, he literally lived right next to me. He didn't look like anything special, he was "skinny" and had an average face, but he was one of the "laddish" types so projected a lot of confidence.

However it later turned out this guy had bad anxiety and tried to kill himself. I reckon a lot of how he acted was compensating for that.

This really defeats three common TRP ideas:

Guys who fuck around are ultra sexy jacked up "Chads"
Fucking around as a guy makes you happy and content
Only women who fuck around are the damaged ones

ProbablyBelievesIt · 2017-03-28T12:07:34+00:00

I don't know exact numbers but the men I know who I presume get around the most usually fit into one of three camps.

They're either incredibly attractive and charismatic. They're really just very desirable guys and it shows in the amount of women show interest in them and how many women they sleep with. It also shows in how little behaviour like cheating hurts their reputation. One of my oldest friends is like this. He's a genuinely good dude but sleeps around, cheats and all that mostly because he just gets overwhelming amount of female attention.

The second kind are people who just happen to be part of communities that are very open and sexually charged. A knew a girl in a kink community like that, the men there came in all shapes and sizes and they all had lots and lots of sex. But it doesn't have to be a sexual-based community. Plenty of artists for example also roll in communities where sex is just readily available.

And the final kind of guys are just guys who try a whole hell of a lot. Guys that are absolutely on the look out 24/7. I know a guy like that who basically fits all the criteria for an "omega" according to TRP. He's Hindustani, he's balding a little at 23, he's pretty overweight and he's shorter than average (tho I think he isn't that small for Hindustani guys). He takes pride in his appearance and does his best to look good but he's doesn't fit RP's standards for an attractive guy. Still, the dude fucks around a lot. He's the type to add random women on Facebook and start chatting to them. Probably strikes out 99 out of a 100 times but he just tries so damn often it still results in a lot of girls.

wub1234 · 2017-03-28T12:42:23+00:00

It is probably me as pretty much all of my friends (sensibly) settled down with their first serious girlfriend.

What am I like? I don't know. I would much rather be in their position.

LeaderOfGamergate · 2017-03-28T13:54:17+00:00

He's gay, but that's probably not the answer you were looking for.

prodigy2throw · 2017-03-28T14:07:44+00:00

With my closest friends maybe 3 come to mind.

One was a short chubby friend who had the charisma of Archer and fucked anything and everything he could. This got him some ugly women I would never touch but also got him some of the hottest girls I've ever seen. Dude straight played the numbers game and knew how to party. If you stand us next to each other you would probably be shocked how many more women he's fucked than me.

Another is just a fucking natural Chad. He started college at like 27 so he would roll with us whenever we went out. Dude is 6'3, nice face, buff but seriously barely ever works out and fucked his landlords daughter when she came to get rent. In college he would more or less just have to stand around the club and wait for women to walk up and he'd take them home. He's also a huge coke head and alcoholic. He would spend all his money on blow and have women pay his rent and buy him groceries. He's married with kids now and still up to the same shenanigans but his wife deals with it.

The third was a club promoter in a large city. That guy was just shooting fish in a barrel

GridReXX · 2017-03-28T19:21:34+00:00

I love all my friends.

But I'll say this.

My high n male friends have all cheated on their GFs. My male friends don't seem to compute that having a GF means they shouldn't flirt with other women or try to bed other women.

My high n female friends have not.

I do have a friend who cheated on her BF but I wouldn't classify her as one of the high n chicks.

BiggerDthanYou · 2017-03-28T11:56:10+00:00

I never understood this lock and key analogy and I guess it only makes sense if you see groups as monoliths instead of a bunch of individuals.

They are like "but a man needs to be high quality and a woman only needs to say yes", but what they forget is that average guys aren't socially stunted like the average redditor so for those getting laid a lot is just something that happens if they have low standards or just party a lot.

And a Chad simply has to be there; except for being tall and fit he doesn't need to have any positive qualities. A high n-count for them only shows that they like to fuck, but except for good looks they usually are complete failures in life that only care about short term enjoyment.

The guys with the highest n-counts that I know simply have the lowest standards, but except for that they are best described with pictures like this.

So among the really high n-count guys the most common traits are drinking, drug abuse, adrenaline junkies and sometimes deep lingering personality problems that make them want to sleep with hot chicks in order to prove how great they are.

goatismycopilot · 2017-03-28T13:31:04+00:00

An acquaintance of mine, he told me he lost count and I believe him. He is an actor/writer and for an older dude in his 60's is still attractive when he was young and having sex with a lot of women. He says vanilla sex is boring and is into BDSM and that is the only kind of "romantic" relationship he wants.

He was married for about five or six years to a crazy lady.

Personality wise he is very charming the firsr time you meet him. But he basically talks about himself all the time, he has a hard time sustaining long time friendships because everything is on his terms. I think he has enjoyed his life. He used to be a movie buddy of mine but I got bored of him flaking out because he gets involved in a lot of drama with other unstable people so I let it go. He still touches base with me once in a while to talk about himself.

philomexa · 2017-03-28T15:26:30+00:00

Out of all my male friends, my husband has the highest N count. He's neither tall, nor cut, nor rich, but he has a handsome face and he's incredibly charismatic.

He did most of his wanton sexing when he was in a frat + lead singer of a band. From memory and anecdotes, he organized the parties at his frat, played shows, and then invited countless girls up to his room to "relax" and "smoke a bowl".

I consider him an everyday guy, but he does have a high sex drive and an ability to woo girls and disarm their bitch shield.

exit_sandman · 2017-03-28T18:20:32+00:00

I wouldn't say "friend", because I haven't seen him for ages and we weren't that close to begin with, but we were on good terms while we were at school. And yeah, whenever I have to think of how I envision a natural he comes to mind.

He was okay-looking - not stunningly handsome, but certainly not shabby (the "cute but attainable"-look that's appealing to women yet not too handsome to be intimidating), he was average or slightly above average in height (5'10-6', can't really recall whether he was my height or a bit shorter), and pretty fit (lean and toned, not bulky).

He also did triathlon, snowboarding, played the guitar (i.e. all the cool hobbies), was a likeable sunnyboy, had no sense of shame and was extremely cocky and confident around women without being an asshole (bonus points for employing the peacocking strategy before the concept of it was a thing); and was pretty good at breaking hearts without having a bad conscience about it. He also started pretty early which made things even easier (as it is if you're a player in an age bracket that's mostly bereft of players).

I don't know how high is N was, but he one mentioned that he could have two women each week which I don't consider far-fetched at all.

Alth12 · 2017-03-28T12:19:27+00:00

I think I might be that guy, bizarrely. Most of my male friends are married, or in LTR for 5+ years, and have never been ones for casual sex.

[deleted] · 2017-03-28T12:29:04+00:00

i don't know the numbers of guy friends either, but for the one that i would guess has the highest count... not a chad, and pretty normal. actually, here, he'd probably be considered more of a neckbeard-looking type. he's nice, but seems to have a habit of making a lot of acquaintances and not many friends. he's difficult to rely on for various reasons, which i think has actually caused him more problems than not.

there's one other guy i can think of who might have a high count, and he's closer to a chad type but only barely. i don't really hang out with any guys that look like the chad examples posted here; my friends are relatively normal.

DeathByBeelzie · 2017-03-28T12:57:15+00:00

I have no idea about exact numbers,but the dude has a new "girlfriend" every month,they stick around for a couple of weeks and then leave him. He is pretty attractive(when he puts in the effort),but also pretty miserable and is constantly trying to find a serious relationship. Problem is that his game only works on super young girls,like around 18-20,while he is gonna be 29 this year. Of course the younger chicks have no idea what they want and they are pretty immature,but the older ones are too smart for his game. Last couple of years he has been getting more depressed about the issue,but hasnt changed his behaviour so i dont know.

ClarityofDisaster · 2017-03-28T13:26:43+00:00

Out of all my friends, my boyfriend actually has the highest N. Every other guy in our group has N = 2-4, whereas his is 12 (13 including me).

He has high charisma, and is a friendly, extroverted, funny person who absolutely loves being the center of attention...but he's definitely not a Chad.

rathyAro · 2017-03-28T13:27:44+00:00

If you have high sex drive or are a chad you would probably be in a relationship. My friend with the highest n count is terrified of commitment. He's a fun and funny guy, but also a straight talker often to the point of being an ass. I have friends who could get more girls but choose not to.

I do have an acquaintance who is more like the stereotypical chad. He decided to get into a relationship now but previously he would just sleep with every willing girl at his job. The guy is incredibly charming (hell I like him), he's just a genuinely nice guy who is happy to chat with anyone like they've always been friends.

darla10 · 2017-03-28T15:17:11+00:00

My SO's brother (a college professor) is apparently in triple digits. He's tall, very full of himself, has a fragile ego and cheated on every single woman he's been with, including his wife. The wife finally got fed up and left him.

NinjaSpartanZX · 2017-03-28T15:47:46+00:00

A man women don't like the idea but love him in practice, he's the most calculated guy I know. Everytime he goes out he pulls.

ppdthrowawai · 2017-03-28T16:48:29+00:00

Buff and socially suave, or some are just extremely good looking. Others were frat members or star athletes. They always had something that made them completely stand out

ADW83 · 2017-03-28T16:55:55+00:00

As a man, the guy I know is on higher education and has slept with every single attractive girl on his workplace, over 5, two of them cheating on their boyfriends for him.

Girls know it, but they don't care. And they probably all just ignore the fact,and probably wouldn't have mentioned him in this thread if they were here, because he's such a charming man.

He's Chad. And you know it, because the girls don't think he's Chad.

[deleted] · 2017-03-28T18:21:29+00:00

My friend with the highest N-count has a body count of 200 girls.

http://healthyceleb.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/Sean-OPry-shirtless-body.jpg

He looks a lot like that guy, only taller(6'4'') and he has blond hair and blue eyes.

Lol. Normal men with high-n count? As if that's possible for the men who don't hire hookers if they lack chad looks.

FatTaker · 2017-03-31T20:41:10+00:00

He's an incel who uses hookers extensively.

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Juko007 · 2017-03-28T14:14:24+00:00

The friend with the most casual sex I know:

rather short, maybe 5.5
very extraverted and silly
tunesian roots
extremely muscular, works out every day, does martial arts
very short fuse, can´t deal well with critique/disrespect, has screamed at friends on multiple occasions, has been in court for breaking someones jaw, gets in trouble frequently when drunk
no problem to approach strangers, very open

sunkindonut149 · 2017-03-28T17:54:07+00:00

The highest n-count man I know has anonymous sex at cruising spots. He's an immature person and he has an std. Hes omega, an internet metal nerd into black metal tape trading, and ruined my old band. He dresses like a slipknot member everyday.

boscoist · 2017-03-28T17:57:37+00:00

I am, at 92 or so. Normal guy, most women really have very low relationship market value, so I don't commit. There's only been a few that I've even considered a relationship with in the last few years.

[deleted] · 2017-03-28T18:51:20+00:00

Gay.

simcity4000 · 2017-03-28T19:14:06+00:00

Among my friends my own age, Me possibly.

Although I used to play with a grizzled old musician who claimed to have slept with 200+ women and his wife was prepared to vouch for it.

Another guy I knoe who scores like crazy is a punk burnout who just goes up to women and says whatever the hell comes into his head. He's not especially good looking but he is likable in a beavis and butthead sense of humour way. Most of the women he gets with are way hotter than him but he just has no fear on who he hits on or how shameless

[deleted] · 2017-03-28T19:27:14+00:00

All of them

1: party, part of a fraternity or were

2: have done steroids

3: none of them volunteer

4: have done sports

5: can easily get a relationship but they cycle girls way to fast

6: have an extreme aversion to dating promiscuous women

TheHeroReditDeserves · 2017-03-28T19:47:54+00:00

5'8 Irish man who used to be my RA in college. He was really sociable bit of a goofball. Easily into the hundreds although I don't have an exact number.

blametheboogie · 2017-03-28T21:33:32+00:00

I have one friend who said he was around n300 a few years ago. He's 6'4 about 260 or 270, was a college football player and is a salesman with a charming but slightly cocky salesman personality. He's that person you know who any time you go somewhere with him he sees someone he knows. Most of the women I've seen him with were pretty average looking.

Another high n count friend is average height and weight 5'9 170ish Hes a good looking guy but not like a model or anything, he just really loves women and they love him back. He just seems to always know just the right thing to say and do to charm women in a minute or two. He's the smoothest guy I've ever met in my life. Every time I see him he's with a very good looking woman. He dated miss (the college I went to)for 2 years when we were in college.

My second friend is why I know that while looks are important they're not everything. He's not much better looking than I am but his personality and game gets him success with women. When we were in college together he had 10x the success I had because I was a little too reserved and sometimes awkward.

breakfasttopiates · 2017-03-28T23:11:35+00:00

He's my best friend, a very confused guy, talented contractor and a single father

MealReadytoEat_ · 2017-03-29T00:21:08+00:00

A little on the short side, kinda chunky but has a moderate amount of muscle, and godly sociability, nicest guy I know, great, positive personality, very talkative and interesting.

[deleted] · 2017-03-29T00:21:33+00:00

I know quite a few musicians who had loads and loads of girls. Most of them act like real gentlemen, they aren't pushy, they are sensitive to girls' needs, sweet and extremely polite. They try to make advances at girls they like, sure, but it's not in an 'alpha' style TRP describes of anything. Talking, smiling, eye contact, gentle touch. Pretty simple. Some of them are really good-looking, and yes, it definitely helps. Not really bodybuilders, just naturally handsome. Plus some charm and charisma.

[deleted] · 2017-03-29T00:36:57+00:00

The gay one

[deleted] · 2017-03-29T01:27:26+00:00

I had a roommate who claimed to have fucked several hundred women. He was a hippie and hung out with old-school (ie, pre-SJW time) hippies. He was quite good looking, but soft and unmasculine. He was also, on the other hand, rather pushy in bed (which I had witnessed in a few group situations, don't ask). He also had rather low standards.

tl;dr- Good looking hippie guy hangs out with hairy, stinky hippie girls, has lots of stinky hippie sex.

Doom_and-Gloom · 2017-03-29T02:03:04+00:00

Putting me in a really awkward position, PPD.

I mean, I could just "go with the flow" of the thread and say the guy with the highest count I know is just an average, or even below average, Joe who can pull tons of tail because he's fun to be around, or confident, or some shit like that.

Or I could just tell the truth everyone here already knows but is to afraid to speak for some rather inexplicable reason; that the guys I actually know who get laid the most, and indeed the only ones getting laid regularly at all, are just the good-looking ones.

wuboo · 2017-03-29T02:14:28+00:00

This guy I know is usually sleeping around with 3-4 woman at any given time. He's charming in a way that will get a certain type of woman to drop her pants.

cxj · 2017-03-29T02:53:36+00:00

The biggest most prolific player I ever knew went by the myspace alias of "sketchy [name]". Sketchy was about 6'2" and skinny/slender/lanky. He did some martial arts and was fit but did not look ripped or muscular at all really. He had piercing blue eyes and lots of tattoos from good artists but was missing 2 teeth towards the front from a fight. He had a lot of scars, carried weapons and dealt drugs. His face was a little misshapen from fights.

He was a really nice likeable guy if you actually talked to him. He would do favors for almost anyone, and was personal friends with nationally famous bands and had pics on MySpace with them and shit. He got my band on shows across the country, good ones, just because I asked him for a favor. I don't think I ever actually did him any favors really. He was all about being cool with everyone until they crossed him or fucked his friends over.

That dude was a fucking master around girls anytime anywhere. He was the king of the bar scene. He banged over 200 girls according to many people including a few porn stars/suicide girls. He wound up in rehab and years later had a smart, hot, cool gf and is still internet famous but not like the myspace years. He posts a lot of leftypol type shit and is still a really nice guy.

Sketchy's close friend was my mentor as a promoter and band dude. He gave me some of the best advice and connections of anyone ever. He banged about 100 girls but they were way hotter overall than sketchys girls. He was an effeminate, openly bisexual, very very facially handsome, stylish, 5'7" dude. He ripped on guitar but couldn't write songs really. That dude dropped redpill truths left and right. Everyone guy or girl sought his advice with romance. He was also very nice but a lot more reserved with his favors and mentorship. He is now a successful booking agent for national level talent. He is no longer promiscuous but rumor has it he is actually just gay rather than bi lol. His girlfriends are top tier though.

Dude 3 I'll refer to as douchebag. He was about 6' and facially above average but not great. He had a lot of great tattoos. He was the sort of guy who was just barely charming enough to weasel his way into all the right circles but not all that well liked personally by many people. It was kind of like people tolerated him because he knew everyone lol. This guy banged about 60 girls and I hated him for a long time because I always felt he was trying too hard to impress people and be cool and had No real passion for the scene we were in. Years later he told me he was terrified I wanted to fight him and so he avoided me lol. Unfortunately he had a lot of personal issues and everyone got fed up with him so he left the state. The final draw was him dating and cheating on a local nice girl everyone liked for her personality. He has since gotten his head straight, got fully employed, apologized and been forgiven by most, and now has a hot cool gf.

SpokenMemeArtist · 2017-03-29T05:29:53+00:00

Probably one of my close friends who's gay and sleeps around quite a bit. He's a genuinely really nice and caring guy; reliable too. He's not perfect by any means, but he's a good friend

[deleted] · 2017-03-29T11:41:38+00:00

Inhave a friend who is 22 and currently sitting on 47 women.

Here is his stats:

1) he's very good looking, top 10%

2) average height and muscular build.

3) french, likes wine, likes fashion is artistic.

4) has no fear and ridiculous game that puts TRP to shame.

5) he will fuck any women between 80 - 180lbs and between the ages of 17-45

marianasentmenudes · 2017-04-01T18:27:47+00:00

A guy who's pretty much friends to everyone and his SC is always popping with chicks who want to know what he's up to. He's not as attractive as the typical Chad but he definitely is confident.

Title	Q4ALL: Which of your male friends has the highest n-count? What are they like?
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