Don't try anymore. Just GYOW

eduardkoopman · 2018-10-14T13:34:44+00:00

Even in my dating times, years ago.
I would had never contact/message a woman multipule times, if they didn't show up on time/stood me up. To keep some self respect. I would always ghost, if they contacted way to late, or some days later. And treat/see them as an enemy, because they stole my time and treated me like shit.

Then this dude even responded with whatever smiley face. Not good. I would go ghost.

rockorbe2002 · 2018-10-14T14:11:24+00:00

Ten years later: "WHERE HAVE ALL THE GOOD MEN GONE! NOBODY OPENS DOORS FOR ME ANYMORE! MEN NEED TO MAN UP BECAUSE IN IN MY THIRTIES AND I WANT BABIES!!!WHAAH!"

waterfat · 2018-10-14T15:04:42+00:00

I've been a misanthrope most of my life. Deal with people shallowly, do what you have to at work, then go back to your home and hang out with yourself.

16Gauge · 2018-10-14T14:23:02+00:00

But of course his anger will be dismissed with "LOL incel" rhetoric 9 times out of 10.

Infinitewisdom1984 · 2018-10-14T13:42:17+00:00

"i just like that you pay for everything wherever we go"

"plus you like work full time. sooo annoying"

"but I love when you pay for everything"

betterredthenwed · 2018-10-14T13:21:38+00:00

Would have been worse if he had spent any more time on someone like that.

Anonymoose_wrex · 2018-10-14T14:44:37+00:00

What kind of asshole agrees to go out, makes them wait over 30 minutes, and then tells them via text that they don't like them except to pay their way?! What a scumbag.

Wait... I get it. She made multiple dates that night and he was the backup plan. When plan A worked out she no longer needed him anymore. People like this deserve no respect as they offer none themselves.

She even admitted that chivalry creeps her out for fucks sake!

FedoraMGTOW · 2018-10-14T13:00:54+00:00

I'm at that stage too. I'm starting to feel like everyone in my life is treating me like shit, even my own family.

Hiromant · 2018-10-14T13:32:26+00:00

Act like a simp, get treated like a simp. Why is he surprised?

IronMeltsinmyHands · 2018-10-14T14:23:17+00:00

I still can't understand how working full time is a deal-breaker.

Bitches are not made to work at all.

OniiChanStopNotThere · 2018-10-14T15:10:41+00:00

So if you don't act like a gentleman you're a sexist pig, if you do act like a gentleman you're weird.

Women in 2018. Avoid them like the plague.

ghebert001 · 2018-10-14T15:08:00+00:00

When a gf of mine that I just started dating about 12 yrs ago stood by the passenger door and just stared me down as I walked over to the driver's side she just says "aren't you going to be a gentleman and open the door for me?" and my reply..."you got 2 hands, use 'em".

Let's just say that relationship didn't last long.

GoAwayImB8tn · 2018-10-14T17:38:02+00:00

"Like I just need a normal guy, who's going to fuck me raw, say whatever when I tell him I love him, hit me when I'm being annoying, make me buy his weed, care more about his friends and video games than he does me, and finally leave me high and dry when I tell him I'm pregnant with his child."

"I'm sorry Brian, but you are just too nice. I dont deserve a guy like you. I need to be slapped when I'm a bitch, reminded that Im not hot shit, and used like a dirty little whore. We can be friends though. Perhaps when I'm 34, overweight, unemployed, collecting child support, single with two kids and no husband."

"Perhaps then I'll let you take us out to dinner. You can stay up late on the phone with me and listen to me bitch about how there are no good men out there, and how I can't afford my cell bill this month (hint). I may even ( reluctantly ) let you have sex with me once or twice after I'm drunk out of pity, if no real men take me home that night... But Untill then Brian, I am just looking for something else in a man."

TB409 · 2018-10-14T13:03:59+00:00

Fuck em dont need em

roy28282 · 2018-10-14T14:51:52+00:00

So she wants someone who treats her like shit and doesn't work full time but has money because she won't talk to men without money.

Doesn't make sense at all but it's woman logic. They are not upheld to it. This attitude is probably entitlement, narcissism and too many options so she can ignore and treat men lousy without any consequences due to the number of options she has and nonexistent social consequences.

Treating her well is weakness in her perspective. I hope she will enjoy being lonely with her cats.

aenigme · 2018-10-14T16:45:55+00:00

Chivalry is dead. And women killed it. - Chappelle

MWCyrus · 2018-10-14T14:28:33+00:00

haha stupid simp paying dinners...thats what u get for being nice. Thanks god he is awake now.

Solistx · 2018-10-14T17:08:03+00:00

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jsintheam · 2018-10-14T18:32:08+00:00

r/badfaketexts

freezingsama · 2018-10-14T14:29:09+00:00

What a stupid girl and a lucky guy. Then again, she probably has a better sucker in tow and just feels it wasn't worth it to let him orbit her anymore.

lmtdis · 2018-10-14T15:21:59+00:00

These messages seen to perfect the logic behind going your own way and for this reason, it makes me believe that it could be a fake. Not accusing, just reasoning.

Chills71 · 2018-10-14T13:33:26+00:00

Wow ... that's horrible! Consider yourself lucky to find out now that she seriously has some issues !!!

mxwell89 · 2018-10-14T15:47:15+00:00

Along with the AWALT behavior, she didn't even have the decency to cancel Ahead of time. That's the type of stuff that brings my piss to a Boil

karben14 · 2018-10-14T14:45:35+00:00

She should keep him for the meal ticket and have a drug dealer thug for the sexy times. problem solved.

3rd_viewpoint · 2018-10-14T15:27:43+00:00

Rejoice! You learned she's worthless without spending much time and money. Learning that in 2 years after divorce while paying alimony/child support would have been worse.

Bad_Driver69 · 2018-10-14T18:13:58+00:00

his mistake was buying her free dinners. it 2018. Stop buying women dinner. they have plenty of money. You can do it if she gave you a good bj or something Or shes unemployed and is broke. but other than that. Your just setting yourself up as a simp. Chivalry is dead. If a women needs you to buy her dinner for her to like you. She doesn't actually like you.

Shortmanking · 2018-10-14T20:37:18+00:00

This looks extremely fake.

bradtwo · 2018-10-14T16:32:00+00:00

from what little i read.

1] she doesn't want to date you.

2] this is just an excuse to not date you.

3] she was actually being very nice to you about the saying you're physically attractive part at the beginning (whether she was just saying this to make you feel better, or she actually means it, only she knows).

4] she's a dick for doing that to you, no doubt. But move on my man. as the old proverb goes. "...pussy ain't that good".

Loban8990 · 2018-10-14T16:33:40+00:00

I know we've heard it a thousand times but I'm gonna say it again for the people in the back row.

Chivalry is dead, and women killed it.

AWALT gentlemen and go your own way.

SweatyMudFlaps · 2018-10-14T17:19:53+00:00

This is so obviously fake lmao

MissingQuark · 2018-10-14T18:48:02+00:00

This seems so fake

SleepyMethHead · 2018-10-14T19:05:36+00:00

Ive had this happen before. But the bitch was nice enough to tell me the truth. She just never answered me.

Days later she’d hit me up like nothing went wrong... and get mad at me for mentioning it.

MapleOrangeHotDogs · 2018-10-14T16:16:10+00:00

Geez, what an idiot! Working full time? Come on!

ItsHillarysTurn · 2018-10-14T18:51:58+00:00

This screams fake, and if it's real, he's a cuck and deserves the wakeup call. Every time something like this happens, another "nice guy" turns into a man. Nice guys are the enemy of men. Why do you think women are entitled and spoiled in first world countries but not other countries? Because first world countries give them a special class, "Respect women, believe women, don't hit women" whereas other countries treat them as a normal person.

Ahielia · 2018-10-14T16:43:08+00:00

plus you work full time which is super annoyinggg

What the actual fuck?

Ceremor · 2018-10-15T00:06:47+00:00

This is obviously fake you gullible dumbasses

daddydickie · 2018-10-14T15:40:25+00:00

Been there, done that.

The problem is that women nowadays do not appreciate chivalry.

The only correct way to treat women is to retaliate her bullshit.

ZachMan1030 · 2018-10-14T15:59:02+00:00

How dare he work full-time.

CaptainSavemHo · 2018-10-14T16:01:47+00:00

Fuck Bitches Get Money.

FBE_Warframe · 2018-10-14T16:09:59+00:00

Bro she just did you a favor.

Imagine this. You go out to dinner by yourself, you don't have to pay for anyone else's meal, which is just some shitty salad with a few chunks of chicken on it, that costs more than your full plate.

Chadattack10 · 2018-10-14T16:26:26+00:00

As soon as she doesn't reply and you waited say 15mins and she hasn't text/call to say she's gonna be late then just leave and not contact her again. The guy seems very needy and no self respect at all. Of course she's the bitch here and sadly we're getting trained to be nice guys from very early...lets hope he learned his lesson.

TheMarvelousSchmuck · 2018-10-14T16:59:15+00:00

Holding doors open for people is super weird now.

Bleach, bitch. Drink it.

hrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 2018-10-14T18:21:24+00:00

Who cares, this bitch can't punctuate

iAMTinman_Dealwithit · 2018-10-14T19:10:33+00:00

Dodged a bullet. Would've text back, "your loss" and blocked her. Still would've went in and enjoyed the meal alone.

Thunderfin · 2018-10-14T19:27:25+00:00

His fault -- all the question marks and emojis ruined him. Which 20-30 year olds do that? Be authoritative and if you sense something wrong, don't ask about it, move on.

gbevans · 2018-10-14T17:15:12+00:00

just astounding, I wanna believe this is a goof, but I truly believe it is not. years from now she'll be lamenting to her fellow perpetually wine-drunk friends, "where have all the good men gone". I hope you know you did absolutely nothing wrong, be you brother.

bobbbsanders · 2018-10-14T17:31:20+00:00

Lesson learned. Don’t buy shit. And don’t go too hard on the door opening, there is nothing wrong with getting out of the car on her own. You don’t have to run around to the other side of the car and open her door. That’s just way too much. Open the door for her if you guys are about to walk into a restaurant together or something along those lines.

Ezarra · 2018-10-14T17:40:12+00:00

Well TBH if someone held doors open for me and carried me over every puddle I would feel really awkward. I would feel like they're some sort of servant and it would just feel gross. Let me be an individual not some little kid who can't even open a door. Treat me like an adult. If you start treating me like a child and putting me above you then I'm gonna either leave or use you. Don't be such a servant to women. Treat them like adults. It seems to me you're one of those guys who would literally carry his GF everywhere so that her poor feet don't have to touch the ground.

Omar336 · 2018-10-14T17:44:14+00:00

"You can go your own way!!"

realChebz · 2018-10-14T18:04:15+00:00

m'lady!? M'LADY???

Ps_ILoveU · 2018-10-14T18:21:47+00:00

Wants him to pay for everything. Hates that he works. Wut?

JohnnySkidmarx · 2018-10-14T18:27:19+00:00

Is this girl 16 or something?

richbeezy · 2018-10-14T18:38:09+00:00

I woulda drove to her house and bashed something for wasting my time.

ifrankenstein · 2018-10-14T19:11:32+00:00

I would never multi message. Leave me on read? Go fuck your hat.

WakeUpAlreadyDude · 2018-10-14T19:12:48+00:00

You wait 10 minutes. She doesn’t show up or respond to message then you either ghost or hang at the bar. If she shows up and you’re at the bar, you tell her to GTFO. In so many words

Decent_Self_Esteem · 2018-10-15T01:18:55+00:00

"I'm really beginning to hate people anymore."

Indeed.

klim_milk · 2018-10-14T16:18:50+00:00

When people say that obnoxious phrase, "you have restored my faith in humanity", they mean guys like this. And yet, they get kicked around so much that eventually they learn, too. Stop being like this. Don't be a door mat. Save yourself. You can still be a good guy. Be a bro to a bro, ignore the hoe.

TheNubianChimaera · 2018-10-14T16:23:22+00:00

Thats amazing.

pilotmgtow · 2018-10-14T16:45:23+00:00

Hahaha this reminds me of my ex. I held the door open for her and put her in the car during the first few dates then months later she would get furious and said I am an independent woman and can open the door myself.

Then when I broke up with her she claimed all the guys are same hahahahaha

BormannTheEnthusiast · 2018-10-14T16:58:18+00:00

This has happened to me on numerous occasions when I was into the dating scene. I tried to be the nice and respectful guy, but these silly broads dont know what a real man is. They look at nice gestures as a sign of weakness. We have to teach our sons, nephews etc about this kind of toxic behavior. Most of these women want a dumb minded "bad boy" that will do their bidding. NO MORE FREE MEALS

I_like_PnutButter · 2018-10-14T16:59:18+00:00

I experienced a similar scene in my youth. It's good that you avoid her like the plague. Let her end up pregnant with some deadbeat dad on welfare. You know, the type of women we pay taxes to feed their dumbasses...

Ablette531 · 2018-10-14T17:05:38+00:00

BlackBoxInquiry · 2018-10-14T17:08:24+00:00

What an entitled cunt.

We shall see her down at the welfare office in a few years with a kid or two, looking for a beta to shore up all her mistakes and pay for everything and do all the work while she gets “punched-out” by a Chad while he’s slaving away.

000-7-17-12-1-14-26 · 2018-10-14T17:40:04+00:00

Expose her, these “women” need to show us respect.

Moonstatue · 2018-10-14T17:50:11+00:00

What a soy boy He shoul havw just called her a roastie and left it at that and moves on. The issue with most "nice guys" is they get too attached to shitty people

ovrload · 2018-10-14T17:55:24+00:00

Beta simps are what’s destroying modern dating. Giving these entitled princess everything and even if they don’t ask just for a “chance” of a whiff of pussy 🤦🏼‍♂️

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BahamianMGTOW · 2018-10-14T18:13:10+00:00

He is a simp an he is not mgtow he will have many more stand up on dates. The drama continues........

lank3y · 2018-10-14T19:14:15+00:00

It is a far better shock to make this discovery having lost an evening and some peace of mind rather than to be taken to the cleaners after three years of insert_relationship_legal_term_here and a lifetime of support payments.

palamulu · 2018-10-14T19:23:17+00:00

Holding doors open, who even does that?

WidmerBeer · 2018-10-14T19:44:32+00:00

"I hate that you act like a gentleman, but I like that you pay for everything like a gentleman, but you work full time to afford to buy stuff for me like a gentleman, which is super annoyinggg."

And this is why chicks fuck Chad and Tyrone until their own bills and social responsibility catches up with them. Also why successful chicks are more likely to remain single, simply because she can afford everything herself, and anything less than a 6'0+ good looking Chad will do. Chicks who don't make good money all the sudden find themselves going back to Church in their early 30s looking for a work horse to pay the rent.

v650 · 2018-10-14T19:48:28+00:00

And the ranks grow....

ArizonaTucker · 2018-10-14T20:16:28+00:00

At one point, women looked for men who would do these things. Lmao!!!!

Blogginginvicecity · 2018-10-14T20:31:47+00:00

Dodged a bullet, bromigo!

TheSud007 · 2018-10-14T20:46:37+00:00

This is real? 🤦🏼‍♂️

kaczan3 · 2018-10-14T21:04:35+00:00

I can't believe how anyone is still bothering with women. I can't even be bothered to read her BS for humor sake.

cycloneous · 2018-10-14T21:31:15+00:00

Let's analyze this future cat lady's response, shall we?

Analysis

She said: it's just weird that you open my car door for me all the time like my hands are broken. Like who does that?

Response: It is not weird, apparently, your parents never taught you that there are men out there who are gentleman. It is a thing that men do because it means not only that he respects you, but he finds value you in you. It is part of being a man, being a provider. So in case you're wondering, "who does that" well it is a man.

She said: I just like the fact you pay for everything wherever we go.

Response: Ohhhhh. . . so the truth is out, you're with the guy because of the money and the free shit he is giving you and not because he has something to bring to the table, and you're basically saying you want a bad boy, a Chad Thunderdong or Tyrone Thundercox to treat you like shit and does nothing for you but give it to you up the @$$ six ways to Sunday. Daddy must be proud of you.

She said: you work full time which is super annoyinggg

Response: Yes, it is called be responsible and being an adult. It is obvious you want some one to give you 24 /7 attention coverage as a full time job, rather then a man who works to provide for you. You're shallow and have no clue what it means to earn your keep.

Verdict

Avoid this woman at all cost gents, she is a future Carol and cat lady in the making, she wants a bad boy, and not a man. But hey, at least she didn't suck the OP dry for 4 years and then complain he's "too good to her."

scooty_hearts · 2018-10-14T21:36:37+00:00

Ask my boy Chris jones about them Ohio bitches

unpluggedoasis · 2018-10-14T22:02:21+00:00

lol dating. lol dinner dates. lol taking women seriously. This thot will be asking where the good men are in a couple years and because of her shit behavior there will be one less around if this guy is smart.

FloridaW · 2018-10-14T22:03:40+00:00

Lol @ this simp who kept paying for her shit and opening doors. Trying hard to feel bad for him. Chivalry was over long ago.

jglover82 · 2018-10-14T22:12:10+00:00

TBH you seem pretty beta too

tymayfeld · 2018-10-14T22:25:53+00:00

Fdb!

Toshiba1point0 · 2018-10-14T23:07:46+00:00

Wooooooowww. Sorry man, in the long run, that sunt did you a favor.

ziggmuff · 2018-10-14T23:21:35+00:00

"Plus you work full time..." HAHAHAHAHA!!!

vivab0rg · 2018-10-14T23:23:05+00:00

Note to self: Don't ever be this guy.

SpecialistParticular · 2018-10-14T23:34:30+00:00

I don't even hold doors for women anymore. Just won't do it. Half the time they ignore me, while occasionally I get THE STARE as if I just insulted them. Well fuck off then, huss.

chaseexcellence · 2018-10-15T00:28:27+00:00

Then women wonder why men no longer want to date. Poor dude. I hope this guy becomes a future chad and humps and dumps women, then goes MGTOW.

Whirrlz · 2018-10-15T00:51:39+00:00

Oh look. This is me two years ago.

SavvyMillennial · 2018-10-15T01:25:24+00:00

Cant be opening doors dude wtf LOL. Girls hate that shit. You gotta be borderline dick. Jocks dont open car doors

BottleCap-SnackTrap · 2018-10-15T01:42:35+00:00

The story seems real, but the texts itself seems fake. Who tf responds with any reactionary emojis like that in such a serious manner?

CryingHappyMonkey · 2018-10-15T02:01:05+00:00

He got lucky. She's clearly shit-crazy.

MrMannheim · 2018-10-15T02:11:44+00:00

"You work full time which is super annoyinggg"

What in the goddamn hell...where to even begin?

SologamousMonk · 2018-10-15T02:31:24+00:00

"Have money to pay for me, but don't work too much to get it."

PabloEscoba · 2018-10-15T03:52:47+00:00

The wall will humble her

SlwWlkng · 2018-10-15T05:01:54+00:00

AWALT, nuff said

Orangecup05 · 2018-10-15T06:43:40+00:00

Don't open doors for whores.

They want your money not your manners.

LindaMaxwellKing · 2018-10-15T06:55:33+00:00

Seems fake.

daniel13324 · 2018-10-15T08:14:19+00:00

Lmao she did him a favor.... Geez Louise. Opening a car door isn’t exactly kissing ass. It’s just common courtesy, or what used to be common. He doesn’t need that in his life.

Stepan1894 · 2018-10-15T08:38:38+00:00

Betta male complains about why woman left him for a random chad xD

TheLastMgtow · 2018-10-15T11:12:53+00:00

Exactly why do you even work. What a beta male horse. Just be a thug, or join the taliban, thats a real man, not someone who works.

ecurrent94 · 2018-10-15T15:43:39+00:00

“You work full time, which is super annoying”

Sorry that this man provides himself with a living. I bet she’s love it if she was getting the money 🙄 Jesus.. first women want a self-sufficient man, then they don’t?

Philosophipster · 2018-10-15T16:03:07+00:00

Dating world has become semi-anonymous and downright shameless. It used to be the way that if you dated someone in a small enough town, everyone would know what's up. Feedback would be immediate, no place to hide from the consequences of your immoral or amoral behaviour. Society would keep you in check. Nowadays you can just ghost people or simply be a dick/cunt if you have alternatives. Find a woman without alternatives (I mean that in a good way, where she actually finds YOU interesting - though you need to be very aware of what makes you, you) or find no woman at all, is my advice :)

Msmxjkcoxxo · 2018-10-15T16:23:01+00:00

Bryan is a fake little cuck who uses emojis and needs a shave. Deserves this 100% and anyone else doing this does too idiots.

thottttttttttttt · 2018-10-15T22:39:31+00:00

I remember one time I planned this epic hike with a thot in 2012. I spent 4 hours researching trails and things to see and had everything planned with her about 2 weeks in advance. The day before she suddenly has to get an oil change and can’t make it.

I got angry and decided to study, as fate would have it I stumbled across a video about Bitcoin that day...

Roanstery · 2018-10-14T20:48:54+00:00

I've been there so many times with women like that. They are just batshit insane. I'm glad I'm old and tired and no longer tempted by tits and pussy like I used to be.

UrbanEngineer · 2018-10-14T15:23:00+00:00

This is not far away from me damn! Women are SUPER entitlted out here and its OHIO damn haha.

His_Dudeness1993 · 2018-10-14T15:41:48+00:00

Wow bro. Just fucking wow.

porkytool · 2018-10-14T16:10:52+00:00

She’s quite the cunt

MarzMonkey · 2018-10-14T15:55:14+00:00

Seriously, who holds doors for women??

E46M54 · 2018-10-14T16:21:17+00:00

Eradicate the human race.

retal1ator · 2018-10-14T17:19:40+00:00

Dumping a guy JUST because he open the doors for you feels like dumping a girl because she sucks your Willy every day after work. I mean, it can be annoying in the long run but you have to be an idiot to dump a person just for that. I am sure there was something else, he was probably too passive or beta (lol).

To be honest, guys who do that worshipping thing scream desperation and stupidity.

She says "you open me doors like I have broken arms or something". Clearly she wants someone at her level, and not a personal little slave. I can relate to her.

bobbbsanders · 2018-10-14T15:42:52+00:00

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Title	Don't try anymore. Just GYOW
Author	azmansalleh
Upvotes	1089
Comments	243
Date	October 14, 2018 12:59 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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