More and more women are starting to catch on. This is hopeful

wagonwheel_ · 2021-01-10T04:00:05+00:00

Why did none of the girls that I grew up with have this mentality? I feel robbed.

Gambit12345 · 2021-01-10T04:43:05+00:00

There’s needs to be an entire cultural shift where we stop giving men the benefit of the doubt in these scenarios. If it looks, walks and talks like a duck, it’s a mf duck! There’s no way around it. No amount of mental gymnastics will change the outcome that this man ain’t gonna commit.

Mella_20 · 2021-01-10T06:08:09+00:00

Men don't even like casual dating. They just like the power that comes with dangling the commitment carrot in a woman's face. I bet if you actually want to date a guy casually, he will take offense to it, cause how dare you be clear about your intentions.

MulticoloredCatMug · 2021-01-10T03:21:10+00:00

Why do we do this?

Answer: we don’t. Leave that shit in 2020.

Gardrothard · 2021-01-10T03:53:14+00:00

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SakuraGirl88 · 2021-01-10T03:42:10+00:00

Nope! These men not only want to have their cake and eat it too, they want you to bake the damn cake for nothing. Casual dating is not empowering. These men aren't trash, they're the whole dumpster...on fire.

thedrunkcuteblonde · 2021-01-10T03:21:02+00:00

Because lib feminism can only hold on to its lies for so long. Sooner or later all things with such illogical foundation will crack. And I am so here for it!!! I was getting really worried for the next generations to come.

Available_Vacation40 · 2021-01-10T05:24:52+00:00

We hold onto the lies we’re forced to internalize to perpetuate and uphold the patriarchy! We are told to cater to LVMs’ every whim because women are told they’re “incomplete” without a man in there lives, even if they get the entirely short end of the stick and no benefits from their “casual relationship.”

dazzles67 · 2021-01-10T07:29:07+00:00

If being with someone makes you more miserable, I don't see a point in it.

Lainehh · 2021-01-10T03:40:07+00:00

I needed to hear this today

randomgirlimok · 2021-01-10T23:49:51+00:00

Don’t be a free prostitute. That’s how men view it.

dudderson · 2021-01-10T13:40:13+00:00

I met this guy online and put in my profile and told him you know I'm looking for a serious relationship. We started dating and a few months ago by and I make a joke in a text saying "oh my God you're so cute we should date" and he immediately froze up and was like "uhhhh....we need to talk about that..". Yeah he'd been sleeping around with who knows how many girls because he thought we were just casually dating. You think that'd be the end of the story but my dumbass takes him back after he grovels for a few days, telling me he's sorry and that he will be in a monogamous relationship with me... and we date for a while longer only to find out later on that he's been cheating the entire time. Men ain't shit.

throwmithefuckaway · 2021-01-10T11:11:24+00:00

The sex is rarely satisfying and at worst, you get abused. You also lose time. Time that could be spent with a decent man and/or personal development. Fuck that. Women are definitely the losers in this situation. It's sad that it has become normalised.

wrice05 · 2021-01-10T16:14:46+00:00

She is so cute AND so tough and I am here for it!

wafflelies · 2021-01-10T23:58:09+00:00

getting a vibrator changed my entire dating and sexual world. if everyone gave their 18 year old daughters one on their 18th birthday the world would be a better, happier, and less disease filled place. 100% i am not being sarcastic

Jerryriggedusername · 2021-01-10T06:37:58+00:00

Oh man her story sounds like a side chick.

Don’t stand for this shit girls!

ragingcapri19 · 2021-01-11T17:14:10+00:00

i am so the No Bullshit Friend!! slogan is: dump him!

Title	More and more women are starting to catch on. This is hopeful
Author	eluriaeve
Upvotes	1284
Comments	49
Date	January 10, 2021 3:07 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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