How do you explain the increase in sexless women?

OXOzymandias · 2020-03-18T14:39:00+00:00

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Necessarythrowaway0 · 2020-03-18T14:03:22+00:00

Personally, I'm celibate because I just plain don't feel the need to have sex. If someone comes along that makes me want it, great! If not, I'm fine without it.

Barely-moral · 2020-03-18T13:38:35+00:00

For the majority of those cases, if she isn't having sex is because she doesn't want to.

Basically, they are expecting for someone better. Their standards are high enough to make it really hard to find a match.

DIOsaurusRex · 2020-03-18T14:13:19+00:00

Before my current partner I was celibate for two and a half years! I’d go on dates with guys and they were so unappealing. The hot ones would ruin it when they opened their mouth, the unattractive ones would ruin it when I opened my eyes... the constant push for sex way too early, not having a goal for the future, not being supportive of my goals for the future, not being able to hold a conversation, having video games, porn and drinks/joints with the boys as their only 3 interests, not being able to function independently without a mommy to clean their dirty underwear, thinking that just being a dj is an entire character, referring to themselves as daddy/alpha wolf. Holy shit, I went on ~20 first dates in a year (that never made it past date 1) and then completely gave up for another year and a half. I’d already bought a cat and come to terms with being a crazy cat lady forever when I stumbled across my current boyfriend. Now that I’m having sex again I cannot believe I went 2.5 years without it but I still stand by no sex > bad sex.

inthegarbageigo · 2020-03-18T15:20:22+00:00

Women don't really thirst for sex like men do. We enjoy it but will never go out of our way.

Celestial_Europe · 2020-03-18T13:39:23+00:00

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Willow-girl · 2020-03-18T14:17:27+00:00

It's been my observation that a fair number of women seem to lose interest in men after they've become mothers. (Edited to add: I mean, after the women become mothers! In 2020, it seems necessary to clarify this ...)

Of course, the other extreme is the women taking duckfaced selfies for their dating profiles while an unattended toddler cries in the background ...

StandardObjective · 2020-03-18T15:49:50+00:00

Simply. She d rather be alone than with someone she isnt totally satisfied with

Zippo-Cat · 2020-03-18T18:21:07+00:00

Now that women are free from economic obligation to marry betas, many of them would literally rather be celibate forever than settle with one.

Japan has shown this to be the case 20 years ago.

wtknight · 2020-03-18T13:39:58+00:00

Not every woman is willing to go out and fuck a Chad from tinder. When more men stop trying to put an effort in to meet women because they’re at home getting fat while playing video games and watching online porn, some (but not as many) women are going to go sexless too.

RubyWooToo · 2020-03-18T13:50:46+00:00

Maybe women have realized that casual sex isn’t empowering. doesn’t benefit them at all, and they don’t want to be saddled with single parenthood.

Maybe they’ve realized grandma was right and it’s better to make him buy the cow than giving away milk for free.

dmoneycrowgod · 2020-03-18T14:00:25+00:00

So 18% of women and 28% of men haven't had sex in the last year. That's pretty close, maybe we can stop thinking this is a gendered issue and look outside of the box.

Killer_Queen_Daisan · 2020-03-18T15:24:21+00:00

Young men don’t want to try anymore.

2020-03-18T18:59:19+00:00

Majority of men are bad in bed. Sex with majority of men is worthless. As the top commenter here said, no sex is better than bad sex, for women at least.

dmoneycrowgod · 2020-03-18T13:36:51+00:00

Women standards are through the roof like rp men have been stating. A 6/10 woman will not sleep with her equivalent because she knows can get pumped/dumped by the 8/10 chad and maybe he’ll commit to her. These women would rather remain sexless or sleep with chad. Nothing else exists as an option

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cloudydays84 · 2020-03-18T14:04:35+00:00

Personally I think for both genders it's a bunch of different cultural factors (some gendered some not) happening that is making sex and relationships less appealing or sought after.

That's not neccesarily a bad thing though from the 18% and 28% of people not having sex it would good to ask if they are content with that. I'd say a good amount would say they are or at least are indifferent.

OXOzymandias · 2020-03-18T16:20:38+00:00

I know at least 3 to 4 women, aged between 21 and 24, who are sexless, the same story, they are shy and introvert, not party girls, so not a lot of dude came up to them, and the only dudes who made the effort irl were rewarded often with a date, they insist on telling me that lol, the setting was a debate about if dudes should try to take a chance more on girls, the girls were eager "to be with somebody".

Sadly it always ended because it was a pump and dump, or the dudes trick them into some FWB that they took for a relationship, like the dude was never available if not to fuck, among those 4 girls only 2 had one or two normal relationship, the oldest, because they started to hold on the sex thing, and to raise the shield when a dude was coming to them especially in OLD.

And the funniest part is that they are good looking at least to me, but it seems that no dude show interest to them out of OLD, and OLD at least for them is not something they really like to spend time on.

Emervila · 2020-03-18T13:39:21+00:00

It's a logical consequence, they all want Chad, 20% males are not enough for all the women. They also need to make themselves scarce to increase their value, it's just a downside of their strategy.

They rather not to have sex and wait for a Chad. Remember most women don't feel attracted by the avg man

DIOsaurusRex · 2020-03-18T14:48:12+00:00

Personally I think this is happening because Chad (and men at large) don't value themselves.

I'm average looking. Not ugly, not stunning. I'm average at other things too. I can be real fascinating because I have schizophrenia and see things which made me good at drawing too. But the drawings are average. I'm also good at thinking about things differently than other people. But this too is a somewhat average trait.

Yet with literal 10 Chads I can get them to buy me dinner AND some stuff AND still fuck me. I do nothing for it. I don't even HAVE TO BE NICE. In fact, the more mean I am the more men will do for me. They are stupid or something.

Think about this aspect of it the most, seriously:

I DONT EVEN HAVE TO BE NICE. IN FACT THE MORE MEAN I AM THE MORE LIKELY HE IS TO DO A LOT OF STUFF FOR ME. EVEN IF HES WAY WAY BETTER LOOKING.

The problem is Chad doesn't love himself. When the best of a certain gender don't love themselves of course all this shit will go downhill for everyone.

I don't even have to be nice. They like me more if I'm mean. They somehow think I know what I'm talking about more if I'm cruel as absolute shit. They think I'm being more truthful the more brutal I am being. Is that the truth tho? Only a pessimistic depressed person who doesn't love themselves would believe cold cruel brutal thought is the truth in the universe.

Yet literal rich hot amazing Chads believe me when I sit there and tell them they are subhuman micro penis trash. Even if they have an actual 10 inch dick. It doesn't matter. What matters is the opinions of women. If your opinion is not cruel than you are a lying pussy in the eyes of these men.

Chad wont love himself. That's the problem.

Seriously though. I've told a guy who had a ten inch dick that he was small and I couldnt feel him and he was devastated. It literally wont even fit in. It's so much more than enough that it's painful. But they will believe me without a MOMENTs thought. Because men refuse to love themselves. They refuse to think they have something to offer no matter how MUCH they have. They want more. Is this competitive nature? Is this what makes men the best? Or does it make them INSANE? I'm willing to bet the latter. Which is just fine because you are all about to be on my level then.

MEN REFUSE TO LOVE THEMSELVES.

I'm literally making more money than I ever have before because of corona making wagecucks stay inside. All for lying right to mens faces telling them how ugly & worthless they are. My biggest 'fans' are ALWAYS married. Do you know how many stories I've heard where the guy says: "Help me, my wife is lying to me, she tells me I'm amazing but I just know in my heart I'm worthless and I need someone to tell me the TRUTH." Is this what men call competition? Having so much but still wanting to feel like shit so you can motivate yourself to get 'more'? These guys are attractive and have a lot going for them too. But it's easy for me to lie and just come up with anything to make them feel like trash like they need. So I excel in this market.

thedeadpill · 2020-03-18T16:58:11+00:00

Pickiness.

2020-03-18T19:20:11+00:00

The article states an increase in sexless adults but doesn't say anything about an increase in sexless women.

DIOsaurusRex · 2020-03-18T14:13:05+00:00

It's actually probably immigration more than anything. Large Asian and Muslim families that all live together. The daughters in those families aren't having sex and these cultures continue to increase in demographics compared to slutty post-WWII white people.

analt223 · 2020-03-18T15:23:56+00:00

Women in the social media age are in such a higher caste that they cant find someone they deem "on their level"

Pastelitomaracucho · 2020-03-18T17:20:29+00:00

Obesity.

cuckspace · 2020-03-18T19:08:58+00:00

It’s the same reason. They’re too picky.

acron5n5 · 2020-03-18T22:02:24+00:00

Princess complex

basedmillennial95 · 2020-03-18T14:12:57+00:00

Probably the bottom percent of women. Hamplanets, physically deformed, or ones with mental health issues so bad no one wants to deal with them.

Title	How do you explain the increase in sexless women?
Author	TheWeebestofWeebs
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Date	March 18, 2020 1:33 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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I DONT EVEN HAVE TO BE NICE. IN FACT THE MORE MEAN I AM THE MORE LIKELY HE IS TO DO A LOT OF STUFF FOR ME. EVEN IF HES WAY WAY BETTER LOOKING.

MEN REFUSE TO LOVE THEMSELVES.