Today I was vetting a man (38) by asking him a few questions over snapchat and any time I have a slight interest in someone I ask :

"Do you have any red flags?"

It usually gives me a quick answer as to the person's ability to be introspective and has honestly saved me a lot of time weeding out the people who cannot admit their own faults.

The answer I received was out of this world:

"For me, if a woman is over 27 and is still saying 'i don't want to have kids' thats a red flag. And thats not because i'm desperate for kids.

But like... if you're in a relationship, at most, you're crazy about each other for 2 years- after that goes away you kinda need to be working together on a common goal.

And that seems to be a kid or two. I was saying I dont want kids until after 30 its not a flaw or anything, but it does sort of tell me 'okay, if this works best case scenario we get along beautifully for a few years, maybe fill the kid role with some dogs, then what?"

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... yeah, he was blocked pretty much immediately after. There's just so many layers of what in the f*ck to that response I just had to share.