https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/the_myth_of_the_alpha_male

The article above is a study conducted. It’s a viable source, I checked credibility..

Women want kind men.. as a woman I can attest to this 100%. I’m referencing adult women, not teenagers. Women prefer kindness to domination and even money. Kindness to men may seem like a weakness.. the common belief is that if I’m kind, she’ll take advantage of me..

That may be true when girls are in highschool to a certain degree.. our primitive comes out before wisdom sets in..

In otherwords, when we were in the Stone Age, the dominant male got the female.. in modern day this is no longer the case.. women don’t want to be dominated. What used to be necessary for survival, is no longer necessary.. so a woman finds an ambitious man attractive that is protective of her and obviously children on a primitive level. But we don’t have to accept abuse or lack of commitment..

Women that do accept those things are somehow desperate. They may not have skills or education. They may be dependent on a man for support, therefore he feels inclined to dominate her or abuse her to gain control.

Men that are educated and empowered, want women who are educated and empowered.. it’s that simple. The men that have no trade or education, will sometimes find educated women to either be a threat or they may even be crafty enough to win her over with charm or charisma.

Confidence is the key here.. which should never be confused with arrogance.. To be arrogant is just a form of fake confidence.. true confidence is undeniable. A man with true confidence is not the man out there trying to use women for sex. A true confident man wants righteousness..

Righteousness is not arbitrary.. it’s cut and dry... If you are righteous, you take accountability, you have integrity and you are devoted.. if you see that as weakness, than you are obviously under confident. It takes far more strength to be righteous, than it does to be fearful..

When people are in fear they go around stealing.. they take , take take...they fearfully won’t commit, because they are in more fear of what might be stolen from them. They go into “ fight or flight mode” where they will either use force to control or flee the situation. They will then move on to the next woman or man.. only to repeat the same cycle over and over again.

Healing from the trauma that put you in that situation in the first place is the only route to succeed.. People who invoke their own hurt and pain upon others, will never win.. they won’t ever be settled and they will never gain self worth..

Pride will be what kills you and those who live with pride will self destruct 100% of the time.