PSA: This is not a sub for binary political or ideological thinking or adherence to established belief systems, this is a sub for STRATEGY.

I feel the need to clarify how we arrive at some of our positions at Female Dating Strategy.

First and foremost, we are a strategic oriented sub. We do not push any particular political idealogy.

And since we don’t solely center ourselves in one idealogy, we don’t completely align with any of the mainstream political ideas about women.

This basically results in us being at odds with our members at times and pissing everybody off on all sides of the political and cultural debate.

Here’s a sprinkle of some of the criticism we’ve gotten to give you an idea:

Why Conservatives hate us: We are critical of financial dependency on men or a “tradwife” lifestyle

Why we are critical: Extremely High Risk of catastrophic almost irreversible damage to your mental, social, and financial health if your husband leaves you and very little tangible likelihood you will find satisfaction and happiness in the long term. High Risk, Low Reward

Why Radical Feminists Hate Us: We don’t care if you wear makeup, shave your body hair, wear heels, lose weight, or do any “performative” femininity to attract men.

Why we aren’t critical: Wearing makeup is a low risk, high reward activity. Many find it fun and artistic, and it is likely to gain you lots of social and financial benefits with very little drawbacks. Low Risk, High Reward

Why Liberal Feminists Hate Us: We’re heavily critical of the sex positive movement, sex work as a profession, porn, and BDSM.

Why we are critical: Casual sex, BDSM, etc Is a high risk, low reward activity. Sex work has lead to devastating abuse and exploitation of women with very little benefit. Putting your Health and safety in the hands of men you have not thoroughly vetted can lead to trauma and statistically you probably won’t even orgasm that often. Very High Risk, and Low Reward

So as you can see, EVERYBODY hates us. (Yay!)

Our strategies are grounded in harsh realism about the current culture and dating landscape that are often at odds with established belief systems about the world. FDS focuses on risk vs reward, not wishful thinking, blissful ignorance, and blind hope.

This is not a sub for binary political or ideological thinking, or adherence to established belief systems, this is a sub for strategy.

So much of what women are taught to believe about ourselves is outright false or based on a utopic viewpoint of the world that often has no practical basis for application in our current society and is not likely to get the results you want.

So if you build your worldview on one particular social theory to the teeth, at times you may find yourself at odds with FDS. We will challenge you, we will surprise you, we will debate you, and we will encourage you to examine the nuances of your own belief system and identify ways in which you may not be best serving yourself.