I recently talked with a male escort or gigglo and he was given me a run down of the business, like what he makes on average, who are his customers, how many days a week he gets sessions etc. One thing he told me that struck me was a huge percentage of his customer base were married men looking for an attractive well built guy to have sex with their wives as they watched. I almost spit out my drink when he told me that because that’s basically the cuckold fetish which till now I thought was just a made up internet meme, but apparently there are guys like this who do exist.

What’s interesting is that a lot people assume it’s usually the woman in the relationship who tricks or forces her man to go along with this so she can have an excuse to cheat. However, according to the escort I was talking to it’s mostly the man in the relationship who brings it up and is overly enthusiastic about the whole thing. Usually when he shows up for appointments for this kind of thing the man will be pumped and excited to get things started. It’s usually the woman who is hesitant and nervous about the whole thing. There has been some appointments he had to leave because the wife/gf will at the last minute decide she doesn’t want to have sex with him in front her bf/husband anymore, much to the displeasure of her spouse.

But yeah this legitimately does seem to be a kink some men have which is just bizarre to me. The escort I talked to also mentioned that these guys are usually very wealthy and well off, some aren’t bad looking either. But this fetish is so powerful for them they are willing to offer up big bucks to watch a strange man bang their wife.

The world is very weird. Anyways, how common do you think this fetish is and how would you analyze it through redpill, blue pill or fds lenses? What do you think drives these men towards this fetish? Porn? Humiliation? Feelings of inadequacy?