This is uncomfortable on so many levels

eveloe · 2021-06-27T07:55:33+00:00

It was obvious to anyone watching that she did not appreciate his attention. Her body language was screaming that she was uncomfortable, and he still stayed. I’m grossed out for her.

ButterfliesHurricane · 2021-06-27T07:58:02+00:00

They are vile and always the predators tactics. Is this chair free? How are you? What’s your name? Always always the same. I remember awkwardly answering at that age.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-06-27T08:49:39+00:00

And yet we're meant to pretend that predators don't know that what they're doing is predatory. Look at this girl's body language. He's a predator.

AcadiaSufficient5750 · 2021-06-27T10:22:13+00:00

The comments under the video of men blaming the girl make me sick . A guy even said how is a guy gonna be able to get laid if he doesn't worm his way into talking to a girl in response to someone saying the man should have stated his intentions.

Others saying .......

-she encouraged his actions.

-There is nothing wrong with what he did.

-women should be polite and say no nicely and tell him to go away super nicely .

Like wtf

The guy sounds old as hell too in the video that is creepy enough.

He knows she is uncomfortable and states.i can SEE YOU ARE HESITANT !! So why is he still there ???????

SHE TOLD HIM I didn't say you could sit there !!!! But he hoverd anyways after she said that trying to worm back in, thats how you are forced in situations you don't want . His ideal situation would be she will back down as say poltiey yes thats ok you can sit because st this point you don't think you have any other option . Then he would continue what he planned before .

Since I was 16 age 40+ men sat with me the whole bus journey telling me I'm a grown women and stayed there regardless of how uncomfortable I was visibly and I had to tell them I was a child multiple times . !!!!

Looking at my phone . Ignoring him One word answers They would force you to talk to them Breathing down your damn neck .

wondertarget · 2021-06-27T10:32:05+00:00

She looks super young, too. I'd say as young as 14/15. What a pos.

arnezuara · 2021-06-27T07:44:02+00:00

She said the guy looked like he was between 25-30. That’s disgusting.

Men are not blind. He could clearly tell that she’s young and still went for it. That creep needs to be in jail.

Edit: grammar + more information

FDS-GFY · 2021-06-27T12:59:01+00:00

He sounded intoxicated too.

slayeroftruth · 2021-06-27T16:45:44+00:00

I'm glad she kept recording. ugh why did I read comments. Men are vile. He knew exactly what he was doing. I don't care if she is legal. He is still predator who clearly like freak was waiting to make his move. Bugging this girl who is clearly uncomfortable is gross.

waitingforsunlight · 2021-06-27T16:41:55+00:00

She was extremely uncomfortable and it showed. I know I would most likely be the exact same way, and I'm not judging the way she reacted in the slightest, especially since she looks like she could be a minor, but women need to learn how to be MEANER to guys like this. "I'm in the middle of a call, do you MIND?" right off the bat, (although "I didn't say you could sit there" was a pretty good line.) I honestly believe men get off on making women uncomfortable and this is the only way I can think to get out of situations like this.

Averyhvw · 2021-06-27T18:06:41+00:00

Dude does not care that she is scared and wants him to leave, that is the scary part! He knows.

all_or_nothing_bet · 2021-06-27T18:06:23+00:00

Is he high or drunk? He sounds like he is hitting on another drunk adult to see is she is DTF and it's suuuper creepy because there's a child in front of him. His creepy predator voice sends shivers down my spine.

Muffcakelord · 2021-06-27T23:29:52+00:00

One of the comments saying the solution to being harassed by men is to approach them first. This is why men shouldn't be refused any say on women's politics

Title	This is uncomfortable on so many levels
Author	Equal-Ear2312
Upvotes	160
Comments	35
Date	June 27, 2021 7:38 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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