Anyone else in a post divorce relationship experiencing the complete opposite of what you had? I know I’m extremely lucky - I’ve been “dating” someone for about 8 months (separation 18 months ago) and I’m still having moments of “holy shit! Is this what a healthy relationship is supposed to look like?”

I don’t mean to “rub it in” to those of you suffering the worst of the worst right now. But to those who have wondered if they were being conditioned to accept what they had as normal or at least acceptable, to ignore the manipulation, just know that there IS something the opposite of that out there. Whether you find it in yourself or someone else, you will find it. Peace.