So there's a study floating around that shows that most women's affairs happen with an ex flame that she reconnects with. Very easy to do in modernity with the internet. The second biggest category was with a superior at work so don't let your woman go to work guys. Or at least keep tabs on her and drop in occasionally at random.

Anyway, the higher the n count the more old flames who may contact her. And who she may want to 'reconnect' his golden rod into her pink purse. This is a reason for guys to avoid a girl with many old flames in the modern age.

Of course guys can do something about it beyond just pump and dumping these girls. We can make sure we are as awesome as we can be to maximize the chance that we're better than any old flame has ended up. But it's important for a guy to utilize risk management in an age of harsh divorce rape against men and this is a knock against a high n count girl. You can't control how awesome an old flame has become, or if your wife will somehow end up reconnecting with him now that everyone has faceborg. Other then maximizing your own value and always having options a guy should also avoid high n girls because it lessens the chance of her meeting an old flame and reconnecting his Big Johnson and her fishy knish.