So the drama continues....she went away this weekend by herself to "think". Comes back on Sunday and says she wants to "talk". Smiles at me, thanks me for cleaning the house, etc. So we talk and have a good heart to heart. She says she blames herself for our marriage. I asked her about the separation she asked for and says "well I want to talk to the marriage counselor and my therapist before I make any decisions". We talk for about an hour, she says "This is probably the best thing that has happened to us in our marriage"...blah blah blah She cries, I cry, and at the end she gets up and gives me a "long hug and kiss on the top of the head" while saying.."This isn't me letting down my boundary".

Well now this morning she is back to being cold, not looking at me, not talking to me via text.

Yeah I'm not fooled...she was probably gathering info or was playing some sort of mind game to hurt me more because she knows I miss her and still love her. She probably had a voice recorder going. Still gonna file today and let the courts figure it out.

Another thing I noticed...she refuses to give me the keys to our shared safe here at the house. I've asked to get copies of my birth certificate and our marriage certificate for benefits enrollment but she either makes an excuse or ignores me. I know what's up lady!