Q4M: What are some things about a woman that would make you automatically unattracted to them?

pseudonymmed · 2020-01-11T09:36:08+00:00

But wait, I thought it was only women who had standards? According to many men on here.

Workaholiconew · 2020-01-11T05:09:41+00:00

Unreasonableness
Obesity
Unfriendliness
Baggage I need to carry.

DontTouchTheCancer · 2020-01-11T05:04:46+00:00

If your core mentality about men is naked contempt, bigotry or that they're put on this earth to serve you somehow, goodbye, do not pass go, do not collect $200.

CHAD_TDK · 2020-01-11T05:18:49+00:00

Fat

Stupid

Poor Hygene (it should be an unwritten rule but...)

Mental illness

Age (too young or too old)

TheBookOfSeil · 2020-01-11T08:46:20+00:00

Narcissistic/self-absorbed/always taking selfies, manipulative, no sense of humor, no balance in their social life (they’re either always at home or always going out to do something), ditzy/dumb as a rock, not health-conscious, too fat, bitchy/no class/stuck up, doesn’t know who she is or where she wants to be in life and hasn’t thought about it yet/lack of self-awareness. I think that’s about it.

prodopro · 2020-01-11T04:54:03+00:00

Being unempathetic or unable to act civilised during disagreements

bonusfruit · 2020-01-11T17:17:55+00:00

Even the slightest hint of feminist mentality makes them radioactive

GreenSatyr · 2020-01-11T16:28:37+00:00

-blood purists

-sorted into slytherin

-stupid looking patronuses

-can't see thestrals

diladusta · 2020-01-11T14:35:27+00:00

Arrogance. I don't care about a strong women as long as she is down to earth and humble.

rogicar · 2020-01-11T06:24:00+00:00

Aggressive personality.

Entitled behavior.

Fat

Talks badly about her parents

Really short hair

Feminist

Painfully dumb

Has a kid

2020-01-11T21:10:03+00:00

[deleted]

Something_Chronical · 2020-01-11T05:23:35+00:00

Lying, entitlement attitudes, immature neoteny, and if they see men as "cleavage chasers" and try to exploit simp men through their boobs.

alpha_in_progress · 2020-01-11T05:37:27+00:00

Being too confrontational and having to fight you on every little thing instead of coming to an agreement.

Willow-girl · 2020-01-11T06:21:53+00:00

Annoying drama queen pumpkin spice latte girls regardless of how hot she is.

GingerRazz · 2020-01-11T10:23:12+00:00

My top problems are: Entitlement Apathetic towards self improvement Insecurity Lack of empathy towards men

I'm sure I could list more, but those 4 are the deal breakers that eliminates more than 90% of women I've met.

Wallstreet3 · 2020-01-11T15:32:41+00:00

Mental Illness. High-mileage and high wear and tear dating/romantic/sexual history.

'All men think with their dicks', 'All men are pigs' or some misandrist BS has always been a hard-pass.

Victim Olympics. Lack of restraint, self-control, lack of filters and lack of mindfulness.

Overweight. I have Fat-Woman induced Erectile Dysfunction. It is a sexual attraction destroyer. Sorry, this has been the way it is since elementary in the early 90s when I looked at the fat-girls as ugly and realized thin KL had a nice, tight butt.

Lack of compassion, empathy, guilt or shame. Psychopathy is another turn-off.

A dating/relationship philosophy that results in a zero-sum game.

Kwint86 · 2020-01-11T15:37:27+00:00

Weighing more than me
Single Mom
More than 20-30 sex partners
Older than 28
Poor skin
Poor Hygiene
Overly talkative/happy
Overly messy
Combative/always trying to prove something
Entitlement
Hair above shoulders
Any nose piercing
Nipple piercing
Excessive tattoos (more than 30% of body covered)

churnthrowaway123456 · 2020-01-11T15:53:29+00:00

No capitalists, please.

AutoModerator · 2020-01-11T04:31:15+00:00

Attention!

You can post off topic/jokes/puns as a comment to this Automoderator message.
For "CMV" and "Question for X" Threads: Parent comments that aren't from the target group will be removed, along with their child replies.
If you want to agree with OP instead of challenging their view or if the question is not targeted at you, post it as an answer to this comment.
OP you can choose your own flair according to these guidelines., just press Flair under your post!

Thanks for your cooperation and enjoy the discussion!

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

Herbivore4Life · 2020-01-11T15:49:20+00:00

Mentions her astrology sign.

social_mule · 2020-01-11T17:21:23+00:00

Smoking
Fingernails that are bitten down to the nub.
A sense of entitlement
Excessively vulgar
Drama queens
Attention whores
Control freaks
Gold diggers

MrShakedown1 · 2020-01-11T20:28:43+00:00

High n count ( not wife material, ok for p&d) tatoos, drugs, smoking.

cxj · 2020-01-12T00:00:21+00:00

Rude to customer service workers

wtknight · 2020-01-11T10:49:20+00:00

Too fat

Doesn't return texts in a timely manner

Enjoys or enjoyed casual sex

Does hard drugs

Too many tattoos

There are many more "red flags," but these would not make me automatically unattracted to a woman.

src670 · 2020-01-11T12:41:34+00:00

Tattoos.

cuckspace · 2020-01-11T10:26:26+00:00

Feminism or other man hating ideology.

Tattoos and severe body modifications, nose rings etc.

Shaved or unnaturally colored hair.

Skinny. Has to have some feminine curves to be attractive to me.

Smoking cigarettes. Drinking too much. Drugs.

XtoDoubt · 2020-01-11T12:56:13+00:00

This question is vague. If you mean "What could she do to make you no longer aroused by her?" I would say getting old or having some sort of accident that messed up her body or face would be the only way. If you're saying "What makes you no longer want to see her?" I would say a consistently pissy attitude.

Grek27 · 2020-01-11T17:46:54+00:00

Fat, liberal, feminist, social climbers, has kids. Also serious genetic deformity.

2020-01-11T17:59:18+00:00

Being fat and having acne scars or scabs on their face. I'm so revolted by belly rolls and double chins

hammerhaunts · 2020-01-11T19:55:11+00:00

Downs syndrome i guess

blackedoutfast · 2020-01-11T19:59:40+00:00

being fat or wrong skin color or old.

WestsideMoonWalker · 2020-01-11T20:12:54+00:00

This list is all at least partial deal breakers. Some are hard-line deal breakers though.

Shorter than 5'5

Conservative politically

Religious in any way

Uneducated

Blonde

Tanning

Skinnier than me (I'm extremely skinny though)

Not having career prospects at least close to mine

Dislike of public transit

Dislike of hiking

If they require their partner to own a vehicle

Wanting to live away from the city in the outer suburbs or a rural area

Being at more than one life stage ahead or behind of me

More than 3 years younger or older than me

Doesn't like cats

Too extroverted (burns me out eventually)

Disliking museums (or just being uncultured swine in general)

Bad teeth

Substance abuse

There is more but I have a lot of things that can turn me off of someone.

toxicdudio · 2020-01-11T23:37:30+00:00

The toxic type that hides it by calling herself "crazy,".

Having an attitude.

Physiologist21 · 2020-01-12T04:10:06+00:00

Too much time on social media / lots of selfies

Single Mother

Feminist

Shit talks people constantly

Smoker

Certain piercings

2020-01-12T18:17:16+00:00

Settling. That's my #1 absolute dealbreaker no matter how "hot" she might be or how compatible we are in other areas. I'm keenly aware of the differences between someone whose viscerally attracted to me vs someone who is being pragmatic, and the dangers of getting too seriously involved with the latter.

darksoldierk · 2020-01-14T02:33:19+00:00

"i'm a feminist", hands down. Nothing will make me go from "damn, she's hot" to "I'd rather fuck a goat" then those 3 words.

The_Gifted_Arsonist · 2020-02-04T21:17:02+00:00

Annoying and bitchy Unreasonable Spoiled (its ok to have nice things, but if you belittle me for not being able to afford nice things i hate you automatically) Lack of independence (not financially, but never makes plans with their own friendgroup)

jmdenn3000 · 2020-01-11T05:03:24+00:00

Racism, sexism, trans-bi-les?-homophobia Controlling behavior

2020-01-11T06:11:00+00:00

If they are racist

cipherfiend · 2020-01-11T10:26:40+00:00

Toxic expectations.
The world owes me XYZ mentality
Lack of personal hygiene.
Lack of drive/ambition. Absence of grit.
They forget when to act/feel young/mature
Knows when to be courteous and when to be a sailor.

But just because they are attractive does'nt necessarily mean I'll pursue them automatically.

DicamVeritatem · 2020-01-11T12:45:30+00:00

In rough order, off the top of my head:

Overweight
Entitlement attitude
Negativity
Leftist
Solipsistic

Notsonewguy7 · 2020-01-11T13:17:17+00:00

I don't like short women. Under 5'2 and I ignore you. I'm 6'1 I don't date someone shorter than my little sister.

Very pale and I'm sorry no. I perfer light or tan brown skin like my own but I also like darkskin.

Bad breath I will run away. General hygiene is important fail that and I worry.

Weird faces I might accidentally stare at you but that's curiousness now an invitation.

If you are fat I will be nice to you but I will not sleep with you. I don't hate anyone because of weight I just not attracted to big women.

If you have kids keep them lose me I'm interested in playing house.

saladfingers4141 · 2020-01-11T05:51:13+00:00

I have a thing for tom boy women.. ones that like to lift weights and be outdoorsy, wear minimal make up and jewellery etc

But automatically would be a round ass and a genuine smile.

eternitypasses · 2020-01-11T06:07:33+00:00

Hey, you stole my question...!!! How uncreative!!!

rus9384 · 2020-01-11T06:09:52+00:00

Not being physically attractive (duh). Includes looks, voice and smell.

For anything else, she must do some serious shit to make me unattracted to her. Some really weird perversions or trying to kill me maybe.

That's, of course, regarding sexual attraction. When it comes to the rest (what friends do with each other) it is about practicality, not attraction.

Joey_Lopez · 2020-01-11T20:42:31+00:00

Being a single mom or a high body count.

2020-01-11T14:54:13+00:00

Children. Pets. Family always around. Active social life that I'm expected to be part of. Can't control her emotions. More than a handful of partners. Posts pictures on social media. Loves traveling. Loud/Argumentative. Likes to drink, smoke or do drugs. Likes outdoorsy shit.

Title	Q4M: What are some things about a woman that would make you automatically unattracted to them?
Author	Redpiller77
Upvotes	10
Comments	86
Date	January 11, 2020 4:31 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/en2t20/q4m_what_are_some_things_about_a_woman_that_would/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/q4m-what-are-some-things-about-a-woman-that-would.305515 https://theredarchive.com/post/305515

Comments