Here is exactly what I mean by this. I hear men argue women have stronger and longer lasting orgasms and can have multiple orgasms during sex which makes sex for women better. The counter I often hear is women saying that rarely happens with most guys and often he is the only one that finishes and on average, men orgasm more therefor it is better for guys. Given each of those truths, I say on average, it is better for men because to me it's like that all pizza is good pizza saying, where obviously some pizzas are way better but it's always at least a decent experience and men don't ever have to deal with painful sex and an overall experience where you just wish it would end. Even if the girl isn't good in bed, pussy always feels amazing.

HOWEVER, I still believe sex is better for women even though it is better on average for men and here is why: How much better great sex is for women than men and the pressure for men to perform. As a guy who is currently in a relationship, my girlfriend most times we have sex has multiple orgasms with 9 being her best with me so far. As I guy, I could only fathom the amount of pressure she must be experiencing. We could never in our wildest dreams think about anything other than our one not as powerful orgasms let alone 9 far more intense orgasms.

There is actually a way men can mostly know although it's obviously not exactly the same. Men can have a p spot orgasm and while it is hard without practice to achieve, me being someone who has explored my own body has tried it multiple times and experienced it. It has often been said the orgasms feels soooo similar to a g spot orgasm for women in terms of the amount of pleasure, feeling the rush through your whole body, the buildup, etc. I remember the first time I did it and gave myself 4 orgasms, I was nearly screaming with pleasure, my legs and whole body where shaking, and it was an out of body experience I could NEVER get in the same ball park with a normal orgasm. So I think given the fact as a man I have experienced both orgasms, I can say with 100% certainty orgasms women have are far more incredible than what men have.

Another big thing is pressure to perform as men. We literally have to withhold ourselves from having pleasure to last 10-15 minutes, strengthen our pelvic muscles so we don't cum soon, etc. I wish I could try the whole time during sex to have as much pleasure as I could throughout but as men since we can't have multiples, I have to breathe and always make sure I don't finish while she gets to cum over and over. Men also in society don't have the options like women do. Women can go to a bar and get on tinder and have often times triple digit options they can choose from in total from the amount of guys at the bar that would sleep with her and the guys she matched with that also would on dating apps. Many men are hoping one women wants to have sex with them. So if us guys finish early, we feel shame and she is just going to assume we suck at sex and easily move on to someone else. Women don't have a pressure to "perform" during sex. Basically they just need to be willing to let the guy fuck her and he will be more than happy with that.

Now I pointed out earlier about guys finishing more and sex often being painful and awful for women because not including that would be unfair and wouldn't tell the full story. So I want to be completely fair and point that out because I wish more guys out there didn't rush foreplay and didn't get their sex education from porn and just in general knew what they were doing. Would benefit both men and women a lot.