There is a discussion about men who "use" women for sex and women who "lead men on" to get them to do stuff for them under the false pretense of future sex.

"Pump and Dump" scenario with prevention:

  1. Women are "traditional" whereby they avoid sex for a long time before vetting a male aren't going to be "pump and dumped"
  2. Women who are "pump and dumped" sleep with men too quickly, men who are out of their "league" who they want to get into a relationship with, etc.
  3. The "pump and dumped" female is at fault for having sex too quickly and/or trying to lock down a man outside of their "league".
  4. "Pump and Dump" female instinctively knows man out of her league will likely "bounce" quickly if she doesn't offer sex. She mostly offers sex to lock down relationship with man outside of her league while overlooking men in "her league" that she makes jump through hoops.

"Strung Along Beta"

  1. Dude thinks using "niceness" or "money" will get them sex. Female strings them along with flirty behavior, skimpy clothing, etc.
  2. Dude should avoid giving much to female without reciprocity in terms of sex/relationship
  3. Dude usually does this because he knows female will not interact with him without doing these gestures, opening himself to being "used"
  4. Dude is at fault for not withholding resources without sex/relationship with female he desires.

P.S. I also blame the easily "pumped and dumped" females for causing "Chads" to game women and making them not good marriage material.

I also blame "beta males" for allowing themselves to be "used" and causing entitlement among women that abuse them.

Both of these types cause the dating market to be worse for everyone.