AskWomen reluctantly admits they can't control their tingles when Chad approaches

JeanValjean197o · 2015-09-12T02:28:18+00:00

I've found that telling a woman it will never be anything more than just fun and sex works even when you are a fat beta.

They are arrogant enough that they think it's just a matter of time until you buy the cow.

BaconEggsAndSleaze · 2015-09-12T04:55:05+00:00

and now I think I've created this super awesome fantasy life for us in my head that has no basis in reality.

The birth of an Alpha Widow, gentleman.

CisWhiteMaelstrom · 2015-09-11T22:01:02+00:00

I'm beginning to think that the only reason askwomen even exists is so that women who can't get commitment from a man can gather together and justify that being a whore is righteous and that they genuinely want to be pumped and dumped.

Ifuckinglovepron · 2015-09-11T23:31:46+00:00

"...I think I fell for a guy who has told me that it probably not going to progress to a relationship..."

Lol, the hamster cannot even admit the truth when posting anonymously on reddit, to herself or anyone else.

I am willing to bet the guy said it plainly without a probably in it.

She had to add that glimmer of hope even when 'opening up.'

Pathetic.

Kill_Your_Ego · 2015-09-11T21:59:21+00:00

Great post. Plates love seeing pictures of you with other girls. I've shown them. I've had two confused women (36, recently single, and 21) think that they could do this back to me. And offer to show me pictures of guys they've fucked. I looked and listened to their stories. And learned what I could about how women really want to be treated.

I don't tell any stories though. Just very small hints. And the picture is enough to get their hamsters running like mad.

Stay mysterious. Nothing you say will be as good as the fantasy a woman will create about you. Help give these girls the fantasies they crave. Also keep this in mind if you've been cheated on. The girl cheated on you with a fantasy. If you're living with a girl do what you can to retain some mystery. Lots of dread game is simply creating mystery.

BrunoOh · 2015-09-11T23:41:38+00:00

Every time someone talks about how men think with their dicks, remember this. It's funny how basically everything women say about men is rooted in some form of projection.

slooberki · 2015-09-11T22:26:07+00:00

My favorite comment:

It's impossible to fight those feelings. And the "what could be" fantasy just makes it worse!

It's impossible? Seriously? Such a victim.... poor her.... hes so evil..... LOL

popthatpill · 2015-09-11T22:22:00+00:00

"Winning a girl over" is for losers.

Indeed. "Winning a girl over" is when betabuxes engage in all sorts of cringeworthy fedora shit in order to demonstrate their betabuxal qualities to women looking for a mealticket. Don't let it happen to you: "winning" the woman is implicitly falling into her frame: if the man "wins" her, that implies she's the more valuable one.

anitapk · 2015-09-12T08:55:09+00:00

This is the reason why women hate TheRedPill - it teaches any non natural to be an alpha and "take advantage" (read - women allow these men to take advantage of them) of all these women slaves to their tingles.

FapDonkey · 2015-09-12T10:01:39+00:00

I did, for a long time. We were best friends in high school, and I had a pretty big crush on him, despite my LTR. Actually ended my relationship to be with this guy. It didn't work out, messy rebound. In the years since, we would have off periods of not talking (mostly when I got BFs who wouldn't let me talk to him) and then seeing each other where it felt like we were right back where we left off.

I fucked up pretty badly about a year and a half ago, and things haven't been the same since. I've done a lot of self-improvement, quit drinking so much, got my life together, but it seems like he doesn't have much interest in talking to me. He'll say, "Let's hang out," but never actually make concrete plans, so I'm done contacting him. He was one of the few men in my life that were truly kind and respectful to me, which is why I latched on to him so much. I've had to accept that our friendship is pretty much over, and I need to let it go.

Yesterday was his birthday, so it's interesting that it was brought up today.

Jesus Christ. Did one of you guys write this? If not, can you spell A-L-P-H-A_W-I-D-O-W?

NineInchPitchfork · 2015-09-12T04:05:39+00:00

You guys are delusional if you think the guys these (specific) women are talking about are (all) Alpha Chads. What is being described here is the phenomenon of "you can't always get what you want." It has been going on since cavemen days and I am sure some of you can relate to being "thirsty" (for that specific) one. Even though I cognitively process when it is occurring with me, it is extremely difficult to resist chasing the "one who got away." If anything it shows how cultivating a dgaf attitude can increase desirability.

Avoid chasing like this if you can and use indifference/casualness to make them do the chasing.

leodoestheopposite · 2015-09-12T12:22:22+00:00

It one needs proof that AWALT, this is it.

Limekill · 2015-09-12T03:43:22+00:00

RedPill Truth - beautifully dissected.

Ohmyqueef · 2015-09-11T21:57:28+00:00

Same shit, different day. AWALT

SadKuntVegeta · 2015-09-12T15:58:24+00:00

Again, you do understand that in order to be this "attractive brett" you speak of, you must be physically attractive(body and face), right? Don't delude yourself into thinking that someone short and ugly can have this effect on an attractive girl. The red pill should really have a section/sidebar dedicated to improving your looks as much as possible.

manofire · 2015-09-12T16:23:04+00:00

There seems to be a lot of talk here about not having much luck dating and forming relationships with females in the West. Well duh. Western females are just public urinals being used by different dirtbags. The idea that it is possible to form a relationship with them is ridiculous. Similarly, dating is a thing of the past. This is because Western females are all sluts trying to increase their slut status among other sluts. Therefore they want to be f**ed by high status men. It follows that perceived high status men will have sluts constantly throwing themselves at them, so they won't have to date to get sex - they can just take their chosen slut home or to a convenient location to f*k right away. Hence it follows that if you are asking for a date with a female then you are not of high status, so as far as the female is concerned you are a loser she wouldn't want to date. The slutification of females has rendered dating obsolete as a cultural construct. The only way to score Western sluts is if you get across the message that your only interest in them is to perform the most degrading sex acts you can think of on them before severing all contact and that you don't really care if they don't want to because you can easily find some other slut who will.

WakingUpAlice · 2015-09-12T07:01:11+00:00

Truth to this. I used to do tons of favors for women. As in bleeding heart fedora.

Well, I suddenly decided to drop communication with her and only respond when she contacts me.

This is why men who speak softly and carry a big stick ;)...get pussy. They have to be reached and manipulated and then the women has to realize her manipulation won't work so she submits to his dominating frame and becomes his fuck toy because she starts craving his sexual attention, focus and energy.

HeroinGenius · 2015-09-12T00:17:29+00:00

I like TRP even though it's pretty shitty for me. I'm 5'6 and have a receding hairline, I can lift all I want and it will never make me fuck hot girls. I've had an alright sex life though I guess, can't complain too much.

673throwaway · 2015-09-12T21:30:24+00:00

How is this different from a super hot woman being irresistible to a lot of guys?

ErasmusOrgasmus · 2015-09-14T11:35:20+00:00

Notice how frequently it's explicitly stated, or highly likely given the situation, that the man in question has access to other women:

I'm in this stage right now with an FWB. I know he's not relationship material and he even told me that himself. Every time I sleep with him I think it's awesome and then a couple days later I'm cursed with a mountain of feelings and start getting (internally) jealous and upset over the fact that he doesn't feel the same and is fucking other girls. And then I decide that I won't sleep with him because yeah, that's not really healthy, but then he texts me, and I think "how bad could it be?" and then I sleep with him again.

Yuuuuup. It's been years of him being in my life, not being in my life, then being in my life again. This is the longest currently that he hasn't been in my life, and I go through periods of thinking about him and not thinking about him. He has a serious girlfriend now, though, which hurts like hell in the times when I still think about him.

Yes, for about 4 years I was totally infatuated with someone who was only interested in me when he was 'off' with his on-again-off-again girlfriend. The only way I got out of it was a year of no contact and now when I think about him I literally think it's absurd that I was ever attracted to him.

There is this one guy who I've been crushing on/off for the past two years. He had all the qualities I look for in a SO except he's super arrogant and thinks he can get any lady he wants. I still find myself liking him. We're very similar in most respects but I don't think he feels the same way.

Yeah, an old fwb. We started hooking up my junior year of college. Not a good way to go about getting firsts out of the way (I literally had done nothing with anyone before him), I developed feels, he got a girlfriend, shit happened and we ended up not speaking for a year. I thought he would like me back, but nah, he just liked me as a friend and for my boobs.

Yeah definitely feel you on the comparing part, 5 years and counting of talking on and off now. Basically it's my ex and I feel like I'm trying to move on by going on dates. BUT whenever I go on a date I can't help but to compare the guy to my ex and then I get totally uninterested. Which dominoes into me wanting my ex even more because the more dates I go on the more it reconfirms that no one will ever live up to him.

Yup. We found our way back to each other four times over the course of maybe six years, once with a three-year gap. Only when we were both single, though. It's been three years now since anything has happened (though we are still good friends and see each other often) and I'm not holding my breath for another relapse anytime soon, but my best friend and my entire family still bet we'll get married.

I did, for a long time. We were best friends in high school, and I had a pretty big crush on him, despite my LTR. Actually ended my relationship to be with this guy. It didn't work out, messy rebound. In the years since, we would have off periods of not talking (mostly when I got BFs who wouldn't let me talk to him) and then seeing each other where it felt like we were right back where we left off. I fucked up pretty badly about a year and a half ago, and things haven't been the same since. I've done a lot of self-improvement, quit drinking so much, got my life together, but it seems like he doesn't have much interest in talking to me. He'll say, "Let's hang out," but never actually make concrete plans, so I'm done contacting him. He was one of the few men in my life that were truly kind and respectful to me, which is why I latched on to him so much. I've had to accept that our friendship is pretty much over, and I need to let it go.

This is a thread full of alpha widows and practically every story includes a man who has options. Either it's a man who's openly fucking multiple women, a man who's fucking some girl casually but chooses to LTR a better prospect, or a man who periodically returns to his alpha widow when he's going through a dry spell because he knows he can fuck her at the drop of a hat.

Lesson: be a man with options. And if your SMV isn't high enough for that yet, act like a man with options.

totorox · 2015-09-11T22:02:22+00:00

she isn't actually enjoying her casual sex.

wild, blind, biased inference.

she's subconsciously excited and stimulated by the fact he's fucking other women on the side.

same.

NotRAClST2 · 2015-09-12T06:10:08+00:00

Hawt stuff, makes me want to jerk one

Geney · 2015-09-12T06:13:18+00:00

People do wanna have sex with other people whom they find attractive.

Did you just learn that? That's probably how your mama made you.

Title	AskWomen reluctantly admits they can't control their tingles when Chad approaches
Author	needsomehelp3211
Upvotes	396
Comments	136
Date	September 11, 2015 9:37 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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