Preface: 5'11 mixed dark, handsome, muscular, I wrote handsome in there which many of you will not believe, but I wrote it to show you that Looks<Game, being mentally unhealthy and weak will make good looks mean fucking NOTHING, sure I have had pussy handed to me on a platter before, will they stick around? Nope, not when I'm being beta as fuck... I swallowed the pill back in 2010, my first heartbreak which by no means was on her end, I wouldn't have dated my EXTREMELY beta, weak-minded, waste of time ass if I was her, it's something in life I believe every man needs to go through to get his head straight, but what I am here to share with you is me not keeping my head straight quite the opposite and I am hoping this post will steer anyone that is even close to my current level of cognizance in the right direction.

Hookers: The worlds oldest profession but also...the biggest easy way out in the sexual kingdom. I had sex with my first hooker when I was 22, 5 years ago, funnily enough I was at the height of my game and before I got into my first relationship. It started out as an innocent little trip to the bunny ranch and turned into my biggest enemy. Initially having sex with hookers is amazing, no emotional attachment, no game, no having to speak to the woman ever again, but the big problem with it, No Work. It is a direct attack on the Reward System which has been covered in this Subreddit many times. After having sex with hundreds of hookers for over 5 years now, every time I look at a woman I think to myself, why talk to her and possibly mess up my game, risk my ego or waste my time on a woman I'm not into, when I can just call one of my girls blow 200$ and bust a nut real fast? As good as it sounds lmao it's not, it's actually a problem, a BIG problem. It completely ruins your brain, it rewires you to take the easy way out, and as humans we naturally like to guide ourselves to the easiest possible solution to our problems, its natural, but that doesn't mean its right, a man faces his wants head on and if he gets burned, he supposed to get right back up and deal with it, sadly that is our reality and you either accept it, or cower in the corner with the rest of the betas.

Steroids: Ah the drug every professional athlete in almost every sport uses, the way I look at these, if it isn't making you money, don't use them, it's another easy way out and also an illusion, I don't know a single guy that used steroids and all the sudden started getting mad pussy, me being a stripper now, I use them, but it's my job I am supposed to look the part and I would assume that it is my face and abs getting most of the money, not my arms or my retardedly huge legs, most men I know look to me for steroids as if it is going to change their life, it isn't, it'll up you by one point on the scale at best, game and money are going to be bigger players for you than muscles. Be fit, that's all you need.

Porn: Absolutely one of the biggest players in deteriorating your mind at a neurological level, simply said it is over-stimulating, and in my opinion Number 1 at destroying the Reward System via ease of access, ability to cum to the hottest girls with no work involved it is a destroyer of game and desire, it is a must removal for all men. I myself have been addicted to it like the most of the modern men these days, delving into insane porn level porn that I have tried and don't even like in real life, I actually participated in a gangbang, it was the worst sexual experience of my life, but after being desensitized and loss of desire to regular sex, I thought it was all I wanted. Do yourself a favor, get rid of it, let your mind settle back into its natural state, desire for real women will return to baseline. Your standards may even lower after you stop watching which is a good thing, there are only so many 10/10 females.

VideoGames: Okay in moderation but I have noticed I personally use it as an escape from my real life, I was being weak, not dealing with my problems and desires head on, afraid of getting hurt, afraid of failure, afraid of not being the best I could be, using video games as a safe zone, I know I'm good at them, and they make me feel good when I play them like some sort of self validation technique to make me feel good about myself. I am cutting them out personally because I know how I am with them, everyone is different though and moderation is key, just be wary and look deeper as to why you spend 8+ hours a day playing them rather than being productive.

Drugs: Of course drugs, cocaine, meth, pill popping, insane amounts of alcohol consumption, I have used it all to cope before, this one is a no brainer, do not use drugs, I think cocaine in low doses is the only one that may help you with your game from time to time, but overall, you shouldn't need any extra "help". It's just another crutch, another thing that doesn't actually help build character or make you stronger as a man, and if you have truly swallowed the pill. You know that in life, being mentally strong is your number one accessory.

The main reason I posted this is to get these issues out there and off my chest, I hope that maybe some of this will enlighten any readers out there, and not make the same mistakes I have over the last 7 years.