Married 22 years. My income 130k, her income 70k. I’ve agreed to pay all marital debt with sale of home proceeds. Her lawyer says she’s entitled to half my 401k, half my pension and about 600 a month for 4 years. She was a stay at home mom until our only child went into highschool. She has a college degree and working a federal job the last 4 years. Am I giving up too much? I’ve tried to just use her attorney to save us both money. She’s also getting half the equity from house. There’s no abuse or cheating we were highschool sweethearts and things went cold when my son left for college. She moved out and filed. I don’t know what to do. Just curious what you think. Thanks.