Basically sounds like what most men can offer

K0rla · 2021-06-11T07:45:56+00:00

Yep! It is amazing how many guys are quick to remind you “you’re not my girlfriend”, “I don’t want a relationship”, “I just want some fun”... and the moment you agree and clearly show they’re not a priority, they flip their shit and get all jealous!

veruscka · 2021-06-11T01:59:52+00:00

Men love commitment… they love when you’re committed to them lol

BoxingChoirgal · 2021-06-11T00:49:46+00:00

Nailed it. If I could provide one edit: Casual accountability for THEM.

DuchessDurag · 2021-06-11T06:37:46+00:00

Sounds like almost every man on a dating app! Nothing to offer but their dick.

Sewud · 2021-06-11T08:17:12+00:00

Every man I've talked to one of the first things they tell me is that I'm not allowed to date other guys. So yeah, they are obsessed with getting commitment. They are very afraid that other men will steal their girlfriend. I've not been afraid that someone would steal my boyfriend.

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2021-06-11T09:46:44+00:00

I saw some dude on a dating app claiming he wanted a loyal fuck buddy. Dude can be slinging his dick from here to China but when you exercise your options, it’s a problem.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-06-11T05:52:29+00:00

Commitment on her part only©

Emergency-Feed8216 · 2021-06-11T06:59:26+00:00

Married guys know married sex hits the stratosphere around the 15 year mark (so sayeth the research). This may be why, when some decide to fuck around, they often heavily dangle the possibility of commitment over the infidelity buddy. She'll think she's renting to own and the sex will be better. Even if less than 3% of those contracts are ever actually fulfilled, maximum value is extracted and the cow gets milked.

frostedgemstone · 2021-06-11T08:53:02+00:00

This is so true, and it’s very annoying and enraging but sometimes it just makes me sad. It makes me feel like it’s a waste of time to invest anything at all in dating when this is so common with men nowadays. Tired of hearing the same old sentiment over and over

ennu_i_sao · 2021-06-11T11:33:36+00:00

The same men who complain that tinder is now used for dating and not hooking and it makes it “weird” are also the same ones who expect every woman who is the object of their sexual attention to cook, clean, and nurture their fragile fragile male feelings

fireforestfairy · 2021-06-11T11:56:50+00:00

Lol so true. Most men are incapable of loving a woman as they only care about sex.

Condom-Ad-Don-Draper · 2021-06-11T02:36:28+00:00

They don’t want committed sex when they’re so embarrassed about their encore performance they can’t face you ever again 😅 porn sick dick!

rednopal · 2021-06-11T00:36:22+00:00

Yup this is it

modernmedusaa · 2021-06-11T16:34:42+00:00

Well yes it’s the ideal set up for men- having several loyal women on his roster to play with until he decides to settle down. Less risk for STIs and unknown father if one gets pregnant

Big-Paleontologist13 · 2021-06-11T01:16:02+00:00

absolutely! i’ve just been realising this after a few weeks no contact

laffytaggy · 2021-06-11T00:51:03+00:00

Interpretation , please.

4BigData · 2021-06-11T02:44:37+00:00

Maybe it's too late, I don't get what causal accountability is.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-06-11T01:55:54+00:00

Checks out

Title	Basically sounds like what most men can offer
Author	eleguagirl
Upvotes	1481
Comments	30
Date	June 10, 2021 10:44 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/nx0rgl/basically_sounds_like_what_most_men_can_offer/
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