Every Young Man Needs to Know This

Consistent_Jelly_955 · 2022-10-29T19:54:46+00:00

The thing that sucks is I know there are a lot of wonderful women out there. But you can’t distinguish them from the ones who are good at wearing masks or who flip the switch eventually. I thought my wife of 25 years was the pinnacle of virtue. Then she just turned on me out of nowhere. Why would I take that risk again. The good women suffer for the bad.

Wolfjak · 2022-10-29T22:54:00+00:00

Yo, I’m posting this again to reach as wide an audience as possible

Marriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe” for virtually everyone else.

Marriage was a worthy goal for a man about 50 years ago. Today, not so much. Some things changed in our culture: legalized abortion, no-fault divorce, domestic violence laws and the concept of marital rape. The changes themselves were not wrong, except the principal benefactor of these changes are modern women.

And modern women have a sense of entitlement that is not possible to satisfy. They expect to have it all - and they are being told that they should have it all - that their whim and feelings are most important. Somehow they expect to juggle a marriage, career, parenting and social life with no hassle - and when it doesn't work, the husband is the first to suffer. We live in a world where arguing with your wife is considered emotional abuse, telling her that she is spending too much is being a control freak, and wanting regular sex is misogyny. These same women cannot cook, clean or handle the kids without stressing out, but we men are expected to make it better.

Women are taking advantage of men in every way possible, and the government is enforcing this scrupulous behavior. To sum the current circumstance: women have choices, men have responsibilities. Marriage only benefits women. Men accept all of the risk. Marriage amounts to a no-win struggle of mutually assured disappointment.

A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband, while a man never worries about the future until he gets a wife. – Charles Schwab

Marriage today has the potential to be the most damaging decision a man can make in his life – it’s a legal extortion scheme. You’re betting a woman half your net worth that you’ll love each other forever. Marriage is handing a woman an axe, then putting your head on a chopping block in the trust that she won’t cut it off. It’s not reciprocal. The modern state of matrimony has become the legal equivalent of gambling. Getting married is like betting half your stuff she won’t cheat on you. No matter what she contributed, or did not contribute to the marriage, half of your stuff is hers. If you are not married, she has no claim on your assets, nor you on hers. That fact alone makes rejecting marriage the smartest financial move a man can make, and lets you avoid career slavery. Marriage used to be a business and social partnership for the accumulation and conservation of wealth and the raising of children. Now marriage is the new retirement pension for modern women, rewarding them for breaking a contract. A woman that won’t take your name in a marriage will gladly take your house in a divorce. You can get the same effect of marriage by selling your house, giving all your money away and have someone castrate you. There is no incentive for men to get married. Society has stacked the deck against men in modern marriage.

Whoever invented marriage was creepy as hell. Like I love you so much I’m gonna get the government involved so you can’t leave. – Jim Carrey

canival9885 · 2022-10-29T21:44:00+00:00

Don't get married and everything is solved.

BaldieGoose · 2022-10-29T22:11:52+00:00

So true. My wife has everything and it's not good enough for her.

Agitated-Fee-6497 · 2022-10-29T16:49:00+00:00

As soon as a woman thinks she can upgrade or sees someone more fun in her eyes she is out. There is no life long commitment these days.

georeddit2018 · 2022-10-29T20:15:21+00:00

She is right. But watch out for the youtube chameleon that call herself to be Redpil. Few of these ladies figured out that there a lot of money and attention to be acquired by providing redpill content.

FunkyTownMascot · 2022-10-29T20:29:15+00:00

Crossposted to r/AgainstMatrimony

Specialist-Holiday61 · 2022-10-29T23:56:58+00:00

If you think about it…

The system is bad, sure. Women aren’t the issues. Men are the problem because the fools keep getting married. If it stopped, laws would change…guys are always feeling “lovey dovey” when they are about to get married and only find channels like pearly things when he has been bent over before the judge in divorce. Stop letting your penis dictate your future. Stand up against these laws and do it NOW!

Janus_is_Magus · 2022-10-29T16:12:34+00:00

100% spot on and well said.

AudreyTooTwo · 2022-10-29T19:48:33+00:00

My contributions:

http://black.blue/marriage/She_Took_It_All.m4v
http://black.blue/marriage/Sell_It_To_Me.m4v
http://black.blue/marriage/This_Face.m4v
http://black.blue/marriage/Flinging.m4v

caliguy75 · 2022-10-30T18:17:49+00:00

Every man needs to check out Richard Cooper...strong successful man. He has well over 100 you tube videos on the subject of relationships, the games women play and the lies men fall for.

PS: women hit their sexual market peak in their early 20's and men about 40 when they have established themselves, have a good career, own a house and nice car.

I know the game very well. Once a woman has your child, she owns you until that child's hormones kick in. She gets alimony and child support while she fucks some looser guy on your dime. This looser also gets to see your kid morning, noon and night while the gets one weekend a month and maybe a pizza dinner once a week, if he is lucky.

Certain-Line-6351 · 2022-10-29T16:14:08+00:00

She’s as right as you can be.

Alaric_theGreat · 2022-10-30T00:10:51+00:00

Very well said... I agree 100%

communistakeover · 2022-10-29T16:27:12+00:00

She’s right of course.

The struggle is the few women that think the way she does now can’t find a man because men believe all women are that way. 🤷‍♀️

soriambi · 2022-10-29T17:50:55+00:00

I guess it was only a matter of time before this sub went full trad wife/incel. Been a blast, gentlemen. I’m gonna go enjoy my new family and not an entire gender for my problems.✌️

whatskeeping · 2022-10-30T03:28:50+00:00

So true. Such a bummer. I know my son has no intention.

Bitter_Cherry2057 · 2022-10-30T07:16:30+00:00

Don’t you think the title should be every young woman needs to hear this? I feel like we as men know we’re fucked either way.

NumerousChipmunk3389 · 2022-10-30T17:01:50+00:00

Amen. After my divorce I decided to never do it again. No marriage and no more kids.

Title	Every Young Man Needs to Know This
Author	Consistent_Jelly_955
Upvotes	56
Comments	60
Date	October 29, 2022 3:49 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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