Or to be specific, a guy who has been burned by their ex ? I met a guy he is respectful towards me, pays for every bill but he has history of being burned by his long term ex. His ex used to demand designer goods from him, so I’m afraid he won’t be generous towards me as to her. I’m not saying I’d be demanding those things but after that incident I had impression that he wants someone who’s humble. He also explicitly mentioned he doesn’t like girls who’s too dressed up or head to toe designer goods And also mental side, It was turn off for me as it shows me he didn’t respect himself and let him stay with a girl who didn’t respect him.