Bad news for the South Asian bros: this queen has priced herself out of the market

imdaad_khan · 2021-04-09T16:02:40+00:00

Get a dog, die alone.

Leave the rest of us alone.

InevitableOwl1 · 2021-04-09T15:46:46+00:00

Isn’t it already bad news for the south Asian bros? Assuming she is in America don’t they Indian-American women scorn their men completely. Especially those from India itself?

It seems like these women are the second most populous group on FDS. Because they rule out their entire culture and go for guys from others races who are much less likely to be interested

Joshua886 · 2021-04-09T15:29:51+00:00

And they used to say hypergamy was a myth perpetuated to shame women.

InevitableOwl1 · 2021-04-09T15:42:45+00:00

She is properly insane. How can arranged marriage be both cultural and for men who couldn’t find girlfriends in real life at the same time ? That doesn’t make any sense

And why is four years senior a big deal? That is nothing at 25. Especially if she wants someone who can pay for her. And I thought the complaint was that men were too immature?

I see she has bought the feminist lie hook, line and sinker. Fact is if she has a masters and she wants someone equally educated or higher then she is drastically shrinking her dating pool

Is the assumption that she has to stop working? It certainly sounds like it from what she is saying. So she is suddenly looking for someone who earns double what she current does at least to pay for her and him

I don’t understand the relevance of the girls trip comment? Sweetie do you really think you will be going on those whilst married? In a traditional Indian (I assume) marriage. Not likely

TheApricotCavalier · 2021-04-09T15:50:30+00:00

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thedukeinc · 2021-04-09T16:15:20+00:00

Honey, men do not care what degree you have. Just an FYI

Joaquino7997 · 2021-04-09T15:46:33+00:00

Opening herself (realistically) to a man would give her at least three things she cannot provide for herself:

a man's loving heart,
a man's body to keep her warm at night, and
a man's ability to satisfy her sexual needs

Now sure, she can get a pet, buy extra blankets and a Herculean dildo; but NEITHER of those things can say to her "I love you."

This woman seems very judgmental, extremely entitled and high maintenance - none of which are attractive to men regardless of his tax bracket or academic achievement.

Expensive-Argument-7 · 2021-04-09T17:55:04+00:00

Definitely Indian. I feel for my Indian brothers

plz_say_sike · 2021-04-09T23:09:33+00:00

Had to pull out my burner account for this since reddit banned my original for liking MGTOW content.

All the negative traits black guys say about black women also apply to south Asian women. They are aggressive, masculine, overvalue themselves, money hungry, will shame men of their own race for interracial dating but salivate over the white guys (all while trashing white guys on social media for woke points).

The only difference between black women and brown women is brown women are able to hide their real personalities since they grew up in functional households and learned how to act like a traditional woman from their mothers. And in my opinion, this make them worse. A lot of brown guys think they married a traditional woman who turns out to be a radical feminist. At least with black women, you know what you’re getting into from the get go.

tokixdoki · 2021-04-09T16:01:24+00:00

tbh i don’t bother w/ asians like this either. either they are like this or their parents are.

R41nmaker · 2021-04-09T15:34:16+00:00

So it’s patriarchy’s fault that she has a laundry list of demands? GTFO.

etherith · 2021-04-09T15:50:48+00:00

She is going to die alone

drchadick · 2021-04-09T16:27:25+00:00

So whats her problem? Conclusion is that she is to good for the world, so the logical action would be to getting dicked down on girls trips and eat at her fancy restaurants. She gets what she wants without getting molested by unattractive males.

ThrowAway_Dantes · 2021-04-09T19:07:22+00:00

What she doesn’t realize is those potential suitors are the best she’s going to get if she hasn’t found a man by now hahahaha

I’m Indian as well and guess what? All the good traditional Indian women I know found guys and got married as soon as they finished school (~25) they’re all happily married with kids now.

The ones like this girl who think no man can measure up? They’re in their 30’s now, still single and wondering why no guy wants them anymore. I know not a single one of them is going to find a decent guy and once they hit 35 they’ll be running back to their parents asking them for an arranged marriage. It’s both sad and hilarious.

jzck20 · 2021-04-09T15:38:06+00:00

Okay, if none is good enough for her, she should go ahead and pick her own suitor then

She should not complain if mister attractive, successful, rich & educated has too many women around him

I hope you will give him a good reason to commit, pursuing your career might not be on his agenda

I feel someone is going to buy a dog and buy herself her own ring

sleepyweaselisawake · 2021-04-09T19:46:36+00:00

"I take myself out to exquisite restaurants ALL the time."

She might make good money, but she's blowing through it instead of saving. Eventually, she's going to be broke and will have no one to blame except herself.

42252252 · 2021-04-09T17:06:18+00:00

It's always funny to me how there's this schism in humanity, where the people who first ask "what's in it for me?" need to ask it a lot less, and the people who never even think the phrase need to start. Nice people don't even put themselves in third place in order of their priorities, and they continuously serve as useful servants and cannon fodder for people like this lady.

I don't fault her asking what's in it for her, but the fact that her concept of marriage is little more than luxury watch advertisements you see in charter jet magazines is.

Awesomeo70706 · 2021-04-09T18:34:08+00:00

Are the men that are on "your level" actively vetting you to be their wife? No, buy a dog...die alone.

billdehaan2 · 2021-04-09T18:45:34+00:00

Here's just a few red flags i've noticed:

...

They don't look as attractive as I do (all of them have been pretty ugly and I think women deserve to be with someone they're attracted to).

Given that women consider 80% of men below average in terms of attractiveness, it's reasonable to assume this means you expect to attract a man in the top 20%. You are also expecting him to be educated with a Master's degree (#2) and make more money than you do (#3).

The fact that you call these "red flags" rather than "disappointments" is itself a red flag.

If you consider yourself in the top 20% of attractiveness, and you're not getting any attention from men, either (a) you're not in the top 20%, or (b) men aren't interested in an educated, gorgeous woman who makes a lot of money.

Given the odds, I'd go with (a) over (b).

taavidude · 2021-04-09T17:42:54+00:00

Holy fuck she is delusional as hell.

Thatshygurl · 2021-04-09T16:06:08+00:00

This lady is looking forward to a really lonely life. The only valid red flag is maybe the last one...and would apply to her as well 😂 no?

TheApricotCavalier · 2021-04-09T18:43:39+00:00

lmao. She thinks whoever ends up with her is getting a good deal. The poor guy is signing up for a life of misery

efraim-refrain · 2021-04-09T17:10:35+00:00

Very strange.. if she is that attractive and accomplished in her career etc, why is she not able to lock down a guy where ever she lives? Nobody is forcing her to get an arranged marriage, I am sure her parents have suggested that because she is still single...

Also she is not obligated to marry somebody Indian only.. it doesn't matter. Her parents would have no problems if she brings a white boy home to meet them. That would be their American dream fulfilled!

NeverNeverLandIsNow · 2021-04-09T18:41:56+00:00

Well come on guys the line starts right over here, I mean you obviously must be chomping at the bit to get this wonder, this jewel of South Asia who is better than almost everyone else, in her own mind, don't you want to prove yourself to her?

SoFastMuchFurious · 2021-04-09T19:29:29+00:00

Buy a vibrator and then complain it isn't > 6 feet

houseoftolstoy · 2021-04-09T22:42:32+00:00

4 to 5 years is too much of an age gap? Please. That is by no means a significant difference in age. This is reaching as a complaint.

As for cultures with arranged marriages, I will give them credit that they have a functioning system for them. This woman clearly will just be a thorn in the side of the integrity of such a system, so I would agree that she should not get an arranged marriage. Bad examples influence others to be bad examples, so she would do more harm than good to her people by destroying whatever marriage would come from an arrangement.

Mundane_Worldliness7 · 2021-04-09T20:04:58+00:00

She posted this in a bubble, it’s like asking a group of insurance salesmen if whole life insurance makes sense. Obviously she’s over her skis, she’s got an advanced science degree and has likely gotten plenty to opportunities to get one of the bro’s from her class, however she’s likely into Chad. And you know she doesn’t have the looks to get non-science Chad and she could never hope to get science Chad either. Thus, instead of recognizing that she will need to accept what’s been offered to her, she’s complaining.

HolyGourdofJerusalem · 2021-04-09T23:11:16+00:00

what a dummy..."they don't make as much money as I do"

...maybe they make more, but unlike her, don't spend it foolishly or make it obvious.

she sounds like the kind of woman who would be a real drain on the household finances

ronoda12 · 2021-04-09T16:22:43+00:00

Garbage woman.

Ok_Swim_2691 · 2021-04-10T05:52:04+00:00

From that thread's comments

"They don't make as much money as I do. I can afford my own shit, what do I need them for?"

but then

"Men pick younger women as a power play. By having 5 years on their partner, they will be ahead in their career while the woman's barely finishing uni."

So basically, it's damned if you do, damned if you don't when it comes to money.

Also, from another thread of theirs about dead bedrooms, the moral of the story is to never, ever cohabitate with a woman: any time you're on break you're "being a lazy slob", any chore she does is "women doing all the housekeeping and mental work", and her giving you starfish sex once a month is rape by coercion, since "ooh men expect women to do all the housework then be DTF on-demand, man up and do more chores, scrote."

Stay safe fellas.

ltde5150 · 2021-04-09T17:10:11+00:00

I seriously dont give a fuck about her first 4 on the wish list. But why the 5? Why cant women like whom they think never had a partner? Some detrimental women claim that rape is in men's genes, not that only this is a huge lie, its also so much rarer than women going for the wished guy. We shall start teaching younger ones to say that they already started life with experience, getting out of the womb licking the mother's pussy already, that's how.

The only logic I have is that this is a natural way for our species to select the best genes. Which has nothing to do with rationality.

reignoferror00 · 2021-04-09T23:47:37+00:00

She should think back - was she interested in the guys a couple years younger/her own age in high school? (which wasn't all that long ago for her) or the older guy? I'm guessing door #2, so what's the problem now??
With her attitude she better work hard on finding a husband because it is going to take a LOT of work to find someone to come close to some of her criteria that will put up with her bullshit; when the babies rabies kicks in it will be too late for her - and she'll just double down add more to her demands.

One-Move · 2021-04-10T00:33:12+00:00

The chinese in china are still on, female over 26 and not married (left over) divorced, mmm, single mom, hell no. Only 5 years younger, way to old

WysDaWolf · 2021-04-10T00:58:44+00:00

At 25, she is at the threshold of forever alone territory. She is too old to get a wealthy, attractive suitor and too picky to settle for average. Soon no one will want her, she will become what they call a "left over women."

Homely_Bonfire · 2021-04-10T04:01:56+00:00

In the true spirit of men going their own way: Okay. Do what you will and reap what you sow. Like she said; in her country marriage between a (vetted by friends and family [=safety]) man and a younger woman is stikk the norm. Or to say it more clearly - she is one of the few bad options from a pool of plenty others which means her existence is irrelevant to those who look for the traditional wife in SE Asia. Of course that is if you still are looking for a wife.

Gaiinahat · 2021-04-10T04:04:08+00:00

She's only 5 years away from earning the Sheng Nu award...

EvolvingMan1994 · 2021-04-10T09:27:49+00:00

Clueless yet judgmental.
Hypergamy Warning.
Hypergamy Overload!
Judgmental yet clueless.
Feels and Tingles.

Yes you're better off on your own since you have no f*cking idea who men are and what we want from a woman or marriage. Get a frog, kiss him all day long.

Ok-Adeptness4906 · 2021-04-10T10:33:51+00:00

Here's an interesting fact: people in arranged marriages are equally or even more happy than people in Western, love-based marriages.

plainbread11 · 2021-04-10T16:13:57+00:00

I mean it’s not like she’s just a good for nothing woman with a million kids and tons of debt/no job. She’s clearly accomplished so yeah if the guy doesn’t measure up she shouldn’t marry him. Not sure why this is a post here, she has deserved standards.

rilakkumkum · 2021-04-10T20:50:14+00:00

This isn’t entitlement. Nobody, man or woman wants to marry people like that

CartNip · 2021-04-10T21:52:29+00:00

She’s right, arranged marriage aren’t made to benefit the woman, the aren’t made to benefit the man either. They are almost always for family politics.

jws755 · 2021-04-10T22:51:46+00:00

Yikes what an outlook. Fear not, she is going nowhere. Her age is fine, but she will never find anyone who can tolerate shitty character.

Pro_corn · 2021-04-10T23:03:29+00:00

If 5 years is too much of an agegap this woman is fucking nuts, why didn't she date and marry someone in college then?

withrowsprings · 2021-04-11T14:10:49+00:00

East asian men: Women in US do not like to date us. We are at the bottom of the dating pool

South Asian men: Hold my beer! You are one ladder above in the dating pool...

PM_ME_NICE_STUFF1 · 2021-04-12T07:06:27+00:00

A lot of women need to understand, that men and women look for different things in partners. I have never heard any man say "Boy look at that prestigious diploma from a top 10 school!!!".

RealMcGonzo · 2021-04-09T20:12:54+00:00

It'll be even worse news for some poor fuck if she "settles" and marries him. Guy will start drinking very early in the day.

dasanman69 · 2021-04-09T16:22:08+00:00

Is my math correct? She's 40/41?

Title	Bad news for the South Asian bros: this queen has priced herself out of the market
Author	make_reddit_great
Upvotes	181
Comments	152
Date	April 9, 2021 3:26 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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